Should I let my boyfriend believe that he is really stronger then me?

[Anonymous]

My boyfriend is almost the exact same height and weight as me plus I can kick him in his nuts but he still thinks he is stronger then my and I think it helps his self esteem for some reason to believe that I couldn't just easily beat him in a fight. Should I just let him have his little fantasy or should I destroy it by showing him that he isn't stronger then me?

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Whoops I triggered a lot of guys with this post lmao

[globetrotter22]

Okay you can “kick him in the nuts”. You know what men can kick other men in the nuts and it’s considered a low dirty cheap shot. There is a reason why they stop mma fights when this happens.

The vast majority of men are always going to hesitate to fully engage fighting a woman (even when it’s justified). It’s been drilled into our skulls at a young age not to hit a woman. Even if it’s a fair fight, we are defending ourselves, etc. society STILL protects a woman in those circumstances. There was a incident that happened a few years ago where a woman was harassing an innocent man on a subway. He tried to ignore her but she hit him and he hit her hard with a bitch slap. Immediately other guys jumped on him and he still had to spend a few days in jail. But video evidence showed he was completely in the right. But even after that some libtard feminists were saying “he shouldn’t of hit her”.

I know you think you are being playful here but don’t push it please. Your boyfriend wants his masculinity respected. Don’t shit test him.

[ohshee]

I like you you are hot you are sexy you are bold and I think that's great
I think you'd be a fun person to hang out with just because of your attitude the way you see things.
I think we just question you're going to have a lot of guys beach park and biting because that's just who they are I know a few girls they can honestly beat the shit the fuck out of most of my friends.

For me I wouldn't even try and my friends would I couldn't try it because I would not want to ever hit them you just have to be careful the way that you say it to him because guys do have egos and they will never let you win that one because then they feel like a big puss but I think that's great I think you're cool for even saying it out loud

[laraWM]

I don't think you should do something, maybe explain him you're not weak because you are a girl.
But if you are thinking about strength, he has probably more than you.
And please don't kick him in the balls even if it is probably going to work because it is dangerous and he'll be mad at you

[Anonymous]

If you take an average man and woman of the same height and weight, the man would EASILY take her in a fight, even if she's allowed to fight dirty. He can probably take you, and then if he can't it's completely natural that he would assume he can.

[Phoenix98]

I hate to break it to you but men have naturally have 33% more skeletal muscle on our bodies roughly 26 more pounds then women by default.

on top of that our muscles naturally have a higher maximum power output then women’s and our muscles are naturally stronger and have more denser muscle fibers then women.

As as well as more around 30% more upper and 26% lower body strength then women.

even if your the same weight as him that doesn’t mean your stronger then him.

And I know I'm right because I was a personal trainer and knowledge on the human body, physiology, biology and specifically strength was kind of my speciality.

Not it to mention I’ve got countless doctors, scientists and science itself to back up my claim.

And the nuts are not a muscle they are a sensitive and vulnerable organ.

he could pinch you in your equivalent and you’d go down just as easy. Build push came to shove he could and would overpower you.

[libsaretards]

Let's assume this is not a troll topic. Why does it really matter who is stronger? Why does it bother you so much that he believes he is stronger? Finally, is there any real point in proving your strength or for him to prove his? I've met plenty of women who are stronger than me. If you love each other, it really does not matter. Men take pride in their strength because they want to be the protector for their women and feel useless if we do not feel needed. However, you do not have to be stronger than someone to protect them. Both of my exes were stronger than me yet would freeze in fights that I would not hesitate to jump into. My advice to you would be to not challenge his strength unless he is actively disrespecting you about it. However, if he is trying to put you down because he thinks he is stronger, just leave his ass. Trying to prove who is stronger/weaker is toxic af in a relationship.

[bamesjond0069]

When i was just recovered after an injury i hadn't worked out in over a year except like 2 or 3 warm up gym sessions going light to start back up. No sports or exercise for the whole time though. And a female athlete who was only about 2 inches shorter than me wanted to work out w me. I squatted and deadlifted way more than her. I (kinda fat mode) ran faster and longer than her and i did overall more volume than her and i felt like i was going easy still.

Women are just not capable of keeping up with men really in general.

[Coollifebro]

Nah but next Time you're sleeping together maybe "accidentally" knee him there or start playing with his balls and squeeze them a bit hard and pretend like you didn't know his balls were so weak he couldnt tolerate any pressure, show him how easily you could cause him pain

[shepardmaddison]

If you are stronger than him I would try to show him. But be sure that he won't find you unattractive because of that.
I personally would like to have a strong girlfriend to have a challenge. But it's difficult to find one, and I'm not even strong...
Why do you know you're stronger? Cause men are usually stronger even if the girl is taller or heavier.

[Anonymous]

Paraphrasing:

My girlfriend is almost the exact same height and weight as me but believes she is stronger than me, i think it helps her self esteem for some reason but I could just punch her in the throat, what do you think? Should I let her enjoy her fantasy or should i destoy it by showing her that she isn't stronger than me?

How does what you said sound now?

[Opinion Owner]

Update:

Wow, you are actually retarded.

[Nik1hil]

Destroy his fantasy...

So he can rise up and workout and become a real man.. That can take you on a cold floor and pound you...

[humanearth]

Show off and put the little boy in his place

Then get a strap on and really show him who the man now

[rcljr]

Why in the hell are you wasting time on a childish kids playground game? If you love each other get on with your lives together.

[Anonymous]

Really? Do you want to open that Pandora's box? Like you might start finding all kinds of things about each other. Like how he fakes all his orgasms with you... just sayin

[Hanrej]

It seems weird to me how you're so certain you would win easily without actually fighting. I say go ahead. 😊

[_Troian_]

Lol being strong isn't about who is taller or weight more, its about how much you can lift

[Dinosaursandanime65]

If you really have to take advantage of a guy for that then you can’t beat ANYONE truly.

[siegetiming]

Anyone can kick a guy in the nuts. It's a vulnerable part of our bodies.

[hhhffg7889]

Don't hold back. Make him get stronger if he wants to be stronger

[Megakvnhanma]

Girls always think they’re stronger than they really are

[boggboss]

Meh sounds like trolling to be honest

[Wise4myage]

Go for it Hercules. 😂

[Morgador]

No keep him in check lol

[whosnumber1]

kick his ass Seabass!

[Jayplays900]

A woman who can kick my ass is kinda hot, ngl

[Anonymous]

Just have an arm wrestle with him.

[Anonymous]

crush his ego it'll be fun

[Opinion Owner]

listen my significant other is a blue belt and even i wouldn't fuck with them not without risking my shoulder and arm being broken

[Opinion Owner]

although it would be hot as hell if they were to sit on top of me pinning me down

[PeterCharie1991]

Is he into bdsm?