How do you make someone regret rejecting you?

[Anonymous]

Please don’t tell me to move on. I want real advice please...

[CurLyF]

Make it look as if it wasn't a big deal, like if you were rejected by a 5 year old, doesn't matter. Act as if nothing happened, like it was a tiny unimportant thing. Be super confident but not arrogant or rude, and most importantly improve yourself. Excercise, dress up and find another guy to date pronto. I mean, don't make it look like you are easy and jump from one guy to another, but rather act as if it was a divine gift that he didn't fall for you because now you got someone so much better. Even befriend him or find a way to hang out more so you can even metion to him in a friendly conversation that it was better this way, that you two probably wouldn't have worked either way but at the same time try to turn him on withut being obvious, make sure you look amazing and show just a little bit of skin. And you are not going to like it but honestly move on, because I've noticed when it comes to love and dating that when you want someone real bad, it rarely comes true, and when you are completly focused on yourself and are content whit how things are, everything happens naturally. And that independant behaviour is what really attracts them and makes them insecure, gets them thinking that you didn't really needed or wanted them and hits them in the ego.

[Ozanne]

In most cases, nothing you do will make them regret rejecting you. They did and you becoming hotter, smarter, better, isn't going to change that because some people just won't care what you do with yourself.

I say this from experience. I was in a position where a guy I rejected made a point of doing all these things to seemingly improve his life, then making public announcements about it on social media. I didn't care that he went to college and got a job, I didn't care that he lost twenty pounds. I didn't care that he bought a new car. I simply didn't care about *him* and no amount of whatever he did to improve his life made a difference. I just didn't want to be with him.

As for me, I've been rejected and walked away. I did have some guys call me asking me, "Hey, you didn't call me," and I would say, "Yeah, because you aren't interested, so?" These types of games of cat and mouse were just silly to me. If the game being played was to get my reaction, it was a bad call.

I always thought I made an amazing ex. Once broken up with, I don't give a fuck. I don't keep them in my phone, I don't drive by their work, I don't become friends with their new girlfriend. I just DON'T. I'm gone. My efforts were always put forth to my future happiness. Whatever the guy thought of me before, or wished he wanted, is over.

[Ozanne]

Thank you for MHO :)

[Itsok2behapp-e]

You don't.

Do move on my dear, please :-)

Why live in the past? He said no. Let it be.

In your world, at this precise second there are two men in your life:

1) The man whose opinion you're reading and once you've read it he walks out of your life forever... Unless you respond and he may reply back if he deems a response is justified and required.

2) The man who rejected you.

That's it. Your life is over. There are no other men in the world, right?

Wrong!

If someone rejects you so what? You do and must move on. There are many more men out there.

Many more who'll reject you and then one day you won't be... If you're not dead already by then.

[Itsok2behapp-e]

Thank you for MHO :-)

[WesBrewer]

there are two ways I can think of that might work, but I'm not sure they will.
1. become the nicest possible person you can be, be nice to everyone including them and give everyone including them cards during holidays, and essentially make him regret hurting someone so nice.
2. this one is basically just violence. embarrassed and humiliate him as much as you can. maybe get a posse to knock him around a little, and every time you do it, say it's because he broke up with you that you are doing this, but if you go this route you can't possibly recover the relationship, at least I don't think.

[Cynicaldreamer]

You don't. I know that's not what you want to hear, and if he hurt or shot you down? Yeah, you want him to suffer! Been there before...

But unfortunately, no matter what you say or do, it won't have much effect on him. He rejected you because he wasn't interested in you. You can try to make him jealous by seeing or flirting with another guy, but as I said- if he's genuinely not that into you, he won't care.

The best advice I can give you is to ignore him. Don't waste any of your time or energy on him! Then focus on YOU. Give yourself a nice makeover, hit the gym and tune up your body (assuming it needs any work), buy yourself a cute outfit to boost your self esteem or makes you feel good about yourself. Not to impress him, but to give off a positive energy so you can attract a guy that won't reject you.

[seanras]

Work out and become sexier. Take a moment and think about the fun things you used to do before the whole relationship or series of events and just go ahead and do them.

Another thing, if it's worth anything to you - don't try and do all these passive aggressive things - you'll look back and feel sad about it when you truly find love. Instead, if you let it go and another great guy came your way, you'll feel like the universe rewarded you for your patience and virtue. What others do defines them, what you do defines you. All the best girl.

[loveslongnails]

Well geez... sorry if you only want advice that you want to hear. The best way to make someone regret rejecting you is to STOP caring about them and show them that "you weren't better with him, but he was better with you". And what's the best way to do that? You already know the answer. There isn't an "answer" that will bring him back to you. What you don't want to hear is that by "moving on", you really won't give a shit and you'll put out that vibe for real. Once you do, he'll crave you again and guess what... you won't care !!!

