Why doesn't it seem like girls ask guys out?

[Anonymous]

I'm kinda fed up in the dating world... I'm tired of searching and I feel like time is running out for me. In school girls couldn't stop looking at me and now it doesn't seem like any care about me being with them... Do girls really ask guys to get to know them? Or is that just a fantasy inside my head.

[VikingWarLord]

It's only a WEST problem where women are becoming more entitled.

Get your passport and go overseas to SE Asia or Eastern Europe.

Ironically, the women are HOTTER and they WANT YOU MORE than average or obese women in the west.

Watch this video

https://www.youtube.com/embed/znZ5kpW6RCU

[peedy]

Probably because they don't
Yes I have had a few over years ask me but for the most part they dont

[FictionalCharacter]

Girls ask guys out all the time on dating apps. But guys are super picky and only match certain girls and message only the TOP 5 from their collection.

[Asker]

I actually tested this theory last week where I kept swipping right to see if anyone was liking me... The people who did like me and started messaging me over time just faded out... It just doesn't happen in my world

[FictionalCharacter]

I had over 100 likes from guys and neither one of them messaged me first. So it was always me greeting them. Most would not respond and only 5-3 would say “hello” or “sup”. And as we message each other and I think the conversation is going good, out of nowhere guys disappear.

[Asker]

I give people the chance they deserve, I always try to ask them how their weekend went or something like that... I just don't understand why I automatically get labeled as every other guy

[FictionalCharacter]

I’m not labeling you, just telling my experience on dating

[Anonymous]

I’ve asked guys out (irl and on dating apps), most of my friends have also asked a guy out so I think it’s no longer that uncommon.

[Asker]

I don't see many girls irl, and the dating sites are always filled with fakes... Nobody ever is real

[Opinion Owner]

Huh well that makes it difficult

[Asker]

I just quit caring

[Guy13]

Try meetup groups with like Hobbies. Soccer…book clubs…singles with purpose etc

[Asker]

I'm not really looking anymore... Been working 12 hr shifts and get exhausted... When she finds me I will make an effort

[Guy13]

IKR…that’s really the truth of the matter. Hammer 🔨 hit mail on head…

[Asker]

Sometimes I think it's easier for girls to find a guy... Then I wonder if it would be worth it to go gay... Haha jk lol, nothing wrong with gays... Just not me pot

[Guy13]

Well, I’ve been in athletics all my life including university. D- does not impress me. I do still have the Guys 💪 thing in my life though…. Like you say, it will be when it’s supposed to be.

[Avicenna]

Sometimes, but they usually think it’s the guys job

[driven159]

women do ask guys out you just have not

[Asker]

I'm not trying to be rude with my reply but when I say done in the dating world I mean that I'm done looking for people who don't seem to really want to be with me. I know I did not clarify that.

[driven159]

there is a person for everyone just have to cross paths it will come sooner are later

[Dohbeieirjen]

I dont chase men ever

[In_Trance]

because of the stigma around it

[Anonymous]

Yeah I never liked it either

[AssholeNumberOne]

I would