What about Asian girls that White men like so much?

[Anonymous]

I'm a white. My crush who is also a white left me for an ugly Asian girl. She's short, small boobs, small eyes, flat nose, can't sleep English properly, etc. What about Asian girls that White men are so into? I don't get it. This isn't the only case. I've seen lots of white guys with Asian girls.

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OK well I was mad when I made this thread, so I apologize for all the hatred. Now that I calmed down, it's not true that Asian women are obsessed over white men. I know in the comment someone is trying to pour the oil into the fire and saying not nice things about EVERY SINGLE Asian because she's jealous of Asian girls, but yeah please stop. I have some nice Asian friends too so this gets on my nuts. Just thought I would apologizfor soundi g like racist. I'm not. I'm just mad.

[Anonymous]

Honestly, I agree with you and I don't get it either. I'm not gonna sit here and call them ugly, I believe that everyone is beautiful in their own way. And to be honest I think I am more annoyed of the fact that these Asian girls are SOOO desperate for white men rather than the fact that the white men go for them. Any guy would go for any girl that throws themselves at them specially if they're pushovers lol

And Asian women are known to be pushovers and I'm not taking this shit out of my ass, I have read articles and forums online of Asian women ADMITTING this themselves. They admit to the fact that a lot of Asian women seek white men and would rather be with white men than people of their own race. It's really embarrassing I think, for example I'm Middle-Eastern and although that's considered white I don't see myself as white I just think I'm middle-eastern, and I'm not desperately seeking a white guy I would much rather be with someone of my own race than anyone else, I mean I have nothing against men of other races, I would be open to it but I would prefer Middle-Eastern guys. My main priority in life isn't finding a white man like Asian girls lol Asian women CONSTANTLY and DESPERATELY seek white men and honestly they succeed very easily; I have heard and read that they are good women to be in a relationship with, they're not difficult, they're not picky, THEY ARE submissive (which sucks for them, honestly lol), and I just think that it's pathetic. Like how embarrassing it is that they worships white men like that?

THIS IS FOR THE Asian GIRL: Have some dignity! Stop throwing yourself at white guys, just don't throw yourself at guys period. LOL But seriously stop desperately seeking white guys and worshiping them, they're not that special haha

[Asker]

No, the problem thay annoys me and get me butthurt this time is because he is the one that go after her. That girl doesn't agree to be his gf yet. Looking at him following her everywhere and cleaning ip her lunch for her just drive me nuts! I'm mad that he's after her because she's an Asian. If she throws herself at him then I'll be less mad, but she didn't he's the one that did that that's why I'm sooooo fucking mad that he prefer her over me!

[cavmanier]

"They admit to the fact that a lot of Asian women seek white men and would rather be with white men than people of their own race. It's really embarrassing"

It sounds you think we have an obligation toward our own race.

[Asker]

@cavmanier This opinion owner and myself aren't Asian, whose "own race" are you talking about?

[cavmanier]

Maybe she was only referring to middle Eastern people but I assumed her opinion would be the same for all races.

[firespark101]

Simply put, appearance is not the determining factor in a person's worth, nor is race. You have only focused on the trivial characteristics of this girl. He probably chose her for her personality, which is far more important than appearance. Also, even if you believe she is unappealing because she doesn't fit the mold of conventional beauty, he obviously doesn't believe that; beauty is in the eye of the beholder. Everyone has their own views of what they think beauty is, no view is superior to another, nor should one's ideal be imposed on another person.
Do not think he chose her just because she is Asian; race does not define a person. Also, the racial stereotypes are ridiculous; not all Asians are the same, just like not all Caucasians, or people of any ethnicity for that matter, are the same. I do not see any reason why the facts that you are white, that he is white, that she is Asian should matter at all.

Lastly, you mentioned that the guy is just your crush, not anything beyond that; therefore, he did not "leave" you. It seems that you have channeled your frustration and despair over him into unhealthy criticism and hatred for the girl he chose. It's a typical reaction, but it's an irrational one. Just try to accept reality as it is.

[Asker]

I seriously don't know why he likes her. Even if she has a good personality, I don't know she can be seen as attractive under any circumstances, and I always thought guys prefer looks over personality. Plus, most Asians are conservative, nothing fun about that.

[firespark101]

Assuming that all guys value looks over personality is an erroneous generalization, just like the assumption that all Asians are conservative and therefore not "fun." Everyone is different.
Not all guys go after looks and the ones that only care about appearances tend to be immature and/or shallow and are not worth your time. Guys and girls alike want compatibility, an entity that is determined by the couple's personalities. Physical beauty fades with age anyway. Real love is blind.
As for your belief that all Asians are "conservative", not all are. I know some Asians who are the most progressive and liberal-minded people I have ever met.
If you're still wondering why your crush/"significant-other-of-some-sort" likes her, then ask him, but do so casually. Better yet, try to get to know this girl beyond her external qualities instead of criticizing her for superficial reasons.

[BuchitaBuchys]

Oh girl STFU just cuz you can't get a date -_-
Really? You feel the need to put down a whole race just cuz you can't get someone? How fucking petty.
I have seen beautiful and ugly women (and men) of each race and skin color. Just cuz they don't share your features doesn't mean they're ugly. Just cuz you find them ugly doesn't mean they're ugly.
I think Asians are fucking gorgeous.

Why the fuck are women so fucking catty and willing to put each other down for men's attention? Small tits, big tits, petite women, curvy women, light skin, dark skin, tall women, short women, slim women, fat women etc. If a man doesn't wanna date you, why get mad at the woman he chose over you? That shit doesn't make sense. You can't help who you're attracted to. So stop and look elsewhere.

