Who’s right here?

Danny_dan92
I’m going to give a fair warning that this will be a lot to read. But for those that take the time out of their day to read this, I thank you in advance.

I’ll try to keep it as brief as possible but basically my last ex, (yes I know I bring her up a lot. And I will explain why I am still doing so as of now)

Leaves me downright upset and also confused at the same time, since our last split I have made my best efforts of not communicating with her. But despite her actions, she tries to fool me into thinking she’s still heavily invested into me. I was gone and didn’t have my phone for the past 5 days, I come back from my training exercise and I got texts from her, note that prior to that she sent another 3 texts all of which I ignored.

But after coming back and seeing her telling me that she “loves me” still and “misses me” I’m baffled cause all while she’s telling me this she is going out on dates with guys and I’m sure she is actively hooking up with these dudes.

I don’t feel like blocking her cause that’s a childish thing to do, at least given that I don’t really have a reason too since I am not seeing anyone.

I’ll be honest tho that I am also flirting with women and when she found out she was livid. It’s as if she wants me to be all about her even tho she’s far far away atm and is flirting with and is going out with guys. And I told her that’s just not gonna happen, I’m not gonna invest in a woman that isn’t serious about me. No fucken way.

Some of the guys I am on this deployment with have wives or girlfriends back home and some of those said men are getting cheated on.

So why should I invest in a woman like her?

I pretty much told her today, that I don’t want to communicate with her cause I don’t want to be talking to her on the daily only to at some point get that text where she tells me she needs to stop talking to me cause she got serious with a guy. Call it me being protective of my feelings but this girl has crushed me in the past.
Updates:
10 mo
Another little detail that didn’t fit.

We had a rocky relationship towards the end due to her neediness and me not being around her due to the distance.

And not only did she confirm that sex was pretty much the only thing that made her stick around with me.

But she once walked away and during that time I was really depressed she left and I wasn’t talking too any woman at all.

She ended up sleeping with a guy 2 days after.

And like a fool I took her back only for it to happen again
10 mo
Another little detail that didn’t fit.

We had a rocky relationship towards the end due to her neediness and me not being around her due to the distance.

And not only did she confirm that sex was pretty much the only thing that made her stick around with me.

But she once walked away and during that time I was really depressed she left and I wasn’t talking too any woman at all.

She ended up sleeping with a guy 2 days after.

And like a fool I took her back only for it to happen again
10 mo
Another little detail that didn’t fit.

We had a rocky relationship towards the end due to her neediness and me not being around her due to the distance.

And not only did she confirm that sex was pretty much the only thing that made her stick around with me.

But she once walked away and during that time I was really depressed she left and I wasn’t talking too any woman at all.

She ended up sleeping with a guy 2 days after.

And like a fool I took her back only for it to happen again
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