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I'm very laid back when it comes to relationships with guys. I personally value space and freedom a ton, so I feel like I'm respecting a guy when I give him space. I've always assumed guys hated clingy girls, and strived to be not clingy at all. I'm worried that I've overcompensated, and this has made me come off too cold and detached though. Obviously, there is such a thing as "too clingy". We've all met her. But maybe there is a line. Most girls come into a guys life trying to get closer while guys get to play it cool. When these roles are filled, getting in a boyfriend/girlfriend relationship is easier. *(I like this guy a lot, and I started comparing us to his last relationship, dangerous I know. His last girlfriend was a regular clingy girl. I think there relationship moved a lot faster than his and I's relationship is moving. We are already physically involved and everything's amazing. I know he agrees. I want things to progress. But I give him SO much space. And if he's not tied down he usually sleeps around. I understand this, but I want him to exclusively be with me to be honest. I've given him virtually no hints at that though other than asking him to chill. And telling him he's the shit haha. But some may not consider that a hint at all. Should I be more assertive? We don't communicate about most things directly (sounds stupid but I think we both like it this way). We just attempt to read each other and play it cool and it ends up being sexy haha. But should I cut the games and say something? Or just keep playing it slow? He's led pretty much every aspect of our relationship so far. He kissed me, usually initiates hanging out, etc. Am I being too hands off? Sorry for the length. I just can't get this boy out of my head. I'm sure if I pushed in he'd date me. But maybe we'd both prefer casual sex anyway. Dude, all of these emotions, on top of my indecisiveness. Bleh.)*