My ex has me blocked 2 months?

[Anonymous]

He’s never done this before to me.
So I’m literally shocked.
He tormented me for a year with abuse and then this final day of abuse about a girl blocking him which resulted as being my fault I got abused and I just ignored it all and then he just blocked me and I’m like is this it is it finally over?

I’m happy but I’m also shocked is this normal?

I’m just so used to the cycle of abuse with him ye know to now be completely stopped so long I’m like is he actually gone for good, is he actually going to let me heal

Opinions please

[Anonymous]

It’s up to you to assure it’s over as well. I know cycles are hard to break free of but this sounds like one you need to be really strong and adamant about ending.

[Asker]

I think the cycle is ended but I feel I’m so broken because of it that I can’t heal

[Opinion Owner]

I can’t imagine what all you’ve been through so I’m sure breaking free of that mindset isn’t easy, but by telling yourself you can’t heal you’ll only hold yourself back. Think about it, when you wanna do something but keep saying “I can’t I can’t I can’t”, what do you think you’re going to internalize? Defeat, that’s what. If you commit to telling yourself you can do it, then watch how things change. I think you’ve gone through enough suffering and it’s time to get your life back.

[In_Trance]

Stop paying attention to your ex

[Asker]

Thanks