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I'm not talking about wearing a black suit (with a different coloured shirt and tie), or a black dress, or black outwear like coats and shoes, or black lingerie or underwear. These items are pretty much staples in most peoples' wardrobes, so don't include those. And I'm not talking about funerals and formal events.

I'm talking about an entire, head-to-toe all-black outfit, not mentioned above.

I've noticed some people wear almost no black. Sometimes it's generational. My grandfather, now deceased, once remarked, "In my generation, black is associated with funerals. It's too dark to wear otherwise." And there's a whole bunch of people in my family who, strangely rarely if ever, wear black, which I find very odd.
I know it's impractical in the heat. But what else?

I love it. I wear a lot of it. I always feel good in black, and I like it on others. But I like urban, cool, edgy, formal, all that.

How about you? Do you wear it head-to-toe, and how often?

I find it to be very flirty, especially if I took extra time with my makeup and outfit that day
When out with my guy buds who are pretty good looking guys, women yell out pretty racy remarks, "Ay papi!" or "He can have this all night!" the other women who hear ooing and giggling

I do feel there is a line though, cat calling very raunchy stuff like, "my dick is so hard babe," or "Id sit on his face," (commonly heard in my city lol,) is a bit too overboard. Touching any part of a person as well.
It seems everything men do is taken as being sexually aggressive when his intentions are just to express a strong romantic interest.
Personally, its a bit uptight to be offended by someone directly expressing how sexy or beautiful they see you as.

I have cat called at men, and have been cat called frequently commuting in our busy urban areas. Men, or gay women, will even sit next to you on the city train just to tell you how pretty you are and if youd be interested in going out sometime. Its flattering.

I do not see the point in making a man's advances at me more difficult by giving him attitude for complimenting my body. I do not understand how we are taught to be confident and beautiful, but when people compliment us its a bad thing?

So I find it flirty!

Apparently they tested several missiles including one that was created to be able to withstand entry back into Earth's atmosphere. He said it was their gift to America's "4th of July" holiday and asked his officials to frequently send big and small gifts to America. The missiles are powerful enough to reach the US mainland, even as far as Alaska. The plan is to outfit the missile (s) with nuclear warheads.

I say 'claims' because apparently North Korea has a history of grandiose statements like this with nothing happening and it's like an unspoken rule to not take what they say seriously unless another source confirms their successes. This was apparently in response to President Trump claiming that he wasn't worried about it. Trump's Twitter response to the missiles on the 3rd was, "Does this guy have anything better to do with his life... perhaps China will put a heavy move on North Korea and end this nonsense once and for all!"


Both Moscow and Beijing are concerned about the likelihood of armed conflict whereas Trump doesn't really seem phased.


"In a joint statement, China and Russia’s Foreign Ministries warned the situation on the Korean peninsula is so tense 'it could lead to an armed conflict.' And it chastised the 'relevant parties' – Trump, as well as Kim – to 'refrain from provocative actions and warlike remarks.' "

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