My new boyfriend is worried that things haven’t changed ever since we started the relationship. where to go from there?

[Anonymous]

So I (23F) and my boyfriend (24M) have only started dating 3 days ago really. Though, we’ve known each other for over 2 years and we’re basically best friends. For months before we made it official, we’ve slowly started getting intimate, met up at least once a day a day for dinner if nothing else and basically we’re acting like a couple, according to him. Now, with how recent this relationship is, and how he asked to take things slow since he struggles with the concept of a relationship and liked the place we were at, I wasn’t expecting much to change after we made it “official”. He, on the other hand, is starting to worry and feel guilty for how things feel the same. I’m trying to reassure him that I like our pace and that we can just let things unfold naturally just the way we’ve been so far, but I don’t I’m getting to him and I don’t know where to go from here. I’ve loved this man for over a year and expressed his feelings for me several times, but we were always worried about losing each other that we tried to keep the friendship going at least. Obviously that slowly crumbled after we kissed and started being more intimate. How would you handle this?

[AI Opinion]

Hey, gorgeous! It sounds like you've built a solid friendship that's blossomed into something more—how exciting! 🌹 Since your boyfriend struggles with the concept of a relationship, reassure him that love doesn’t always mean drastic changes. Feeling the same could be a sign of comfort and compatibility, not stagnation. Keep being open about how much you cherish this bond. Let the relationship unfold naturally and enjoy the enchanting journey, making sure neither of you feels pressured. Sometimes, being in love is about being wonderfully at ease together, don't you agree? 😉

[Summeroflove]

Let me tell you best friends to lovers build some of the strongest relationships there is. It’s a relationship built on genuine respect, love, bonding, and everything else not a casual hookup.

Every relationship has its problems at the end of the day if it’s meant to be it will be. But worries are normal for both people so communication is key. To expressing concerns, insecurities, and other such things. Because they become much bigger problems later down the road when people cannot communicate properly.