[Smoke-n-Growls]

Well, the best way is just to move on. Because if they know you're doing anything to spite them (including trying to make them regret rejecting you), then they know you're only doing it because you're feeling jealous/insecure/etc.

Whereas if you legit just move on, you're showing them that you don't give a fuck. And that's ultimately the worst way to hurt someone - to show them that they don't matter in your life.

So, yeah. You just move on.
Because doing anything else just shows your cards on how insecure you really are.

[Screenwriter]

My real advice to you is that you cannot force someone to regret their actions. And it takes an awful amount of effort to try to make someone notice you when they're done with you.
If I tell someone I"m not interested or don't want to be involved with them, I can't imagine how they could MAKE me regret rejecting them.
If you're trying to make them regret rejecting you, the simple act that you're TRYING to make them regretful will backfire on you. If you're trying to do something negative toward them, they'll be assured that dumping you was the smartest thing they could do.
Just saying.

[Newhead]

The harsh truth is you cannot make a person regret losing you if you weren't significant to their lives to begin with. Ingrates love to pretend not to see your worth, but a good person's absence will always be felt. If this is about a boy, you really should move on, playing childish games backfire and wastes everyone's time. Even if you glow up, his interest in you will be superficial and not real, and if he's a mature one, he will laugh at your desperation to get his attention, ignore him and go have fun.

[Anonymous]

I'll say be active. If ya follow each other on social media, post everytime you go out. Always be smiling laughing hanging out with other people. Dont have to be guys, it can just be girls. If ur dress well and look good trust he'll come back to u. If he doesn't then his lost. Who knows, by then u probably have someone else

[knottywriter]

Perhaps the answer is the appearance of moving on. No, you donate to move on until you are ready to move on, but you can make it look like you have moved on and show whoever what they are missing out on. Easier said than done but I am sure you can figure out how to make the person regret missing out on you.

[knottywriter]

*do not (not donate... damn auto and fast typing)

[AlienParasite]

You don't want that answer but is moving on. When you live on and focus on making your life and yourself better, when you are successful and happy without that person, is the only moment someone could regret not beign next to you. When you are miserable and do nothing to improve yourself in order to be happy, it's when he might feel glad he rejected you.

[BCA6010]

Make them see you genuinely happy and enjoying yourself with someone else.

Aka move on.

If you make a significant effort in pretty much any other way, they're more likely to breathe a sigh of relief that they rejected you and be more annoyed than anything else.

[Mickey9999]

No one will regret rejecting you if they weren’t into you to begin with. You can’t make someone like you and you sure as heck cannot make someone miss you. So buck up and live life. If you live it like they are watching and care, it’s not really your life is it? You will be rejected again and you will reject others yourself as I’m sure you already have... so stop obsessing and realize there’s nothing wrong about you

[ak3096]

Well its very thoughtful of you to take revenge from someone who rejected you, but it's utterly useless. It just wastes your time, you remain cling to the last. There is a whole buffet in front of you. THEY DOESN'T DESERVE YOU IN THE FIRST PLACE.

Here is a meme.

[rocksongwriter]

Become a knockout...

[KingOfDoriath]

go out all and look your best and flaunt it whenever they come around. Let them see that you aren't weakened by their rejection and make them see what they missed out on like your giving them a subtle 'Fuck you'. Rejection hurts like mofo but letting the person know they got to you by rejecting you is even worse for you. Stand tall and be strong.

[walt0462]

Unfortunately you can't, that may not be what you wanted to hear
My advice is to simply ignore this person!
Concentrate on being the BEST that you're capable of being then exceed that
Excell In everything that you pursue!
Dress to kill!

[TessCasie]

Just continue to move on in life. When they see your doing well without them, they'll automatically regret. Cause then mentally they'll know they weren't all that special. There are many humans too in the planet unlike them.

[CubsterShura]

Don't even try. They will regret it when you naturally find someone. Even if they don't who cares... It's actually a pain in the ass to deal with a guy friend from my high school who still bothers me because he regrets rejecting me.

[ItsTheNephilim]

Be happy with yourself and make sure they observe you that way.

[DepressionXglitter]

Make yourself look better. Don't go all out. Take your natural beauty and enhance it. Also, make them jealous by flirting with other people in front of them.

[Baubi]

Well for my point of view i think i can suggest you to be better than ever and work even harder. If you want somebody to regret you have to show them that you can move even if you're not. You have to try harder and harder and you'll get satisfaction, confidence and new opportunities that will allow you to move on. For the moment try to be better than ever. You should find some ressources about Nitezsche's works which can help you to give the best of yourself.