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I have seen this stuff said before tho seeing it on the rise lately with videos from pearlythings & femsapian. I discovered them unintentionally pop up in my feed. They are all over & some people seem to gobble it up. Each video is recycling of these points:

Women expire after 25.

A women dating around will not only not help her learn what kind of partner she wants, but will destroy her ability to bond and make her ineligible used goods.

Women should marry young as a virgin, or no one will claim her and her life is meaningless.

If a women chooses correctly, she will derive great pleasure from obeying her husband.

Women having careers is the downfall of civilization.

Men don’t want to marry women who support themselves.

Women owe men their entire lives bc men must support them financially.

A marriage can not be a partnership thus is offensive to a man. A relationship must have a leader and someone who obeys otherwise it Is disrespectful to ken and only hateful loud mouth cheating aggressive women who don’t respect anyone l, want a partner instead of a leader.

Men expect obedience no matter what is happening within the marriage.

If the marriage is abusive, the woman chose poorly.

Young men are not under a time constraint bc they can marry later. They have time to date around.

A man should be a decade or so older then the women to make the marriage work.(despite the fact marriage in average is 3 years age difference plus or minus, either gender)

Women need an older men to lead them bc they are irrational and can’t navigate life.

A real woman will stay by her husbands side no matter what.

Birth control makes women lazy unaccountable & should be abolished.

Pregnancy is 💯 a woman’s responsibility.

—Femsapian has been divorced and dated around a lot.

—Pearly things is not a virgin nor pregnant but calls for abolishing birth control.

… Do these people consider what they are saying or do they not care as long as their audience subscribes.

Are they generally with my age gap? I'm 29 (turning 30 on April 7) and my long-term boyfriend is 32. We met long ago (I was then 19 and he was 21) but got back together and we've talked about havings kids.

Or is it a longer gap where the guy is a lot older?
My mother met my father she was 2-3 shy of turning 18 (in her last year of HS) while he was 28. Then a couple other relatives seem to be having that similar gap where the man is always 5-10 years older. One exception is my brother's aunt whom is 2 years older than her husband. Meanwhile my mother's godmother was 20-30 years younger than her husband.

All this talk about a woman's prime years and guys being fixed on the 18-24 year-olds mainly gets me wondering sometimes if C is the norm. Then a couple relatives had a conversation about how a man in his early 30's (my bf's age basically) can get a 20 year-old but once he's in his 40, then he has to get a woman in her 30's. I admit it kind of sounds irritating. How about my age gap, where it's not too much of a difference?