Why does it bother you if someone dates outside their race? I'm gonna go get me a white guy now just to piss you off more haha. jk jk. No but seriously let grown consenting adults date who they want, it's none of your business anyways.

And remember:
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[Asker]

Ok the minute I read your "STFU" like the third word in your comment I stopped reading, just cuz I know a bunch of shit will flow out like diarrhea. So peace!

[BuchitaBuchys]

Ok. Good luck finding a boyfriend, a white one. Cuz more and more are open to dating other races ;)

[Asker]

Well I'm white no need to be whiter! Unfortunately some craving people do ;)

[BuchitaBuchys]

What? Lol that didn't make sense to me. No nintendo

[zorro8888]

Well Beauty is in the eye of the beholder so maybe he finds all those things attractive

Small boobs are not bad at all, only girls obsess with big boobs guys are okay with anything

Guys love short girls because they can feel more protective of her

Small eyes and flat nose: Now you're just being picky about little things

Maybe she has a better personality than you and when I say maybe I mean she does because if you're talking that badly about a girl you don't even know that goes to show a lot about you, not trying to be mean but just want to show you what you're apparently not seeing

[cavmanier]

My first thought of him or another guy pursuing a girl wouldn't be that it's entirely because of her race. Did he say it's because she's Asian?

Beauty can be very subjective though. You may not see their beauty but obviously a lot of guys find their commonly short height, boobs, and facial features--among lots of other things--attractive. I'm not sure really how to describe attraction to you.

[Asker]

He didn't say it's because she's an Asian, but yeah pretty much I think all those weird features.

[cavmanier]

He was attached to you, a white girl. Yes he has the ability to be attached to Asian women, but based on how he was originally attracted to you, he doesn't sound exclusively attracted to Asian women.

If you're just confused how many are attracted to Asian features, I'm not sure how to describe it to you. Certain girls in every race can really be attractive though. Asian women do tend to look pretty feminine to me and a lot of guys like the more commonly petite bodies.

[523206720]

Maybe she's thin
Maybe she's smart
Maybe she's had less sexual partners then you
Maybe she has a better relationship with her family
Maybe she's more hard working
Maybe she's a better person
Maybe she's more humble

I personally think Asian girls are DROP DEAD GORGEOUS

[Asker]

You must be an Asian. :/

[kangy]

O yes we are

[Asker]

Yup exactly that's why.

[meatballs21]

Okay, let's consider your description.
-short, which is good, I like short girls
-small boobs, which is very good, I like small breasts
-small eyes, which is par for the course with Asian girls
-flat nose, also fairly standard.
-can't sleep English properly, pot calling kettle black much?

Asian girls look small, feminine and delicate. They also look young pretty much up until they hit menopause.

If you use Google you'll find far more detailed explanations as to why this is the case than I can be bothered to paraphrase here.

[lizmorri]

So men all like short, petite, small nosed/small eyed, small boobs? So all of the women who are over 5'2 and have bigger breasts and big eyes are just bound for loneliness or have to end up with a guy who's fantasy girl was an Asian one? haha

Oh and not to mention ONLY Asian women are feminine and delicate. There are no other feminine women out there...

I have nothing against Asian women, I believe everyone is beautiful in their own way. My problem is when I come on here and read comments like yours saying how perfect Asian women are and everybody who isn't like that pretty much sucks... it makes me wonder really? Although I am short and petite (because thats apparently the only body type men like) I am not flat chested, I have bigger breasts, and although I'm feminine I do a very strong personality and I speak my mind, so I must not be liked by men at all, cause what you described above doesn't match who I am... ?

[lizmorri]

@meatballs21 ^^^

[Asker]

@lizmorri I really just don't like that one Asian girl, not all the Asians out there. I was quite mad when I wrote my questions, that's why. But not all of them have small boobs. Some are really attractive are have to say, only that one girl is not lol. But yeah you seem like you're jealous with Asian women in general.

[lizmorri]

Nope not at all. I have nothing against women. I have something against the men that put down other women who are NOT asian!

[meatballs21]

@lizmorri That's okay, I have something against people who launch into tirades because I stated my preferences and tried to offer an explanation as to why men might be into Asian women.

Yes, *I personally* prefer smaller framed women. That is not true of all men. Even you must realize through all that rage and indignation that it's not true of all men. Don't take it personally, I wasn't saying there was anything wrong with you, I don't even have a clue who you are and nor do I care.

[zora88]

Not to mention in some Asian countries the whiter you are the closer to god they think you are. @Insaan He is totally right stop being so jealous hearted. A couple of guys dont find you attractive and your ex left you, that might not even be because you're not Asian. You ever thought about that? I swear I've seen this question before. Obviously you see yourself with more qualities than her why go for a guy who you think has such low standards? You probably notice it more because it's now relevant to you. Take this time to get over yourself.

[Insaan]

Thanks for the mention.
If you go deep... you will notice that this girl is dangerously shallow. She didn't even bothered to wonder about the nature of that girl she is being jealous of.
Also.. i feel she is troll. She is an anonymous Asian girl wanting to create hot debate by acting like a white women.
God knows...

[Asker]

@Insaan Well thankfully I'm not. YOU quit being jealous.

[Insaan]

Why would i be jealous? I am not even east Asian chick nor i genetically belong to east Asians lol?

[Asker]

@Insaan wtf are you talking about. That bad English again? People with bad English just drive me nuts! Everybody knows Indians are craving for white girls just get over it! Don't be mad that you can't get one. Peace!

