An ex say he really cares about me and is still attrracted to me, wants to see but he ghost me? Why?

[Deimy]

[Anonymous]

to get you to take the bait and have him live rent free in your head. looks like it's working. ultimately you are a backup plan for when no other girl is working out

[Deimy]

He said he is totally single, he is not happy, can' t make anyone happy, he needs to endure his himself
... he can' t have a normal life now so he is not even trying with me" he " just can' t act in the way to hurt me somehow". However he wants to see me

[Iron_Man]

Maybe he’s mad about something

[Deimy]

But we have nice conversations he just said that "now he is not happy, can' t make anyone happy, he needs to endure his himself
... he can' t have a normal life now so he is not even trying with me" but he is single and he said he wants to see me for sure

[Iron_Man]

He Is it going through depression that’s why

[Deimy]

Ye my answer is the same but we are in long distance, I will come to visit his country in 2 weeks, all the signs shows that he has it, I know cause I had depression too and I am still have it... he said that now he is " turned off about sexual things " in general , this is one of the signs too.. because I know he usually has a high libido..

[Deimy]

And he is single, he said

[Iron_Man]

Make sure he doesn’t watch pornography have a great visit

[QuietRunner]

sex

he wants sex

[Deimy]

Maybe cause he is single as me

[QuietRunner]

yes true

[Kkoalalita]

You should ask him