Lied about being a full virgin?

[Anonymous]

So my now husband been with him for 10 married for 8 has just found out how many times I sucked my ex boyfriend he asked if I was virgin I said I gave my etc a bliwjob he said how many times I said once it was a mistake at least I think it’s been so long im not even 100 percent sure if that’s what was said anyway if I did it was out of shame and guilt because I thought of him as a good Christian guy which still definitely doesn’t make my lie right well anyway he just found out couple weeks ago that I did it twice to 3 times asked if I swallowed I said yes he said that is disqusting I lied and I’d be disgusted if he did that and would wanna break up that I should’ve stayed with my ex that I deserve someone who doesn’t care because it bothers him he regrets the fact he didn’t have sex before me just so I could know the feeling I regret the fact I did what I did and that I lied so now I get to live what I deserve for the mistakes I’ve done and now I don’t know what to do it’s been two weeks he’s mad again working out locked me out of our room and said he’s having trouble getting over the past and to leave him alone

[Anonymous]

There's nothing you can do. He's either going to forgive you or he's not. And you don't get any say in that. Nor decide how long it will take.

https://www.youtube.com/embed/UfpVY_ZHGDg

[Anonymous]

blowjobs are not under the category of "losing virginity". it is far from it. no penis is penetrating a vagina during blowjobs. therefore, still a virgin. still fully, completely a virgin.

your husband is acting like a child. i don't think he has what it takes to even be a husband if he's acting like that. people have a past. he needs to get over it...

looks like he's the one who needs to go to therapy on how to accept this

[OneViewpoint]

Have you ever considered using punctuation. It's a really useful invention.

[Asker]

Yeah, you’re right, it is. I was in a rush.

[serious]

Well, either he is going to accept you with your past or he is not going to.

[strateguy632]

Tell him you want a divorce,, you can't continue locked out.

[jahaims]

You got caught lying and are trying to avoid accountability. You're a nut job

[Anonymous]

Get over yourself.

[Anonymous]

He sounds like a typical religious freak

[yotaman99]

Sounds like he’s jealous.