I'm pregnant with his baby and very hormonal. I'm struggling massively with my self esteem, I've even spoke to him about this before I was pregnant about the same girl, yet he's still doing it.
I don't know what to do, I'm so upset, yet he's ignoring me, and probably manages to sleep fine, yet I'm gonna struggle massively. Help!😭
My boyfriend was doing that and we had a good old chat about it. I established with him a girl with her boobs hanging out and filtered to hell is not the type of pic you like if you are in a relationship because those are the girls wanting male attention. They also want it from men that are available to them which he is not. I stated if she’s at the park with a kid or stood with her boyfriend, you know something actually meaningful rather than a “look at me boys” pic then fine! I then told him it made me very uncomfortable and if he continued it would be the end of us.
I showed him some examples of guys pics I had liked then told him how I felt when I liked them pics. Eg a guy I know stood in a nice place smiling. I explained I knew the guy and felt happy for him because he was on holiday or whatever not because I want to get into his pants or I think he looked good.
Also a guy you are pregnant to who behaves like that whatever time you wake him needs to be put in check. How will he feel when the baby wakes him crying or he doesn’t sleep for 3 days because you are in labour? He needs to grow up!