Why are their so many broken familes in America?

Question

A neighbour of mine is recently decided she's getting divorced. Her husband is a good husband & father. She's moved him out, got a restraining order and his this new man moved in who's kind of a creep to be honest. Her kids are having a real tough time with all this and her husband who can't see his kids is devastated. She's been going around telling various nonsense stories that paint her as the victim and her soon to be ex husband as an abusive lying cheating monster and bad father, that she is so lucky she just met this wonderful new man after leaving her ex (been cheating for a year).

What I don't get is how she can be so ruthless and cold blooded, how can she do that to her kids? I look around here and it's seems to be a very common theme and the attitude is that kids are pretty tough and they don't matter nor does the example they are set by their mothers.

Exterminatore · Accepted Answer

Part of it is the nearly complete rejection of God by society. All morals and virtue have declined as a result.

A larger part of it is because of feminism and the influence they have had on law makers. They have enabled the worst behavior in women to become the norm, particularly in divorce. It is no secret divorce laws are greatly tilted in a woman’s favor. This means they can leave a marriage with cash and prizes. I mean no offense but, women are weaker than men in every respect. I did not say inferior but weaker. We have enabled the weak to commit tyranny.

I encourage men to not marry. I am devoutly religious. I do not endorse fornication either, though having fallen there many times myself. Instead what I encourage is for men to have a wedding of the types the gays had before they could legally marry. A civil ceremony where they are pronounced partners for life, rather than husband and wife. I see this a subtle change of words but the concept is the same. There is no wedding license as it is not technically a marriage so far as government is concerned. However I think due to circumstances God would honor such as a legit marriage. You can wear rings, you can call each other husband and wife, you can cohabitate, heck even the woman can legally change her name to whatever she likes, but divorce laws will not apply as the governments…both federal and state do not consider this to be a marriage. You cannot claim married tax benefits either. Removing the option of leaving and leaching off a former husband will greatly deter the women from leaving. We know women initiate most divorces.

Because the times are so evil I recommend this alternative to men to protect themselves from tyrannical and weak women who would fleece them. It will also force women to be faithful more often as they know they will not be getting any paycheck from their exhusband.

Furthermore I recommend men have no children as these will be used against them.

Lastly I’d state the problem of divorce and broken families is almost exclusively the fault of women. ALL women. For women such as yourself that seem moral and decent, if you do not fight to end the effects of feminism and the destruction of the family you are equally guilty. It is injustice and men no longer have a voice in society to do anything about it. Only women can. So for those that see the problem and do not campaign, do not write legislatures, do not form protests, and do not engage in activism…. YOU are the guiltiest of all…knowing good from evil, but lending your silent approval, while men are wholly ignored on these issues.

The bottom line this issue is the result of societal rejection of God and societal disobedience to him, general moral decay, left wing ideology and most especially feminism.

Constatine · Accepted Answer

I think this story is some what strange. If he is a Goodman and a good father why did she kicked him out? OK ok she doesn't love him any more.. Fine it happens.. But why a restraining order? No juge just gives that.. So what happened? What did he do... Was he not the food man and father who you thought he was or did she lie about it... If she lied she can face jail time ( where I love they do)

But to answer you headline question.

It is a real hype... Not only in America. Families are falling apart everywhere... People say I do... Till the end of times... But more than 60 percent { this is a wild guess} is not getting there.

Reason? Who knows...

Maybe getting a divorce is made to easy these days. You can get divorced online in no time.. Sign PDF document... Wait for a week... Papers return... DONE.

😶

Alwayreckles93 · Accepted Answer

Let me guess your neighbor is catholic. Right? All catholic woman are like this worldly sinful never read the bible. This never happens inside a christian house hold. You are going to hate my anwer. You people think we christian were too extreme that we exaggerate. But I bet your neighbor is a witch who practice sorcery who knows she might even did a spell on this new guy. I bet she has demonic stuff inside her home. I bet she takes her poor children trick or treating ad celebrates Halloween. I bet she has evil hime decor from the kingdom of darks. This what I mean we need to be mindful about what objects we take inside our home. All I know from your neighbor the die of her death she will burn in hell andthe devil lives inside her home. All because families do not want to follow christian sanders.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Interesting how you know so much about her, him, the kids, the new guy, the relationship, the break up. Unless you’re one of the two people in the story you have no clue of what’s going on so stay in your lane. What you see as someone from the outside is not always the true reality. People hide stuff from the outside world and people lie and keep things not in their favor untold.

RealMarek · Answer

There are a lot of financial incentives for women to leave their husbands. Practically, most end up worse off in the end due to their own decisions and the expenses of maintaining a household, but up front it looks like a good deal. My ex used lawfare to get more than half our assets (the alternative was paying $200k to “win” in court and limit her to half) and alimony that might or might not last for life. And yes, the worse women talk about their ex in court whether or not it’s true, they are apt to get sympathy from the judge especially if the judge is a feminist. This dynamic is part of why the suicide rate among middle aged men is skyrocketing. This will continue until men decide to put a stop to it. When they do so collectively, nothing will stop them.

worldscolide · Answer

Look up title IV-D of the social security act. It basically gives states 50 cents on every dollar collected of child support. Meaning the states and family courts are incentivized to break up families. That and the fact that the media glorifies single motherhood, when literally the worst things in society come from single mother homes.. The vast majority of prison inmates are from single mother homes.. The vast majority of drug addicts, sex workers and the like come from single mother homes... The vast majority of high school drop outs, and teen pregnancies come from single mother homes.

