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I'm not sure why but I been a magnet for taken women all of my life.

taken women have always opened up and show interest in me the most just to for me to end up heartbroken later on when they announced they were taken all along

I still remember back in high school there was a girl who was taken that always used to check me out. one day while switching classes she and her boyfriend were walking in front of me and she looked back and stared at me while they held hands. is crazy how she even announced she was pregnant with his ass around that time and her preggo belly started to become more noticeable weeks later.

a year or two later the one that almost won the title as my first girlfriend revealed that she was already taken herself just when I was getting ready to meet her. I obviously burned the bridge with her because I found out that she was trying to breadcrumb out of me

in college things were not so different. girls who would walk with their S/Os on their way to class were always the once that checked me out and showed interest in me.

till then I couldnt help but to be paranoid and ask any woman who tried to click with me if she already has an S/O. however I always heard that assuming that a woman you are interested is already taken can come off as beta behavior.

I saw a bit on YouTube which made me cringe a bit. It was satire but it started with a girl telling her boyfriend she's going on a girls trip, just a few of her friends.

Okay, then she says they're going to a club where there's a lot of guys there, he asks why nobody is bringing their boyfriends, she says all her friends are, but she wanted to just go with them.

I know it's satire, but the second I hear "girls trip", I say pretend to be okay with it, but if the key she has to your apartment still works when she gets back, then shame on you for letting her cheat. Even if she hasn't done it yet, the second she walks in and mentioned a girls trip, she'd already made a conscious decision to cheat, months before the "trip" happens.

I don't know, am I being paranoid and insecure, people? Before ladies start saying it's stupid, flip the script. If I was your boyfriend and I wanted to go to a bar with all of your friends and I said you can't come, what then?

Those locks should be changed while I'm out and you should have thrown all of my personal belongings out of the window, that same night. To do anything else is to allow yourself to be disrespected and spit on by the person who's supposed to love you, so please don't ignore signs.

Before accusations come in, no, I didn't get cheated on in this fashion. It did happen, but not in this way, it was much more of a sudden thing. The only indications one of my 3 relationships gave of infidelity was her acting nervous around me despite me being always supportive. Maybe I supported her wrong, maybe when she was crying and asked me to leave one night after a huge fight with her mom, I shouldn't have held her, anyway, or maybe.

But in the future, if a girl I love cries, you'll have to strangle me to make me stop trying to comfort her and even then, my dead arms will still keep her warm, so judge away, if you like