[Insaan]

My bad :)
And hey... it's a good thing that many indian guys like white chicks.:)
I don't deny that. Actually we love women of all races irrespective of women who might hate us.
Don't worry... i am aware that there are white chicks who wants to stay away from us. :)

[o0lelouch0o]

Asian girls are not ugly. There so cute and lovable. I love a short. Asian girl. Small boobs are amazing to me. not to small though. Um not to be mean. Take no offense you might be this way because your feeling are hurt but you seem like a b. i. t. c. h. And you have classic. White girl syndrome. Think that every guy should want you and when they don't you guys get angry. There's. Beauty. In every. One. White girls are like 4th on my list of hot girls. Asian are 3rd

[lizmorri]

I asked a similar question above but I'm going to ask you as well because I'm really curious. You mentioned that Asian girls are cute and lovable with small features. So if a woman isn't Asian she's not cute and lovable? And if she doesn't have small features she doesn't measure up to Asian girls?
Are white girls or black girls or indian girls or pacific islander girls or middle eastern girls not cute and lovable? and if a girl is over the average Asian female height which I believe is 5'4 and naturally has bigger breasts she's not cute?

And I'm really curious I'm not looking to argue I just really want to know your answers.

[renogaza]

i love how this thread starter has so much hate and sexist - racist views (sarcasm), it reminds me again why mankind (the thread starter) is far too immature.

here is a golden lesson that you should realize by now, your views do not and will not ever match the whole worlds views, everyone is different and everyone has different interests and preferences, just because you think she's ugly doesn't mean the whole world should think so too, to some guys you may be ugly, ever think about that?

also just so you know, if i could i would sue you for harassment, i found you're thread extremely offensive on every level and have reported you, farewell & good day. (Southeast Asian - Caucasian half-blood descent)

Quote: It Takes all kinds to make up the World, and you are one minuscule & insignificant part of it.

[Anonymous]

Just because he left you for an Asian girl, doesn't mean he left you BECAUSE she's Asian. It could have been her personality, the chemistry etc.
Don't have on Asian girls, it's silly. But don't think all of us guys are into them either. Personally, I think they look like children - no boobs, no ass, no long legs, no wide hips, short and those annoying high-pitched voices (no offense to anyone, just my opinion) - nothing really womanly about them. They do have pretty faces tho and face IS more important than a body to many of us. Also, many Asian girls think that dating white is dating up so they go after white men, which is a reason why you see white Asian couples. It's easier to find an Asian girlfriend when they're so into white men.

[Asker]

No, doesn't make sense. Then why is he into her instead of me then?

[DarkEmblem]

I wouldn't be surprised if he left your for your attitude aswell.
Not to be rude, but it's what has to be said.

Each their own preference. If he is attracted to them, then so be it. Boobs, length and facial structure says nothing about the person him/herself.

Also, a crush can't "Leave" you when he was never with you to begin with.

That being said, I understand why he likes Asians.

[Asker]

Why does he like Asian?

[CommieDearest]

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It's unbecoming.

[Anonymous]

Sounds like a bitch got sand in her panties ;). FYI: every human have its preference. Some prefer Asians, others will prefer black, white etc... I prefer Asians, but would not say no to any other races neither. Im not strictly into them, just prefer them a bit. why? Its different for every one. They seems more naive, shy, cute, adorable and since I dont care at all for boobs nor ass nor legs nor height, I have no problem with that. Jusr deal with it. You are not superior because your white, and judging by this post, the fact that she is Asian is defenitly not the only reason why he left you. Learn respect if you want some! Have a nice day :)

[GreatestGatsby]

This bitch trollin. First of all how can a crush leave you when you were never together? Second, I don't think he "left" you because you're white & she's Asian. I think he left you because of your backwards attitude. You need to get a new personality. Just look at how you have responded to other people here. Third, don't hate on thin women. Next, she's probably not as ugly as you might think she is. You're just blinded because you're jealous that he's going after her and not you.

[Asker]

No she's really fucking ugly even if I'm not jealous.

[diam1993]

I'm Caucasian, really proud to be white, sometimes I used to sound a bit racist towards other race. Moved to America 1 year ago and my world totally changed. Never saw a Asian man/women in the street besides tv back in my country so when I came here , everything Asian was exotic to me, including Asian women. After a while after being with some of them my mind totally changed. First of all, ist true that Asian women have a fetish towards white man , it happens to me every day of my life. Second I never gonna date Asian girls anymore in my life. 1. They're really nasty they never shave, I like a nice shaved vagina where I can lick in and out, and Asian women can't offer that pleasure to me. 2. I like to dominate and make girls crave for me, but in Asian women there's nothing to dominate. Maybe I'm generalizing a bit but most of them are like this. Now I have a crush on black girls only, but they seem to be not to much interested in white man I don't know why?

[diam1993]

Lol to many people getting butthurt, can't face the reality.

[Strider90]

Many men consider them as exotic women. Well this is just a preference. I consider Nordic women as exotic.
They also like the fact that Asian women are so small, almost look like childs. Japan is considered to be the paradise of every pedophile for that reason. I have a friend who's married with an Indonesian woman and he is obsessed with Asian women (actually he's obsessed with anything Asian) and always tells me to do the same thing although I told him I have no interest in Asian women at all. I like tall blond women with blue or green eyes dammit!

[renogaza]

sounds like you have all the symptom's of a severe case of interest for the "Arian Race" :\

[lizmorri]

You are probably the only guy that feels that way, which is nice and refreshing. Although I am not a white tall and blond woman. It's just nice to hear a guy admit to liking something other than the typical short submissive and shy Asian girl type.

