I went out with this girl a couple times. I thought we had great chemistry (it was my best first date ever), and she returned my affection (kissed me, put her arm around me when we were walking, etc). I thought things were going well enough that I could see us going exclusive.
We've been texting and her texts started to come a bit slower. And when I'd talk about going on another date, she'd redirect or have an excuse. Finally, she just started ignoring me. I don't really understand why - I wasn't clingy or pushy, and I can't imagine I said or did anything to offend or upset her. We were talking normally before I asked about the next date.
Should I call her out on it? If she's not interested, she needs to be a mature woman and tell me. If she met someone else or thinks I'm ugly or hates me, she should just say so and I'll move on. But I think it's very disrespectful to just ignore someone.
What do you think?
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I think you should bring it up. Call it out might not be the right wording. You dont want to vomeup to her being defensive. Just casually say hey its been a while since I heard from you. What happened? Or tell her you thought things were going good with you two.
Just be aware that the answer you get might not be good. She could say oh I've been habing family problems and that she would still like to be with you etc.
Orr. She could say she met someone, or maybe even heard a rumor that made her feel you werent right for her. Dont "call her out" rather confront her. Its fair to both of you you deserve to know and she needs to have the balls to tell you.1