How I make my crush regret rejecting me and possibly pick me in the future?

[Midnightdancer]

I told her how I felt two nights ago , she was flattered by it but said I’m not her type because of my body and said I’m too thin , I don’t want to change my body , I’m extremely upset because I assumed she was interested in me in the same way , she said she still wants to be good friends with me and nothing has changed and still wants to hang out with me outside of work. She’s 31. She constantly around and constantly flirt and do lesbian stuff with me no matter how big or small or keep dropping the hints on purpose. I don’t mean an one off , she was constantly at it with me , even on text which I still have. And I couldn’t go one night without her doing it whilst she was working with me on the nights we was both in. She’s been doing that ever since I started working there just over an month ago. She knew me an year before but from an Dance competition and fait kept brining us together , she put in an good word so I could work with her after Other places I didn’t fit in kept for this one. Some of her behaviour was buying me drinks which I Never asked for , constantly touching me and not just normal places I mean anywhere , sitting on my lap , constantly making sexual remarks to me every time I got dressed into my outfits , trying to get me to do an sexual position with her in an vip room , always commenting on my Instagram posts which isn’t bad and could be taken either way but she never missed any very rarely she did , and always on about sexual relationships and things she’s done , like In full detail to me , and two nights ago she got me to put in my tampon In front of her she sat watching , always making lesbian jokes too and sexual jokes towards me , also she would follow me everywhere In the club , we talked about everything too no matter how personal. I really want her to consider me in the future, right now she’s on tinder looking for other girls. I really want her to feel the same way about me as I do her sometime in the future if possible for her.

[WonderBell99]

I am going to call this a troll, but then again, eccentric people and situations exist, so I will give you the benefit of the doubt and try to craft a well written opinion.

If you feel like she is leading you on, maybe it is best you distance yourself from her until your feelings for her fade. Does her strange behavior make you question things? Make you feel confused? Then it’s best you have a heart to heart chat with her about this. You did your best. You were brave enough to profess your feelings for her, but they were not reciprocated - hence, you should not try to press this matter anymore.

She has made it plenty clear that she is not interested in you romantically or sexually. Maybe she is playing games or maybe she was unaware that she was leading you on.. who knows? What matters now is that you have to focus on yourself.

Does she behave this way around everyone or only with you? Either way, you cannot ‘’make” someone like you or regret rejecting you. Rejections suck, that’s for sure, but now you know that she isn’t the person for you. You should concentrate on moving on from them and finding a person who would love you for who you are.

Good luck.

[caring__1]

Apparently she sees you as a play toy only. For a long-term relationship, she wants a particular image, and you aren't that image. Maybe being with you just makes her self-conscious about her own size. She may prefer staying with those who are similar to her rather than make any changes in herself.

Many people are willing to make the most of what is present, while they wait for what they are actually seeking. At least she is open and honest with you and saying that is all you can expect from her. It's up to you to determine if you want to put energy into being her space saver... till her ideal shows up. She is unlikely to change her mind about you, so if you want something long-term, keep looking elsewhere.

[Guy13]

You can not make or trick someone into loving you forever…🤷🏻‍♂️

[Avicenna]

You can’t control that

[KatherineJ]

You can’t “make” anyone do anything.

[PrettyPriya]

Do you often find yourself putting a tampon in... in front of people? Yeah, me either.

[KatherineJ]

@PrettyPriya yeah, that’s a HARD no.

[WonderBell99]

@PrettyPriya Honestly, im calling this a troll.

[PrettyPriya]

@WonderBell99 you are most likely correct but you know what admin will do if I hide this...

[Snedger____]

Be sexy and rich.