Oh and here is the rub, single father homes, and gay (two males) homes don't have those same issues.

When the whole of society encourages women to leave their husband's to become single mothers you get what you have now.

Angelo75 · Answer

Nowadays people actually decide what's "normal/good" based on what the majority does.
So if enough people see in the media all kinda stories with people posting pictures of the good things (but hiding the bad things) after they left their partner... well... eventually more and more people are gonna do that.
Others will see that many people are following the same attitude, others will also only post the good stuff they are doing now they're single, so... even more people follow the same attitude.
Snowball effect.

TonyMetal___86 · Answer

If this case is true and he's innocent and good like your saying than i consider him to be a weak man...
Personally if this woman was my wife and did this to me, it's like she's writing her own execution on my hands!

If the law ain't going to give me my right than i'll take my rights with my hands, no power in the world can stop me from seeing my kid!

Anyways, in my case, my kid is with me while she lost everything since 9 years!

Feminisn had planted a lot of poison in the brains of today's women...

pethouse · Answer

I hate that pic because my buddy’s mom reminds me of that girl. His parents had 9 kids together, he was the main source of income. She practically did nothing, barely even watched her kids. When they got a divorce he got stuck in a tiny ass apartment and she got the house. Later in life she was only dating dudes that make $100,000 plus a year, don’t know how she did it but she did.

GoodGuyBreakingBad · Answer

I have to agree with you, this makes you wonder why America has so many broken relationships, so many disagreements with couples, so many divorces in America. I believe it's all got to do with sex being better with a new partner and sad cheating has to end up going on. Also, one partner could not be happy with the sex life, so that's another one.

GreenLanternI0I · Answer

SELFISHNESS and wanting to live Only for themselves so they can get as much sexual pleasure as possible, that goes for both men and women. Lucifer did an Excellent job by weaponizing sex.

Chewy______ · Answer

I work with a woman who left her husband and two kids while he's terminally ill with cancer to shack up with some Casanova. Nice huh.

love_conquers_lust · Answer

Not uniquely an American phenomenon, it’s a human one. How does one balance the risk of being attracted to someone who can do major harm to others to protect you, while at the same time that power can turn against you? Lying is a mating strategy and a tool used for control. Usually has repercussions and unpredictable backlashes.

Sevenpointfive · Answer

the answer is very clear to me. monogamy. some humans are not meant for it or try it with the wrong person. it's that simple.

Grond21 · Answer

A combination of feminism teaching women they can do no wrong, government paying women to be single mothers for decades, and a general loss of morality

Nikki1989 · Answer

People always put the blame on someone else or something else without ever considering they could be the problem. Scroll down, and you will see comments from people that proves my point 100%.

LiamJHayden · Answer

People can flame me if they want, but two things happened societally that contributed heavily: 1. Massive expansion of the welfare state 2. No-fault divorce.

Anonymous · Answer

That scenarios is sadly very common here in America. Feminism has damaged women in America far more than anywhere else in the world. American women today are very entitled and selfish and have very little sense of commitment anymore, which is why half of marriages end in divorce and women file 80% of them. That's why the divorce rate in the US is almost twice the interntional average. Ireland on the other hand is at the other end of the spectrum.

Likes2drive · Answer

Yeah some are crazy and somehow get the courts on their side even with no proof the guy was abusing her and he loses everything on her word when she is lying and cheating on him

RoseySarah · Answer

In health care we see this so much! Will comment more later! The women is usually delusional about the new guy! Her old hubby was way better especially to the kids.

DARKCLOUD1945X · Answer

The grass is always greener on the other side of the fence.. Boy did she fuck up royally. You always try to step up not down.

Sparkie460 · Answer

Families get broken because the couple doesn't communicate. They don't try to work things out. I also think it's due to their upbringing. If they come from a broken home, chances are, their home will be broken too

shortster · Answer

Because the state thinks that they can grant divorces.

Charliefretz329 · Answer

Is this my wife you’re talking about?  Hell I don’t know what women think

Anonymous · Answer

I think the environment children grow up in has a lot to do with this. Children mimic what they see growing.

Bklynbadboy12 · Answer

Cause they get married for all of the wrong reasons

KostasKouvalis · Answer

Because people get married too quickly out of desperation/peer pressure

RedInnocent68 · Answer

Hmmm, how do you know how wonderful the neighbours husband is? 🤔😉😂

Anonymous · Answer

i think it's best to stay out of other peoples business/relationships.

collie22 · Answer

Drugs have a part in broken families😕

NikolaiIvanovB41 · Answer

Its because of women and men who are simps.

FunkyMonkee · Answer

Why does she have 2 black kids?

loveslongnails · Answer

Humans are stupid and some people suck?

Cubus · Answer

Sexual revolution of the 60s.

Jennz6 · Answer

No real commitment

jahaims · Answer

Poor cultural and social practices

riverrat3 · Answer

Monogamy and controlling partners, no money,

robocop666 · Answer

I wonder this myself

YAsQuen · Answer

its the women

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