Search Results: guys wearing tight shirts

So just some background information, I’m 22 now and my dad is around 65-68. He also had stokes around 5 years ago thats left him somewhat dependent on us to take care of him among other health issues. Before the strokes though, when I was a teenager, there were times were he did stare at my body a little too intensely along with a family friend that was there as well. That was partially because I was wearing a tight fitted shirt but I wasn’t expecting them to be there. Growing up as well as now, he comments on my weight and mostly says I’m too fat. Only a couple of times when I did lose some weight, he said I’ve gotten skinner which I didn’t really care for.

Recently though, I noticed that he stares at my chest longer than normal for when I’m trying to help him get up from his wheelchair even though I’m not wearing a low cut/tight shirt. At first I disregarded it but now it’s happening almost every time I help. He also stares at the rest of my body sometimes when I’m walking by but doesn’t say anything. Today though, he was trying to look through the crack of my wardrobe door to stare at me while I was changing. I’m not sure if he knew I was changing then or what (I wasn’t naked then either, I still had my clothes on), but it made me really uncomfortable that he still glanced that way regardless besides keep on walking. I’m not sure who to really talk to about this and afraid that I’m assuming incorrectly about his character once I do tell someone. What do you guys think?

So I'm doing a language exchange thing with this guy. And I'm thinking he might be interested in more. I wouldn't be opposed to that either and have always quite enjoyed spending time with him. We always meet at 5 pm and he would usually want a beer or wine. Last time (our second time) I suggested we continued to grabbing a bite followed by some beer and ended up talking until almost midnight. After that he seemed to be more interested (lingering looks, texting the next morning with a more enthusiastic tone, etc).

Context: we're both older, I'm 32 and he's 40. But I'm so inexperienced in dating and have been chubby all my life, so not used to guys finding me attractive either. I'm a tight jeans and loose shirt type of woman, but I've been wearing some tops that showed a bit of skin, like tops with cutouts or the smallest bit of cleavage. But I know that the nature of the meeting is (as of now) still a friendly and casual thing, so I don't know.

What kind of clothing do you think is appropriate for this context?
** Please no unsolicited comments about weight, etc.