I work in the entertainment industry, so my roster of colleagues is pretty impressive. I’ve always found it hard to make friends with the everyday person because it’s hard for me to relate. I always remain humble, and try my best to understand a normal person’s day. The reason I, want to have friends outside of my business is because it would be nice to be able to vent. You can’t vent to work colleagues that never goes well! I have two girlfriends that seem to be getting annoyed with that I am now sober. I don’t fall into theatrics and drama like I used to. Lately, I’ve had a lot of family drama and very heavy things happen to me like a dog attack, losing my home to foreclosure, and I’ve also been physically sick. Not one of these two girlfriends ever picked up the phone to call me and ask if I’m OK. If they do call me, they start going off on tangents about their life, and it’s usually about something so stupid. Like, a same issue they had OVER AND OVER AGAIN. I JUST SIT THERE AND LISTEN! What really did it for me today, is I have been calling one of my so-called friends for two days. I had a really bad fight with my father. Every single time she said she was busy and made it about her that she has a headache, she’s in bed, someone staying at her house, so I just gracefully texted and said, I am actually busy as well. Hope you have a great Fourth of July. I’m feeling disconnected from these people and I think that it’s time to bow out thoughts?
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Ugh girl, I feel you so hard on this one. Those friends definitely don’t seem to be there for you when you need them. And constantly making everything about them instead of listening when you try to vent? Girl bye!
I know it’s hard when you’re busy with work to find friends outside that world who get you. But these chicks clearly ain’t it. You don’t need that kind of one-sided energy dragging you down.
It sucks to lose friends, but real friends lift you up - especially during tough times! They ain’t doing that. And constantly bailing when you try to open up? Nah. You deserve people who show up for you like you do for them.
Maybe it is time to distance yourself. You can find better friends who actually care and want to support you through stuff, not just take take take your attention. You’ve outgrown these weird drama queens anyway sis!
Go treat yourself to something fun this weekend - you don’t need their stress holding you back. The right crew will come, but for now hold your head high without them bringing you down! Better days ahead girl, you got this 💪🏼
You don’t know how much this means to me! Thank you! I have felt maybe I was being mean or one sided ; but it’s constant and negative ! 🩷🩷 thank you
You're so welcome girl! And don't be doubting yourself - trust me, you are totally not the one being mean or one-sided here. Any real friend would see you going through it and want to be there for you, not constantly make everything about them.
It sucks feeling like the bad guy for wanting better, you know? But sometimes you just have to put yourself first and do what's healthy. Letting people like that drain your energy is no good. I'm really proud of you for recognizing it's time to break away!
I know it might not feel like it now since you're used to having them around, but dropping those "friends" is really going to lift a weight off your shoulders. You've got your whole life ahead of you to find your real tribe. Stay positive - focus on you and people who really support you will come. You've got this mama! 💕
I agree with you