[lizmorri]

@renogaza I don't get it. WHAT ON EARTH is wrong with the Aryan race? NOT everybody has to be obsessed with Asian girls!!!

How come everybody answering the asker's question is saying "well maybe your boyfriend likes Asian girls and that's his type" okay totally understandable and makes sense so why can't someone openly admit to liking white girls or black girls or hispanic girls or whatever else...

[Strider90]

@renogaza before you talk about Arian race, make some research and read about what exactly this means and is. I love Nordic women and so be it. Don't start breaking my fucking balls like my friend.
@lizmorri thank you. I love Nordic women however they are. When I speak about tall blond women I picture in my mind my dream girl. It doesn't mean that I set my standards that high only.
here are examples of what I like.
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[lizmorri]

@Strider90 that's what my cousins in Sweden look like... and I agree with you and in my eyes that's what beauty is.

[renogaza]

@lizmorri i'm just saying that he's into it, i always thought that the whole idea of the Arian Race died with the Nazi Reich, but then again far too many people in the States and Europe nowadays is trying to look like Arian's like its going out of fashion.

@Strider90 i know what the Arian Race is, as far as the Nazi's were concerned they were blonde people with fair skin and blue eyes, thus the so called "Alpha Race", i'm not breaking anything i just noticed it that's all.

[Strider90]

The Aryan race exists since the start of known human history, before the rise of the Nazis and fortunately continues to exist even now, regardless of the brainwashing happening only in western countries by cultural marxists who want to convince us that we are all the same and that the extinction of a whole racial group (that happens to be the main creator of human civilisation) via the so called ''diversity'' and interracial couples, is not a problem.

[lizmorri]

renogaza the way you said it was like it was a crime to have serious interest in the Aryan race but NOBODY on here reacted the way you did when it was about white guys having serious interest in the Asian race.

It's funny cause back in the day the whites used to be racist towards all other races but now it's turned around, the minorities are attacking the whites and they are the ones being racist.

JUST like everyone else on here agreed that EVERYBODY has their own preference, @Strider90 is allowed to have his preferences.

[lizmorri]

@renogaza ^^^^

[Strider90]

@lizmorri I like you... XD

[renogaza]

@Strider90 and yes i'm aware that the arian race has been around since the beginning of human history and apparently has more than one supposed origin, and yes there is a lot of brainwashing about it nowadays, many westerns think that they have to be blonde and have blue eyes to be "above the rest" which i think is just silly, i don't dislike natural arian's - i just don't like wanna be's

(note: what is "Marxist"?)

@lizmorri i didn't intend to make it offensive, i apologize if i did sound like it, i prefer people to stop being racist & sexist & just be happy with eachother, but that won't happen for at least another 200 years :\

i agree that whites are now the victims in racism, but some deserve it, like the warmongering the US for example, the people aren't generally bad but the government loves war-profiteering too much, my countries people hated the american's for years and i was discriminated when i was younger just for being white despite sharing their blood

[binny91]

Submissive, loyal, can cook, does house work, usually very skinny

Don't really have any preference but thats what most white guys seem to tell me who have an Asian fetish

[Asker]

But isn't men into physically appearance?

[binny91]

You missed out the thin part usually the guys who chase Asian girls seem to not like curves and prefer the stick thin body. But usually they prefer the reasons stated above.

[Izzy2102]

The amount of ignorance and stereotypes in this thread makes me physically sick

That being said I have no idea why he left. I do agree that the average Asian woman doesn't really fit the beauty ideal we have in the west at the moment. A lot of men have idealized picture of Asian women in their mind. Look wise as well as behavior wise which has little to do with reality. If that's the case, they won't last long.

Either way, you have accept the relationship ending

[Asker]

No, that Asian chick doesn't agree to be his gf yet, he's still chasing for her.. Is there anything I could do to get him back before its too late?

[Izzy2102]

Why would you want him back?

[Asker]

I like him so much... Moving on is just easier said than done... And I can't stand watching him chasing her. I want him to be mine again... If you ever like someone you should understand why I want him back...

[lumos]

Maybe they don't have a nasty personality... you know, the kind that you seem to have.

[Asker]

Yeah, you dont even know me and you already make that conclusion. Must be soooo true and reliable huh?

[lumos]

The key word here is "seem". I never claimed that I've drawn a conclusion of who you are. I simply stated that you >seem< to have a nasty personality, considering that you bashed that Asian girl's appearance for like no reason at all. And also, you question guys' preferences when it comes to Asian girls, as if Asian girls simply can't be desirable. That in itself is sort of a racist attitude, don't you think?

[Asker]

Ok let's say I'm a bit racist for doing that, but do you support the fact she's taking him away from me? That's fucking wrong. I don't know why almost everyone here supports her when she's the one that causes all the pain. She fucking know he likes her, she fucking know I like him. He asked her out, she doesn't say yes nor no. If she doesn't fucking like him why not just say so so he can look for another girl instead of sticking to her all the time and no one else has a chance with him. She's fucking selfish.

[lumos]

Lmao. You can't have everything in life. He likes her, remember? I. e. she's not taking him from you, he willingly wants to be with her. Also, reality check: you're not together with your crush. He can do whatever he wants, ask out whoever he wants. The fact that you're hurt is irrelevant. Your feelings are somewhat justified, yes, considering that it's only human to be hurt when someone you like doesn't like you back. But it's not the girl's fault, and neither is it his fault. They can't help that you feel that way, they don't have control over your feelings. So, you know, suck it up or something. That's life.

