My boyfriend likes this girls profile pictures, but rarely like my profile pictures.. do I have the right to be upset?

[Anonymous]

I called him tonight and spoke to him about how I feel, he told me I'm annoying him, and that I woke him up, and told me to go away, put the phone down, then declined it when I tried to call back.
I'm pregnant with his baby and very hormonal. I'm struggling massively with my self esteem, I've even spoke to him about this before I was pregnant about the same girl, yet he's still doing it.
I don't know what to do, I'm so upset, yet he's ignoring me, and probably manages to sleep fine, yet I'm gonna struggle massively. Help!😭

[Anonymous]

My boyfriend was doing that and we had a good old chat about it. I established with him a girl with her boobs hanging out and filtered to hell is not the type of pic you like if you are in a relationship because those are the girls wanting male attention. They also want it from men that are available to them which he is not. I stated if she’s at the park with a kid or stood with her boyfriend, you know something actually meaningful rather than a “look at me boys” pic then fine! I then told him it made me very uncomfortable and if he continued it would be the end of us.


I showed him some examples of guys pics I had liked then told him how I felt when I liked them pics. Eg a guy I know stood in a nice place smiling. I explained I knew the guy and felt happy for him because he was on holiday or whatever not because I want to get into his pants or I think he looked good.


Also a guy you are pregnant to who behaves like that whatever time you wake him needs to be put in check. How will he feel when the baby wakes him crying or he doesn’t sleep for 3 days because you are in labour? He needs to grow up!

[Alyssa11]

I’m sorry girl <3
This is so tough. You have every right to be mad and upset though.

[Asker]

It's okay hun, no need to apologise. 💜
It's horrible, he just got angry when I mentioned it, told me to go away and put the phone down (we don't like together yet)! Haven't heard from him since, and I'm struggling massively!😔

[Alyssa11]

Awww sending u lots of love! I guess I’d say focus on your baby for now. Hopefully things work out very soon. Couples go through rough patches I guess

[spartan55]

You girls and stupid social media... it's just mind boggling.

[Anonymous]

Yes, you should be suspicious of his intentions towards her.

[Asker]

He told me she's his mates girlfriend.. but it'd weird how he likes every single one her selfies ext, I can't comprehend why he does it! Fair enough if it's occasionally but it really upsets me, to the point where I just cry.😔 She's slim, I'm not. I don't see myself as pretty or whatever, especially now more than ever, and I don't get why he instantly got angry at me for mentioning it.:/

[Opinion Owner]

Yeah, you should probably dump him and tell his friend.

[TheFlak38]

cry a river