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My boyfriend for 9 months was romantic at first, he listens attentively, give presents, calls every day. But he changed after few months. He rarely calls and I am the one calling him first. He doesn't listen when I speak. But he kept talking about the girl he met online who he tried to comfort. One day, we had a big fight. He was sick and did covid test. I asked him how was the result but he replied, "You're narcissist selfish, you never check the negative result I sent." I got annoyed because I never received one. I screen capture our conversations and I said. "If you think low about me, just go away! After that, he blocked me everywhere.. I tried to reconcile with him after a week but he only blamed me for everything and said I cannot take his joke. And, he still blocked me after we are done talking. Today, he knows I was infected by covid and I am so sick but he doesn't seem to care.

So my friend is 35 and saying she doesn't know what she wants to be. She's been taking on jobs that aren't long term, have no health care benefits, no room for advancement, nor any perks. She hangs around really young immature girls who aren't going places (as in no plans beyond today). Seems like she's having a crisis maybe. Then she complains about not getting a good guy but she gives every man in our apartment complex her number. These men never want anything serious, use her or already have someone then she gets mad. i feel like I'm always talking to her about my goals or career plans for the future but she never has anything going. Should I address it or let her be? She just seems lost and at her age most people have steady income and a career going.

Okay. So I'm not exactly a big social media person - but I do understand it is a bit of a social convention nowadays, a lot of couples posting pics together, etc. I have social media mostly to market my music, and I am finding that my own boyfriend does not follow my pages or support them on any platform (Facebook, instagram, etc.). He claims that he "doesnt really use those apps" but I always see him scrolling through when we are together. I've also caught him "loving" other girls pictures just not mine. Also looking at inappropriate pics of women on those sites. but again, doesn't show support for me.
Also, recently I had a musical performance and expressed that I wanted him to come. He said he had to stay late at work, and then texted me he's going home. So he didn't seem to really care or want to come to my show which was upsetting. I told him how I felt and he responded with a shallow "Sorry" followed by "whatever" "you're overreacting" and that it was "selfish of me". I dont feel like I was overreacting nor that it was selfish of me to expect my boyfriend to be more supportive of things that matter to me. So what you guys think?