[Asker]

Reality check: He was my bf. Now he's jusy a crush, I dont like using the term ex bf.

[lumos]

How were we supposed to know that, then? Nowhere in your question did you state that you had been together or that you had broken up. Did he leave you for her, or did the breakup happen a while ago and he just started showing interest in her?

[Dark_Scorpio]

Even if he was your boyfriend you don't own him and he's free to leave when he wants so no one is taking anything from you.

[lumos]

@Dark_Scorpio exactly.

[Asker]

We were happy together until this Asian girl comes around, he starts to loose interest in me and won't talk to me that much. Then I saw him talking and smiling with her a few times while we were still dating, so I talked to him about that then he said "I'm so sorry, but I think we aren't meant to be together". That's how we broke up, and after that he's 24/7 with that girl.

[Asker]

So pretty much broke up with me to pursue her.

[lumos]

Doesn't matter. She has no control over his feelings. It's not her fault that he lost interest. If it hadn't been her, it would have been someone else. She didn't force him to start liking her, that happened on its own. She didn't take him from you. Your ex is the idiot here, not her.

[Dark_Scorpio]

Unless she held in at gun point and forces him to like her it doesn't matter. He left you of his own free will.

[Dark_Scorpio]

@lumos I wouldn't sat the ex boyfriend is an idiot. We all have the right to pursue happiness and if he believes he'd be happier with someone else than with his current partner he does have the right to leave.

[lumos]

@Dark_Scorpio obviously, but he was somewhat tactless and inconsiderate of Asker's feelings. Calling him an idiot was probably an exaggeration on my part, yes, but he didn't exactly handle the situation smoothly.

[Anonymous]

I don't know about other guys, but for me personally:
- I'm white, from a very blond family. I like brunettes with darker skin (opposites attract), and most Asians tend to fit that description.
- This is a huge stereotype / generalization, but some (not all) Asian women have family backgrounds like mine. We value education, hard work, self-discipline, and respect. We're a little nerdy, studious, and uptight. On average, I think I have more in common (value-wise) with these girls than I would with say, Italians, Irish, or other "white" people.
- I prefer smaller, slender women. On average, Asian women tend to be smaller and more petite than white women.

For other guys:
- I think there is a stereotype that Asian women are submissive, which might turn them on. That's a very WRONG stereotype - speaking from experience!!

[lizmorri]

All of the things you mentioned that you and your family value (education, self-discipline, respect) and all of the things that you seek in Asian women in regards to their appearance (dark hair, darker skin, slender, petite, small nose) are traits and characteristics that I carry. However, I am not Asian, I am middle-eastern and I dont ever see white men wanting to date me, even though I basically have everything that a white man is looking for but I like I said I still never get approached by white men, and no I do not wear a hijab (although I have the upmost respect for the women who do), I am very Americanized.

So it must be that the Asian race IS more appealing to white men than any other race.

[Opinion Owner]

I actually find middle-eastern women really attractive as well, physically. I have a hard time connecting with them emotionally though. The ones I've met fell into the Jewish / Persian / Arab princess stereotype: a little narcissistic, with a focus on status (clothes, cars, wealth, etc), bossy, and starting fights for no apparent reason.

That may just be that I haven't met enough middle eastern women though. If I met a gorgeous middle eastern woman who was kind, considerate, and seemed like a wonderful human being, I would definitely be interested.

[WhiteRaven]

Im Asian; i have no racial preference. But I have a friend who is black told me he has a preference for Asian girls, because they look so innocent and "angelic" like. He currently is with an Asian girl.
In old french, the chinese people were called "Les Celestres", meaning "the heavenly"

[Asker]

Ewwww, they look like children.

[WhiteRaven]

I agree. Im currently in Uni.; I find the Asian girls looking like high school students, while the caucasians look a bit more mature-looking.
To each his own, i guess.
But my friend's gf looks her age.

[aamy811]

Well fort off they're cute. Who cares if they have small eyes or flat noses, that doesn't make them less cute.
Also there is a highly positive connotation with Asian women. They're viewed as smart, educated, shy, submissive, feminine, dainty, cute, and tons of other great ideas.
Also if she ant speak English properly who cares, a lot of the people I know don't speak proper English . If it's not her first language that's okay. Don't hate on her, hate on the guy who left you

[Asker]

That's just a bunch of streotype that girl doesn't look cute at all.

Hating on him? That's fucking easier said then done.

[aamy811]

I know those are a bunch of stereotypes (I said that in the text) but those are ideas people get. Also maybe he thinks she's cute, beauty is in the eye of the beholder. And lastly it's not really that hard to hate him, I mean he left you didn't he

[Asker]

You know how some guys left girls pregnant and the girls are still in love with that assholes? Yeah, pretty much enough said.

[aamy811]

I don't think that's as comparable seeing gas how they're PREGNANT, where as he just didn't want I be in a relationship anymore. But any who it honestly just takes time. Your not the only person I get dumped. Eventually you just stop caring

[RedThread]

There are different perspectives of beauty in this world. He probably thinks she's beautiful. Just because you can't see her appeal doesn't mean she doesn't have any.

[mrz91]

I'm a White guy and I've never felt like I actually "prefer" Asian Women or find them more attractive than White chicks or whatever. There may be psychological reasons for some guys, eg maybe he's insecure that his penis is more satisfactory to a smaller Asian girl? But who really knows, maybe he's just got a fetish? If so I'm not someone who has the same fetish so I can't explain his mentality. It sucks you got dumped though, so I'm sending some positive vibes your way, keep your head up

[mei0313]

Maybe he likes someone short with small boobs, small eyes, and flat nose lol. It is just his preference, I'm sure there are guys who prefer your features to Asian's.

