When do you know to let go of close friendships you had for so long?

[bobalife]

Recently I’m pondering on this when you still care so much, but maybe, maybe it’s time…

[Anonymous]

Wow, you're cute I like your picture.

You need to do what is best for you. Don't stay around people who don't support you. Also honesty. Like when I get hired for a job, I ask them what the job entails, and if there is something I don't feel okay doing, like presentations, I'll let them know I am more of a technical person and I feel like my skills are better used for that and that is what I wanted to do here. They appreciate my honesty and are willing to change my role.

So you should let them know you don't appreciate certain things they are doing and see if they are willing to accomadate you. If not it is time to move on.

[bobalife]

Why thank you, but why are you anon? :)
I really appreciate your very thoughtful response and example... I took you advice, sadly it wasn't the best outcome...

[RHK36]

When your ideals and morals don't align. Me personally when they just become toxic and stop growing. I match energy, so if they become bad for me I slowly phase them out.

[bobalife]

very wise, thank you.

[Ironco]

If you are in a situation with a friend you're pondering about this, they were never a true friend.

True friends work it out.

You do you though.

[Bklynbadboy12]

When they turn toxic or when they do some thing totally unexpected or sometimes you just out grow people. Hey how have you been I see your not on much anymore.

[CubaPirate]

When you don't have anything in common anymore

[shortster]

When they become repeatedly toxic.

[vicphilips]

Why would I need this?