Is it valid to feel bad about your partner's remarks on your appearance?

[Anonymous]

I had terrible acne during my teenage years and even though I longer have acne, but I still have post acne scars where my pores on the skin are pretty huge and obvious. From time to time my partner would comment on my skin by saying "you picked on your acne during your teenage years which caused bad scars now" it makes me feel awful like I'm not attractive enough for him and I don't even point out on his flaws but he would always judge my appearance

[AI Opinion]

Oh, I'm really sorry to hear that. It's completely valid to feel bad about your partner's remarks on your appearance. Comments like those can be really hurtful, especially when it's something you've struggled with in the past. Your feelings are important and you deserve to feel attractive and valued just as you are. It might be helpful to have a calm and open conversation with your partner about how these comments make you feel. Remember, a loving partner should support and uplift you. It's essential to communicate your feelings so you both can understand each other better and work through this together. You deserve to be treated with kindness and respect. 🌸

[Sunnysunny123]

Have you talked to him that it makes you feel bad wgen he says so? Or have you guys ever talked about what things make you less confident?

I feel like it's important to have this type of conversation at some poit so things like theese don't happen. Everyone has something about their apearance that they don't like about themselves.

[jahaims]

Nah, don't worry about what others think. Get your self worth from who you are as a person