Meanest way to reject someone?

Question

What is the meanest way to reject someone like totally shatter  their heart and for them to take at least a month or so to get over the rejection

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Dude, don't do that. I am not saying that, If she is going to ask you out say yes. But do not shatter someone's ego so badly that she make the aim of her life just to destroy you or to take revenge from you. You can say it in a simple way. And You just mentioned that you both are friends for last 4 months. I guess you meant you were pretending to be friends with her. right? It its wrong, then friends don't do that.

If you are now rich, tall and handsome, I wish it will, but It may not last forever, but your act will last in the memory of all the other around there in the party will last. and My experience say, things always return to you sooner or later, if you hurt somebody so badly.

and I am really wondering at the double standard of the people over there. because you all are giving him ideas, What If the same girl come over here at GAG, and ask you how broken she is feeling, and then all of you will give her suggestions, that do this, f** that a**hole.

So, what I can suggest, if she has done something bad to you, just say that, you are not really interested to go out with her or you are not ready or any gentle way. If you forgive somebody for their mistake, Somebody can forgive you for your blunder. this is the rule of the nature.

Yeahhbro · Accepted Answer

lol I am a horrible person,

I know how you first gottta make some emotional attachment. Lead them on for three weeks or so, make them think you are interested in them. While you are doing that, use them for money, favors and even better for sexual favors, don't sleep with them though, when you get naked and you see them getting turned on and horny, confuse them and just tell them that you have to go.

When you have them on your hands, then make it public, make it public in front of his/her friend enemies and everybody in general so the shock and embarrasement would be harder.

Make them come to you, when they come to you, embarrase them them by looking them like garbage, then at that moment gove them the cold shoulder followed by "What the hell do you want?", they will likely stutter and then you can tell them "get out of hear weirdo or whatever, why would I want to talk to you anyways, have you even look at yourself? your "t*ts/penis" are/is too small anyways and your body is gross, why would any body want you anyways?"

muuaaahhahahahahahaha!

toulouse · Accepted Answer

"dont get attached" only because its insulting. it is not saying I do not want to be with you, its saying you have no control over your emotions, so I'm warning you, NOT to do what you do not understand you will do.

it undermines the persons integrity and volition. it s highly disrespectful. people do this to try to control the persons emotions imo. you don't say NO.. you imply its only OK to a certain extent, giving them hope, while keeping them in fear.. on an emotional string. well, that's the hope, tho I think most people have the dignity to just laugh and walk away, if they are not and shock. then they may be speechless, tho few would stay.

the kindest most respectful way to reject someone,imo, the way the will move on quickly, is to let them know,unequivocally, there is NOOOOOOOOOOOO chance. is to tell them you are not interested in being in a relationship with them,. don't even add stuff they will think you just pity them. do it quick.

oOsweet~o~nessOo · Accepted Answer

Ignore their offer and start flirting with the hotter best friend standing right next to them. Get his number, pursue a relationship, and always make out with him right in front of the other guy. Since you'll always be around, it's like an endless slap in the face.

Before I get verbally raped for this answer, it's happened to me before, so I don't need the " what if someone did this to you, your so mean, blah blah blah..." Hell yea I'm mean.

Besides the question asked for the meanest way to reject someone; this situation hurts like hell, and I believe it's a really cruel thing to do to anyone.

So yea, that's why I put it.

timetowaste · Accepted Answer

To everyone posting suggestions as to how completely tear someone down, stop and think for a second if you'd like the things you are posting to happen to you. My guess would be no.

QA, if you're bitter over the way she rejected you, I don't get why you'd stoop to her level. Why does everyone think getting even means you win. It doesn't. It means you both lose. Wanna win? Be the bigger person and treat her how you'd like to be treated.. tell her thanks, but you're not interested. That's all you have to say.

There's no reason to go out of your way to try and hurt someone so badly simply because you're bitter.

steve1122 · Answer

This is disgusting. I assume we are talking about another human being here. Not an animal, not something from outer space, but a real, live human being.

And your objective is to cause maximum emotional pain... to hurt them as much as you possibly can...

I don't care how ugly she might be; if you look in the mirror, you will see something that would make any real man vomit on the floor. Then grab you by your pencil neck and kick your spineless, skinny ass so hard the sh** would fly out your nose.

go have your head examined, sicko.