[koko124]

White men don't like Asian girls, Asian girls like white men. This is because in the west, whites are the seat of power, and have the lion's share of positive media portrayal.

On a global scale, this preference is much less pronounced, but still exists to some extent, because of the dominance of American (white) culture.

[Asker]

Well my crush is chasing this Asian girl... Seem like it's the other way around...

[Stuhlhocker]

American culture? lol

[CrazyMinta]

*speak. No need to hate on something just because you don't understand it. Calling her ugly is objective, to you she may seem so. To him she is probably the moat magnificent and enchanting thing on this planet. Imperfections are the usually the moat beautiful.

[HorrorFan]

"can't sleep English properly" that irony. ;)

Aren't Asian girls sterotypically viewed as quiet and passive? They are supposedly more sexual?

Maybe Asian women are just his preference?

[Asker]

speak* typo happens

Not just him, so many white guys out there are with Asian girls I don't know why.

[Dark_Scorpio]

Oh look the little girl is pissed that a guy doesn't like her. Honestly get over yourself, the guy isn't into you. And I have a feeling it has more to do with your personality than anything else.

[gharit]

Sorry check the details of your question.
She can't speak English and you can't write English .

And 1 thing more, till now you have seen ugly Asian girl, think about the situation when you will see a true Asian beauty (like indian girls with some glorious faces). Till then rest in peace.

[Asker]

I'm talking about Southeast Asian.

[adena_]

Then obviously you haven't seen physically attractive southeast Asians... Please don't be so judgmental.

[LotusKappa]

@Asker You think southeast Asian women are ugly? Sorry, you are wrong, come here and see at least an average looking Asian girl looks much more better than an average looking white girl. You seem jealous with us. I also see quite a lot white girls who are not attractive at all.

[msg812]

Don't be jealous of Assian girls. i think there is no a definition of beauty so her small eyes, small boobs, flat nose e. t. c aren't important. if your crush leave you for that assian girl, it means this assian girl is more beautiful than you in his eyes but ou can be more beautiful than this assian girl in some men's eyes. just look for these men.

[Asker]

It's easier said then done, I only want him, and it's annoying that he wants that Asian girl. She still didn't agree to be his gf yet, is there still any chance forvme? What should I do before it's too late. I'm sure she can't be more beautiful than me under any circumstances.

[msg812]

why do you want to just him. as i wrote before, can't you look for men who worth you. i don't understand why some girls have obsession with a guy.

[Asker]

Did you ever like someone? If you did than you should understand me. I iust want him. It would be good to find another guy, but I just want him mo one else.

[msg812]

i liked but they didn't like me so i gave up liking

[Asker]

But now I see him following her almost everyday I just can't give up. I just can't...

[msg812]

Your old bf is so lucky. he has an assian girl and there is a girl too who loves him like a crazy. there isn't any girl who loves me for a long long time. i am jealous of him.

[Asker]

Ahhhhh yet he doesn't appreciate it and keep chasing that other girl..

[rthomas43]

Maybe he chose her over you because she isn't a cunt?

[Anonymous]

Someone is jelly.

Asian women from India to Taiwan to Malaysia to Turkey are much better than your standard White Western Women and more and more White men are realizing this and are chasing after the better women.

Also Asian women and White Men look so good together.

[DianaWest]

white western women? It seems every white man is under the impression that white women only come from America.

[DianaWest]

"much better." lol. racist and desperate much?

[TStorm]

there is something known as attraction. its not about being white or Asian.

there are certain personality traits that you would like to see in your partner, maybe you lack those and that girl has them.

[Asker]

Her face just cover it all up (if she has any)!

[Insaan]

I think... East Asian girls have strong fetish for white men. They will do anything for white man. No girls of other races have that fetish which east Asians girls tend to have.
East Asian girls even acknowledge openly that they prefer "white" Caucasian over their own race.'

[Insaan]

And... east Asian girls are as beautiful as any girl on this planet and stop being a jealous bitch.
I myself like east Asian girls. as i would for white girls or brown girls.

[Asker]

Who say that East Asian girls have such strong fetish for white men? You're a complete dumbass.

Yeah you can keep liking white girls, see how long it takes for one to like you back lmao.

[Insaan]

Who cares...

[Insaan]

First of all there is no white chick in my country. So i would care less on that. Indian beauties are enough for me and there are millions if white chicks. My funda is simple... If one ignores.. move on to next.

[Asker]

Are you that creepy Indian guy that messages me acting real desperate? Well then stop bothering me get over yourself.

[Insaan]

Hahaha lol... angry young women :)

[Anonymous]

Sometimes guys have some really weird look preferences in girls. You might think that she is really ugly, but maybe he thinks that she is the most beautiful woman on earth. For example, a friend of mine has some really weird look preferences in my opinion. One day we were looking at girls that were passing by and he told me that he just saw the girl of his dreams, but I personally think that she was really ugly.
Anyways, look preferences are different for each person.

[bunnyy]

"she can't sleep English properly" neither can you and you sounds racist!!

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zWFQ1uiD8LA

[Anonymous]

As a white guy myself I honestly don't know, I don't see the appeal, since they're very similar to whites in many aspects. They've even dubbed this behavior "Yellow Fever" (similar to jungle fever) because some white men are VERY intent on being with Asian women.

Either way I think there's different reasons your crush doesn't like you.

