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He was shot by Kyle Rittenhouse when he attacked Rittenhouse. A convicted child sex abuser at age 18 (various sex acts with multiple underage boys), spent years in jail. In summary, the night he was shot... he was released from the mental institution, was not able to get his prescription for bi-polar disorder filled, homeless and probably hopeless. He'd just failed his 2nd suicide attempt not long before. Decided to go join in the "action" in his area.

https://www.washingtonpost.com/nation/2020/10/03/kenosha-shooting-victims/

Here's why I have some compassion...
* A common pattern of sex abusers is they were victims themselves. I consider that likely he was abused earlier in life and acting out the trauma.
* He was mentally ill (bi polar... can be attributed to prior traumas)... and obviously not getting help. Our system is often garbage... diagnose... find prescription to mask problem. Money and meds. It doesn't deal with root causes to heal the heart/soul, just masks them with meds that suspend a person in a broken emotional state. Traumatized children die young. I don't have facts... I have suspicions.

I have compassion for Jacob Blake, and the officer who shot him.

I wish there was a deeper analysis of what went wrong that lead up to these early deaths so we can correct the flaws in society. Toyota uses "Kanban" method to find and resolve root causes. We could do the same socially.

Having compassion does not undo his responsibility to behave. I find it perfectly reasonable Kyle shot him. Everyone has responsibility to manage their emotions.. and it is a major reason we have the social issues we have.

Compassion and responsibility... these might be some keys to cure to our ailing society.. before it is too late.

The definition of “creep” is that a person (usually male) is has a likely potential to be a rapist.

In some scenarios this insult is fully justified i. e. cat callers, older men flirting (actual flirting not just talking to) with underage girls, etc. I’ll gladly call guys like that creeps too. They clearly crossed the line.

But more often than not I see women calling guys “creeps” just because they don’t like them. A perfect example would be an innocent yet unattractive guy who just says hello to you. Or worse when a woman labels a guy a “creep” when he zero interaction with her but she doesn’t like his appearance and/or he is socially awkward.

The vast majority of men don’t go around labeling women sluts just because they don’t like them.

I often see adult members on this site, either being inappropriate about underage people generally, or towards underage users, or directly trying to initiate contact with them privately. I don't think the reporting systems is adequate enough to deal with these situations. I know there is an underage or under 13, or something report option, but I feel this is more to do with reporting a user under 13 posting, and not for reporting inappropriate behaviour towards a minor. Often I see users under 18, some even listed as 13-14, posting about a subject under sexuality, followed by some users asking them to direct message them, tether than try and publicly help them, this is highly inappropriate. As a community shouldn't we be more active in protecting our underage members?