TheMisogynist · Answer

Ok, here is what you do, you lead her on for a bit, but never where anyone else can see what is going on, make it just between the two of you. Maybe even go so far as to actually go on a date, but nowhere that will have people that either of you know. Then you find out next time she is going somewhere with a big group of friends, then you show up at the same place with your friends, and when you see her, say to your friends, "Oh great, that crazy chick has been stalking me for weeks" Then let her see you, and when she tries to act like you two are seeing each other, call her a crazy psycho bitch in front of all her friends, and yours, and anyone within earshot, threaten to call the cops, tell her to stop calling you late at night, basically say anything you can to make her look like a crazy woman. Then storm out threatening her with a restraining order.

yagurlnira768 · Answer

Well...i don't think it is nice to do that but...to answer your Q...

Actually date then for...take them out to a romantic dinner...tell them you really like them...make her feel special...then

Just Say F*** OFF! YOU UGLY CUNT! I NEVER WANNA SEE YOUR STUPID SHIT FACE AGAIN! And then say...i have another GirlFriend...i am dumping you because she is better.

Then leave and moon her.

That will hit the spot.

AdeleHW · Answer

Sounds like being attracted to you was punishment enough. I don't understand the whole act of rejecting someone harshly. This person found you attractive. Try putting the shoe on the other foot and thinking how you'd feel if someone you were into rejected you in the harshest way possible. Really pathetic question, and waste of bandwidth.

katie_mcn · Answer

Ok love this question ! Lets get evil :D call her a bitch and a whore and tell her you would rather sleep outside in the cold and snow than sleep with her :L and tell her she is ugly and all the makeup in the world cudnt hide that and laugh in her face !

Or you cud pretend to go in for a kiss and wen she goes to kiss you back laugh out loud and go "haa you though I was serious ahahahahaha I don't think so ... "Walk away then :L

AslinnNight · Answer

Thats...upsetting, why would you want to do that to someone that likes you.  Thats just...evil and wrong.Just let her down gently and move on, don't be a d***.

Anonymous · Answer

Ignore them. If they ever try to talk to you, want to get with you, carry on as if they don't exist. Don't look or smile when you run into them. Also make it so there is absolutely no way there can ever be contact between you 2 ever again, delete, block, whether it's over the internet or otherwise.

Now they know there are no doors left open & zero chance

Anonymous · Answer

Hold on, you've had sex with her? In that case continue to reap the benefits!

Let her get incredibly attached to you as you use her for sex.

Then moan another girl's name; when she asks, explain how you slipped, you're just so in love with this other girl you couldn't help it. Then go on to say come on, you didn't think I'd actually want to date you did you?

Then laugh, like you think it's really funny that she thought you actually liked her.

And then pull out and jizz on her face.

ilovemyjose101 · Answer

In front of her friends, or in front of a lot of people.

And the rejection has to be really harsh... like make you

wanna crawl in a ball and die harsh.

and if If your trying to do this and make someone feel really bad,

that ain't cool dude.

mike5150 · Answer

i asked a girl out in high school and she told me to meet her on the football field at lunch. I got there and 3 guys ran up and kicked my ass and then I seen her standing there laughing. That's about as mean as it gets I suppose. I haven't asked a girl out since.

Anonymous · Answer

Write "I HATE YOU" on your ass and then take a dump on their face. There a suggestion that's about as ridiculous as your question.

Anonymous · Answer

uuhh.. why would you even do this? if she was an ex I doubt she's gonna ask you back.. and if this was a person you despised I doubt she's gonna ask you either... and if this was a stranger, why would you do it...

RebelOfNowhere · Answer

Kill their family and write a rejection letter in their blood. That would take more than a few months to get over IMO

Rita593 · Answer

Well, one of the meanest ways is to do it by text message without even bothering to speak face to face. But stop and think, if it is really worth. Aren't you wasting too much of your time planning on revenge? If you just stop thinking about her you would probably feel better.

Dark_knight_angel · Answer

tell them durring sex

JulieJxox · Answer

Are you planning on doing this to someone or what?...:/

cristinaboss · Answer

"Ew, get away from me. You're disgusting and I can't believe you would even come up to me, you gross ugly ass motherf***er."  That should do the trick.

Got2loveme · Answer

wow that's harsh...is this to reject a girl that likes you? it matters what your rejecting her or them from

DS4L_ · Answer

If I was being really harsh I'd either throw something about their not so pleasant past in their face, or tell them that they're bellow me, that I was better than them.

SublimeDavid · Answer

its obvious, being stood up is the rudest thing anyone can do.  Nothing worse then to take the time to go meet someone and they disrespect you by never showing up.

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