What changed about my boyfriend?

[Anonymous]

My boyfriend says that he wants to f**k the shit out of of me and that he will... I'm actually kinda of scared lol... and I've noticed these days he gets hard everytime he thinks about me 😬

I want to know what changed... please share your thoughts and be kind.

Please note that we've been through a lot and just recently we we're speaking.

[KrystalKat]

First off. Boyfriend or not.. Does not make him entitled or give him automatic permission to have s3x with you.. If you do not want him to do that with you and your not into that? Do not keep him around if he is not respecting that you do not want to be sexual with him.. Also sexual aggression is not okay.. You are in no way obligated to care for him sexually either if his stand, goes up.. If that is not something you want or ready for and he tries to pressure you, intimidate you and says things that make you uncomfortable and scared? Thatd major red flags for me.. Do not confuse a trauma bond for attraction.. Especially if he is emotionally abusive.. Be careful.. If he is saying stuff like that.. I think he is only looking for sex than.. Nothing serious.. Also he should not be talking like that to you if you dont like it.. He is not entitled to treat you like an object now that your with him..

[Asker]

Thank you ☺️

[LeeannaDD]

Thats terrible advice. You made sooo many assumptions based on a few sentences. All while not answering her question...

[Labokachulaa]

It may be the fact that you guys spent time apart and he missed having sex with you? Although, without much context it's tricker to say what I believe may have happened.

You say that this isn his usual behavior, that's a little odd to me. However, like I mentioned earlier, it could be nothing and it's just his reaction because you haven't seen him.

[Daniela1982]

Yawn! Do the trolls ever come up with original stories anymore? Why would any of us care if he wants to fuck the shit out of you? Why do you think it's so important that you just have to share it?

[artsy_dragon]

If you're not into it say no. He might be into rough sex but talk to him if you're not comfortable!

[Anonymous]

Get a better boyfriend. One, that doesn't talk to you like a slut.

[Asker]

Thanks

[jjj101010]

Either he’s just started to notice u in that way or u have developed a lot recently

[boggboss]

Without context how can we know ehat changed

[Asker]

he don't usually talk like that

[Anonymous]

He sounds crazy.

[Aakash_Hangargi]

You know you want it , just go with it

[Fleet7635]

He probably realized just how much he wanted you