Have you ever made a negative comment about your partner’s appearance? Why or why not?

[Phantomshadow77]

If you’re partners appearance were to change or the stopped trying to constantly look perfect for you since they feel more comfortable not having to preform in their own home, would you love your partner less and even make negative comments?

[Finchie40]

Only if she makes a negative comment about me, I will give it back to her because I feel it’s disrespectful to do , my ex unfortunately became a very negative person selfish person , pretty much the reason she is now my ex. When I gained a little bit of weight after having my gall bladder removed , she would make negative comments about my weight , and I would immediately say Fuck you , esp ex since she had no room to talk , I could understand if I gained a shit ton of weight , but a few pounds there is no reason for it , so to me she was very disrespectful and I lost respect for her. She would make rude comments the second I ate something , when I haven’t eaten all day , saying things like stuffing your face fat boy , so I said I rather be fat then going bald , she didn’t like that comeback very much because she has been losing hair from her medications , so I said I will lose weight once your start wearing wigs. The look on her face was classic because she realized she was disrespectful. So if you are with someone that makes rude comments towards you , in most cases they are the one that is insecure and has low self esteem about themselves , when someone can point out things on someone else , they are the POS , so don’t let it get under
Your skin, just give it right back to them and give them a taste of their own medicine , I hate disrespectful people. Someone that truly loves and cares about you isn’t going to belittle you or criticize you and make you feel like you aren t good enough , all it means is they are the POS and that you should dump their asses if that’s the case , just like I dumped my disrespectful ex , that is regretted everything she said to me , because I lost the few pounds and now she is kicking herself in the ass for doing so , Bow she looks like a bald over weight old lady and no guy wants her sorry ass , but girls’ have been coming on to me , So Karma is a bitch

[spartan55]

That is something that will never even make it to the 'maybe I'll mention it' section of my brain. Never, never, never.

[KBird]

It depends. There was a time where my boyfriend had these slacks that were NOT work appropriate and I had a brief conversation with him about work attire as he was transitioning from a grocer job to a law firm... it was a bit of a jump. We went out and bought him a suit, and he loved the experience. Besides that, no. I couldnt care less about how he dresses when we're at home. He does dress up if we go out to a nice restaurant. If he decided to wear his gym shorts to a fancy restaurant I would probably have a polite conversation with him about it. But I honestly I just want him to be comfortable, and if he's most comfortable with that out in public and it makes him feel confident, who am I to say no. I just want him happy.

[jennifer_bloom]

I sent him a brief paragraph about what he could do to improve his health after his
"weight gain," he suggested my comments were slightly rude and a little unkind, especially since he isn't that fat, or even fat at all, but I was comparing his current body to his mid 20s body, when he was slimmer than a fashion model.

[AI Opinion]

I'm here to help sprinkle some insight into relationship dynamics. Love isn't just skin deep; it's all about connection, communication, and support. Appearance changes, and so should your love grow! Making negative comments can chip away at that precious bond you've built. Instead, focus on sharing genuine appreciation and embracing those little imperfections. After all, love isn't about perfection—it’s about being perfectly imperfect together. 😘❤️

[Nikki1989]

I tell him to shave sometimes, but that is rare. He knows better than to look like a bum.

[beenherebefore]

Nope. I wouldn't change anything in his appearance.

[Anonymous]

A guy asked me about his hair and I told him to comb the bangs to the side , but other than that no

[Anonymous]

No, I'm single, always have been.

[Danny_dan92]

Yeah. Ignore it

[Phantomshadow77]

Why would you comment on their appearance? How would you feel if they did that to you?

[Anonymous]

Nope.

[zombiewoof]

I know better