[Asker]

What are the reasons you're implying?

[Stacyzee]

Similar to whites? In what way?
Their features are completely different.

[dihydrogenmonoxide]

Your crush isn't shallow, that's why he left your disgusting behaviour for a nice girl.
Looks aren't everything, you dumb shit.

[Asker]

You didn't meet her yet, how the fuck you know she's nice? YOU dumb shit.

[dihydrogenmonoxide]

hey you dumb shit, your crush think she's nice, and he left you for her, that's good enough to convince me she's nice

[kangy]

What about your own personality? Have u reflect upon yourself? Maybe they are more compatible.

[wendigoRed]

Maybe you shouldn't feel entitled to dating just because your white.

[Sky93]

Because he likes her small boobs, small eyes, and flat nose.

[Asker]

Why does he like ugly things?

[Sky93]

Maybe they're ugly to you and amazing to him. Different people are attracted to different things. This is like asking why some guys like blondes over brunettes. It's called preference.

[Lyndsielee666]

I'm Asian and guys likes me because I'm small and cute.
You seem ti have a shit attitude, which is probably why he left✌

[DumpliingPrincess]

I think a majority of men just have an Asian fetish. I'm pretty sure I read something like that somewhere.

[Asker]

Why do that happen? It's not like they're super hot.

[abundantlyrich]

It's the hot and spicy flood. Theyre prefer over pasta with chhhheeese. :) ;)

[Anonymous]

They love Asian women because they are submissive.
Asian women also love to date white men because they feel its a step up from Asian guys.
They love western men.

[Keyspirits]

The same reason why ur so shallow towards Asian. That's the revenge you get in return by ur own white boi seeing u the same way as u see dat Asian cutie lel xP

[Asker]

Haha those retarded Asian guys are CRAVING for white girls and would only date white girls, now that is shallow.

[Keyspirits]

Do u have any proof here? I don't think so xP
Dats what chu get doe.. lel

[Asker]

I dont need prove. You are probably one of those Asian guys in my inbox that I didn't get to yet. Good luck.

[Keyspirits]

Lelelel are u exaggerating? I don't want know white slot cuz they have the reputation of being so damn easy :c

[Asker]

"I dont want know white slot" Yeahhh bad English couldnt understand you now go!

[Keyspirits]

It's da sad truth xP

[Krushhbrownies]

I don't know. I wish white girl were the same to Asian guys.

[Asker]

I hate it when Asian guys are craving for white girls.

[Krushhbrownies]

Yeah I know

[lizmorri]

@Krushhbrownies I have a question for you and I'm truly curious.

I actually don't see Asian men seeking White women the way that Asian women, sorry for lack of a better word OBSESS over white men, why is that?
Are Asian guys attracted only to Asian women? I actually NEVER see an Asian guy dating a white girl.

[binny91]

@lizmorri I have seen it and I've been there done that if anything its normal just get a lot of glares from strangers

[lizmorri]

@binny91 I actually appreciate when Asian guys come after white women because a lot of Asian women go after white men and would rather date them than guys of their own race, so why not the men do the same to them?

[binny91]

@lizmorri To be real blunt and im going to be called a self hate race hater by some other Asians.

But unless they grew up in a western country like australia (where im from) or NA/Europe etc

-Asian guys are usually really shy and have social skill problems they aren't that confident.
-It doesn't help when most of them are shorter than most western women or have a small build and we all know what happens when your a short male.
-You'll notice the ones who are more confident are a lot older than what you think they are.
-Also they tend to care what they parents think way too often.

And a lot of Asian women don't date Asian men because of what I said above especially if they are westernized they only date other Asians who are more modern than the traditional type or they go white.

[lizmorri]

@binny91 hmm yah but I don't think that white women CARE THAT MUCH about what you look like and how you're built, I mean yeah at first and some Asian guys are very attractive at first and of course as time goes by and you get to know each other, who cares how short you are? haha

[binny91]

@lizmorri I'm talking about breaking the ice and yeah women don't really date men shorter than them.

Sorry your lying first impressions count men/females always like eye candy

[lizmorri]

@binny91 so you don't consider yourself as "eye candy"? well that's unfortunate... I always see Asian guys looking at me and I think it's so cute but they never talk to me...

[binny91]

@lizmorri I wasn't talking about myself I was stating things in general read what I type before answering.

They don't talk to you because they have very little confidence which is a common case in most Asian guys. Nothing about your race, how you look. They were just raised that way its common.

[binny91]

@lizmorri Also I've been to Asian countries before and Asian guys as old as 30 still don't know how to talk to the opposite sex its sad and strange. Death by shyness.

Anyways need to head to work. If you wish to discuss this further inbox me

[Krushhbrownies]

@lizmorri I do go after regardless of race but white girls tends to not like Asian dudes. There are but they are few... About the Asian women going after white guys, I think they are just more upfront and a lot of white guys likes them anyway.

[PineappleBreath]

They are just so cute, almost doll like. It makes you just want to get close to them

[lizmorri]

I have a question for you, you said something like "Asian girls are so cute, they are like dolls"

Can I ask what it is that makes white girls or black girls or Indian girls or Pacific Islander girls "not cute like dolls" and that's a serious question and I'm not looking to start a full on argument. I'm really curious. Because I also have noticed this pattern of the White Male/Asian Female coupling going around in my area and I'm truly curious to know what it is and why white male choose to date them over any other race. Is it just cause they're cute like dolls? Are other races not cute?

