Have everything in common to the point where it's creepy. We text a lot!! She doesn't seem to want more than friends but gets mad when I don't text?

[Poetic_Loner]

So I met this girl on TikTok and we happen to live in the same area but I'm currently working like 70miles away ( chef) . We have every single thing in common to the point where both of us find it super creepy and call it witchcraft lol. It's like we know everything about each other without even asking!

We've been texting for about 3 weeks now, and I've developed a lot of genuine feelings for her. Like I WANT to take care of her for the rest of my life. I've expressed myself, Told her my intentions for and with her and she usually blushes ( sends Cute stickers or voice notes). I told her if I ever make her uncomfortable with my flirting ( she usually flirts back ) or anything to let me know and she said it's totally fine and she's okay with all of it. Thing is she's giving me a lot of mixed signals to the point where I'm soooo confused. If I don't text her or just reads her messages and don't reply ( I do this to see if someone is as interested in me as I am in them cause I'm the one who usually puts in 90% of the effort) she catches an attitude... but why? She doesn't seem to want a relationship or seem to have feelings for me the way I do with her.

She'll send me cute photos, tease me sometimes ( not nudes but saucy) and make it look as if she's interested in me. We plan to meet up next week when I get back home on vacay, just to see each other and hug. I don't know what will come out of it. I plan on bringing her her favorite snacks n everything. My brain is super scrambled ATM. I'm I wanting to move too fast or she's playing games, Doesn't know what or who she wants or Isn't ready? Help!! Thanks guys in advance!! **P. S I'm a very passionate and overly caring guy by nature. Trust me I've tried to change that.

[Anonymous]

It's understandable that you're feeling confused about the mixed signals you're getting from this girl. It's possible that she enjoys your friendship and the attention you give her, but isn't interested in a romantic relationship. It's also possible that she's not sure how she feels, and is sending mixed signals because she's not ready to commit to anything yet.

It's important to communicate openly and honestly with her about your feelings and intentions, but also to respect her boundaries if she's not interested in a romantic relationship. It's possible that she's catching an attitude when you don't reply to her messages because she values your friendship and enjoys talking to you, but it's important to clarify this with her to avoid any misunderstandings.

When you meet up with her, try to have an open and honest conversation about where you both stand and what you're looking for. It's important to listen to her perspective and respect her feelings and boundaries. If you're not on the same page, it might be best to focus on building a strong friendship and seeing where things go from there.

It's important to take things slow and respect each other's boundaries and feelings. It's great that you're a passionate and caring person, but it's also important to make sure that you're not overwhelming the other person or moving too fast. Good luck!

[MrOracle]

If your life goals don't align (i. e., she doesn't want a relationship), then you need to move on. Otherwise she will just waste your time and money and you'll ultimately get frustrated and hurt.

You cannot make someone else want what you want - they either do or they don't, and you have to accept that. That's part of being an adult.

[Alwayreckles93]

How old is she?

[Poetic_Loner]

I'm 29 ... She 23

[Alwayreckles93]

OMG are you seriously kidding me? Im 30 and i look way better then her. Cut her off! I mean don't you want a beautiful successful 30 year old lawyer or doctor wife? That makes good income?

[Poetic_Loner]

Well lol you haven't seen her. And sure who wouldn't want a wife with good income?

[Alwayreckles93]

For a moment i tough the chick on that picture was 40. Wow i can see she doesn't take carevof her self. Im surr she doesn't make a good income.

[Poetic_Loner]

Lmaoooo that's not a real pic 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣.

[Alwayreckles93]

Would you guve a beautiful 30 year old woman a try? I mean chances are you finish college you got your degree making huge bucks while this chick is making minimum wage.

[Avicenna]

Sounds like she isn't ready. Keep pursuing her without pushing too hard. Show her how much fun it is to be with you.

[JustMeL120]

Dont act desparate girls hate clingy guys.

[Poetic_Loner]

Thanks for your Response. I've cut back on texting and/or contacting her but she comes into my inbox with an attitude like " Well good morning or good afternoon to you to🙄" if I don't inbox her all day. Ugh!! Confused asf

[JustMeL120]

She might be narisistic they love to be wanted and get upset of they do t get your full attention. Of i was you i wouldn't text her all the time. Show her that you are not bind amd limited to her and that you have your own life. As a girl i would be attracted to that. Obviously dont ghost her but dont let her direspect you either.

[JustMeL120]

I dont know what do advice actualy. If i was you i would keep her guessing more. I think what you are expecting is verry predicatable. Hugging and living with her forever. I think she might feel traped by this.

[In_Trance]

What are you even doing?