Search Results: losing a friendship

Do I Fight for Our Friendship or Let Go?(guy best friend /girl best friend just graduated high school)?

I’ve had my guy best friend friend, Trevor, for about three years. We shared deep conversations and personal struggles. Since I didn’t have a phone and couldn’t go out much because of my overprotective mom, our friendship...

mollysos

Xper 3 Age: 18

Auditory hullucination?

Has anyone else ever had this happen to you? For quite awhile now I've experienced this thing where whoever I'm in love with or mostly connected to because of being intimate, well ill hear that persons voice a lot of...

ChristianMaeTorres

Xper 2 Age: 34

Guy's Behavior

What should I do about this guy at work?

Worked together for 7 years. I’m 33 he is 52. I’ve always liked him I’ve been confused about my feelings for years due to the age gap and work dynamics but as it’s been so long, I can’t keep going on this way as my...

Anonymous

(30-35)

I am scared to confess my feelings to my female friend. What do I do?

I really like my female friend. I also think she really likes me back. When is a good time to tell her? I am so scared of losing the friendship we have built over years, but I don't want anyone else to be with her but me....

Anonymous

(18-24)

Why do I get so emotionally attached to people so easily, yet I'm scared of intimacy and vulnerability, and I'm scared to get too close to anyone?

I often feel that I'm one of the only people of which, once I care about you, I never really stop caring, even if I know it's best we part ways or we no longer have anything in common. I often think about former friends...

Anonymous

(30-35)

I have always been ghosted, ignored and been treated invisible my entire life, but I don't know why?

I've been through multiple friendship breakups, and I apparently thought I was the victim in all of them, until I recently went through a recent friendship breakup with my best friend of three years. Maybe this pattern...

Anonymous

(18-24)

So what do you do about friends that you know care about you but they don’t feel the need to talk to you as much anymore?

Making new friends is on the list for one, not replacing but new ones I am not needy by no means. I love my alone time and privacy, but I’ve noticed 2 of my close friends, one in which I’m much closer to is always...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Jealous friend kind of stalking me?

I had this former friend in the past who used to give terrible mixed signals. We’re both bi and I think she had a hunch I liked her and maybe thought I’d always be there for her. We used to work together and then stopped...

Anonymous

(25-29)

How can I trust again?

I know that trust is essential for meaningful relationships, but after losing a six-year friendship, it feels almost impossible to find someone I’ll connect with like that again.

Pupweb

Xper 5 Age: 18

My new boyfriend is worried that things haven’t changed ever since we started the relationship. where to go from there?

So I (23F) and my boyfriend (24M) have only started dating 3 days ago really. Though, we’ve known each other for over 2 years and we’re basically best friends. For months before we made it official, we’ve slowly started...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Dating

What are the signs that a guy wants to move on or just be friend?

What are the signs that a guy you've been dating might be losing interest and just wants to be friends. Guys have you dated someone you just really wanted to stay friends with even though you know she wants more? Is it...

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

Was she trying to test me?

My friend has been trying to get me to come to church with her for a few weeks. I finally caved and told her I would come. During service, the preacher asks if anyone was single, but said to not raise your hand. She looks...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Break Up & Divorce

Why could my ex be lying about me?

So I ended all communication with my ex 2 days ago because I found out he had stopped talking to me after talking to each other almost daily for 2 years and ghosted me because he met someone he's been getting to know for...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Have you regretted breaking off a relationship?

For a little background info… im 25, he is 23 we have been together for 5 years, living for 2. In the beginning our relationship was good but i wouldn’t say it was amazing, i’m his first girlfriend, he’s my second...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Guy's Behavior

What do I do if I realized today that my work crush whos also a manager now, hasn’t liked me and doesn’t like me despite me thinking he could?

He called me aside today and since he’s a different department I rarely even talk to him aside from greetings… so I was surprised he called me aside at work. turns out I might be in trouble at work for a mistake I made...

Babyotn

Xper 1 Age: 32

May I get advice on Navigating a Complicated Friendship? ?

Need Advice on Navigating this. I could really use some advice on a situation involving my best friend, and I appreciate any insights you might have. On Sunday, my best friend and I drank some wine together and things...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Other

If you stand up against a wrong but lose a lot and even get targeted yourself, it's still worthy right?

I've done this on 3 different occasions and it cost to lose so much, including losing my popular status (a privilege I had for years since middle school... all lost in one day) in my last year of HS. The first time I was...

Anonymous

(18-24)

In reality do more people actually get away with it (it can be with anything in life) and even take it to the grave?

In an ideal world, it's always the bad person feeling guilty and confessing (risking losing a friendship, a promotion, wedding gets canceled or whatever wrong they did) or the bad guy gets caught talking to their friend...

Anonymous

(30-35)