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This is gonna sound confusing. Many pictures on social media have showed pictures of women with ‘no makeup’ meaning they seem to have no imperfections. Usually a bare face has imperfections like pimples, acne scars, pores, etc. Men online get confused and think the no makeup is actually a bare face but it’s achieve using makeup products to create the so called ‘no makeup’ makeup look hence the name. With this many women get upset that men can’t seem to know the secret techniques used to achieve the ‘no makeup’ makeup look. Many men think it’s no makeup but actually it’s applied using foundation, concealer, etc with perfection and skill. I myself was surprised that ‘no makeup’ makeup look exists. It’s all about creating a flawless skin with makeup that is very subtle and not the glam makeup look. I personally don’t do the ‘no makeup’ makeup look as I’m confident stepping outta my house with a bare face with natural brows (they are not groomed), surprisingly I can attract a man around my age to flirt with me which is honestly surprising and scary at the same time. Honestly I’m not mad man get confused because why get upset over small stuff like these? So what is your type?

I don’t wear makeup and I don’t shave my underarms because I only have hair on my underarms and down there, the rest of my body is silky smooth. I know there are girls and women like me in real life and every one of them has a choice in what they want to do with their bodies. I was wearing a basic sleeveless dress and I was sitting alone at a bar and there was a young man around my age chatting me up. I was shocked because I’m sure he has noticed I don’t look good in any way especially my underarms being unshaven, my face having pimples and some acne scars on my face. I was panicking inside but pretend to show I’m not afraid of him. I answered his questions and we did have a chat. He then asked me if I’m single to which I replied. ‘I prefer to stay single because I’m a burden due to personal reasons. There are way better looking girls around here why pick me when you can pick them?’ He replied ‘You have the confidence to go out like this is the reason why, not everything is about looks you know.’ He left and I saw how he looked a little disappointed. I find being single is safer, easier and cheaper compared to getting married. Since marriage does comes with lots of stress especially when there are kids involved and honestly I couldn’t handle married life. It doesn’t matter if it’s marriage life with or without kids. I just know I couldn’t handle them. I’m a weak vulnerable person so I couldn’t afford to be in a relationship where it might be a toxic/abusive one.

Like for example if the guy is tall around 6'2, attractive face (but nothing out of ordinary either) with acne scar on face (especially darker scar on cheeks rather big) random hair (not fashionable haircut just very basic short hair one), skinny and work a minimum wage job (blue collar).

Would a guy like him be considered as average or above average?

I had terrible acne during my teenage years and even though I longer have acne, but I still have post acne scars where my pores on the skin are pretty huge and obvious. From time to time my partner would comment on my skin by saying "you picked on your acne during your teenage years which caused bad scars now" it makes me feel awful like I'm not attractive enough for him and I don't even point out on his flaws but he would always judge my appearance

Im not sure what other men think of such acne scars on women. Despite having proper hygiene and eating clean, taking care of my skin these scars are difficult to get rid off. Also, the laser treatment by dermatologist is expensive.

Does it even matter to you if the girl who you are in a relationship with or dating doesn't have clear skin? Is it a deal breaker?