My boyfriend mood changed a lot?

[ItsMykolaJenkins]

so at home he is so sweet and caring

At work he is different, we work together, he doesn't touch me or kiss me

We went to a swimming pool he plucked a flower for me... how cute is that?

I was surprised since he is so cold and shows 0 emotions, barely touches me

I want him to make more of this cute romantic gestures, how?

Also we dont live together yet.

[Flatmanlewis]

I’d say this is one of the reasons dating at work is a bad idea. It complicates things. Nonetheless, what do you for work has bearing. If he treats you well outside work then maybe you should just appreciate that and recognize that your guy may be (wisely) one of those people who keeps a certain degree of professionalism at work.

[Wise4myage]

He's all business at work, but talk to him about being more romantic.

[ItsMykolaJenkins]

Why he gives me flowers?

[Wise4myage]

But you said, you want more romantic gestures from him.

[Backwoodsbaby]

At work it's unprofessional to be hands on but at home how does he treat you?

[ItsMykolaJenkins]

He treats me good

[Backwoodsbaby]

Then that's great he probably just don't want y'all to risk yalls job depending on how much he really invested in it

[ItsMykolaJenkins]

He plucjed a flower from a bush for me near the pool

[Backwoodsbaby]

Girl you good he loves u 💓 I'm sure

[Backwoodsbaby]

Don't forget to commecate

[Backwoodsbaby]

Stop over thinking also it ain't good I'm learning this myself

[ItsMykolaJenkins]

Overthinking is my enemy, im suffereing from it to the point i can stop talking to him because i think smth and get angry about it all in my head
See what i mean mood change? one day he plucked a flower while we were at the pool it was so cute, little blue flower i put it in my case and i will guard it forever🥰but the he does this cute thing and next day he acts like he doesn't care... i dont get why. At work i mean.
The thing is when he was flirting with me he was touching me (at work!) But then when we started dating (i rejected him for 2 years haha) he is not doing it anymore at work. should i worry?

[Backwoodsbaby]

Over thinking is not your friend don't worry or stress so much on the work as to outside of work it takes understanding

[boggboss]

Why would u want him to act romantic at work

[ItsMykolaJenkins]

Cause i love him and want to kiss him all the time?

[boggboss]

But that the type of shit that can get u in trouble normal people know how to act in the workplace

[ItsMykolaJenkins]

Well i act normal at work

[boggboss]

Yet u want him to be romantic at work thats nit normal

[ItsMykolaJenkins]

So...

[boggboss]

What do u mean so like I said what u want is not normal its not normal to expect your partner to act romantic at work are u trolling sorry?

[Pyrofox]

It's called trying to be professional. 😅

[tanvishah123]

Talk to him

[ItsMykolaJenkins]

About what