[PineappleBreath]

l dont know the underlying brain mechanics but I can tell you it evokes a different feeling from wanting to protect them and just be around to show them things that make their eyes light up and smile.
it's the difference between calling an Asian cute vs a white girl hot.
I can speculate but keep in mind I'm making this up but these are based on my experience. 1. Culture Asians are perceived to be more submissive 2. They tend to be smaller and slimmer thus being more doll like 3. They are perceived to be more quiet and feminine so they need someone to look out for them. 4. There is a big upswing in the interest in Asian culture in the west so people my age have grown up seeing beautiful classic Asian women like the Yamato Nadeshiko, the idealized japanese woman.

[lizmorri]

I can agree w/ what u said about them being submissive. when I think of the word submissive, ya there's not one single bone in my body thats submissive lol so Ill give u that & I fully get it.
What u said about them being smaller & slender, I'm 5'2 and 105 lbs. Im petite, but... I must say I dont have the small Asian girl breasts. Im a D cup. So that one Im iffy about... cause I think my appearance is just as appealing as an Asian girls'
What u said about them being quiet & feminine, ok I'll give u that too. I'm not quiet & although I'm feminine, I was raised not to ever depend on anyone, so I do have some masculine traits as well.
& then lastly okay I don't know who that girl u mentioned is but Ill take ur word for it & just agree that she's a beauty lol
Now let me tell u my issue here, I am middle-eastern & almost NO white guys ever want to date me, so im trying to prove that IT IS an Asian girl thing for white guys, cuz they dont want women of any other race except for Asian

[PineappleBreath]

Well I'm not a moron I know race has nothing to do with personality, attraction is just some unconscious mechanism that is created from the images we see around us. Unfortunately that means all the bullshit stereotypes and perceptions help wire our brain.
The Yamato Nadeshiko is a concept not a person, it's just the perfect version of Japanese women that has all of their traditional cultural values. It's like Captain America here, look it up on Wikipedia it's interesting.
At the heart of it is the innocence vs sexuality, Asian girls are perceived to be more innocent thus need a male to be there. It's easier then dating a women who is wise to the world, the idea is for men to feel powerful and at the same time protect something good.
1. what country are you in? 2. Google the npr study on race and online dating it will probably surprise you a bit and confirm your suspicions. 3 congratulations on the D cup that is something to be proud of

[Izzy2102]

Have you ever been to an Asian country and you know got to know some natives?

[lizmorri]

Congratulations on the D cup? Haha but you said so yourself that smaller women are more attractive? So which is it? big boobs or small ones?

This is why I'm not sold on the whole "ohhh all of these amazing traits that Asian girls have is what makes them amazing" concept. I truly think it's a fetish that white men have, and to fulfill their fantasies they really just end up settling with the "girls of their fantasies" and I guess it just sucks for me to think that the type of girl I am is not the girl of anyones's fantasy, because of my race... because I'm not Asian, I'm not considered innocent and I'm not considered sexual.

[PineappleBreath]

I am attracted to all races, that is the bottom of what makes someone attractive to me. In fact I prefer the blond DD type. p*rn rotted my brain but that's another discussion. The whole point of what I said is that the reasons for some that Asians are different is that it's not blind lust or a power trip but that it's an innocence they don't get in their real life. Your right for some it's a fetish but for a larger majority it's what ascribed. In other words they would date and Asian but prefer to sleep with someone else.

[PineappleBreath]

And to answer your question, no I haven't been to another Asain country but it doesn't matter since the point is all about how men perceive Asians. Also I find Arabic women gorgeous, I'm not bullshiting you to make you feel better I absolutely admire the culture they come from and they look they have is so exotic it makes me want to get to know them better

[lizmorri]

But I'm innocent too!! haha if anything I'm more innocent than the Asian girl... but instead people view me as "overly religious" or "close-minded" because of my culture but the Asian girl is considered cute and fun and sexy and innocent... it's ridiculous!

Like you said so yourself, the Asian girl is "the doll" and a girl like me gets fucked over in the end because she's limited to dating a certain group of people because of her race.

[PineappleBreath]

Wow your really narrowing your field of vision here, most men don't really care about race, if anything it's black women who get fucked over yeesh, I promise I would totally date you and most of the people I know would be absolutely intrigued by your background, it's a gift not a curse. The most interesting thing is originality, which you have.

[lizmorri]

Yea but honestly what you said about how men like that Asian girls are "innocent and sexual" that really got to me because I KNOW that that's what men love about women and although I know I have it, I don't SCREAM IT, but Asian girls do. And this whole Asian girls taking all of the good looking available guys has been weighing heavy on me for a long time now. It's something that I see every single day and just ask myself why? why is it always them? And everything that you said makes absolute sense, I get it. It's the energy that they give off, it's how they're playful yet quiet and I don't know all of the other things you said, all the things that I guess I don't exude...

[PineappleBreath]

Ok honesty time, it's not you being Arabic that's a problem but your massive insecurity that's a problem. You blame it on your race because that makes it easier since you can't control that it's not your fault. I understand, it's a coping mechanism designed to make yourself feel better since the alternative is the problem is you. Listen, the insecurity is not going to change until you can do stuff of value. That means learning to do things that you like that fulfill others needs like cooking writing being a doctor etc ... personality traits don't matter unless they help another like being funny makes a person feel better. Then you can go that guy isn't good enough for me since I do this, it will change your whole way of thinking from negative to positive which what people want to be around.

[lizmorri]

I'm actually not really insecure with myself but I am with my race. I just know what I'm limited to. I know what type of guys like me and what guys don't.

[Anonymous]

Maybe she wasn't a cunt? Sometimes it actually depends on personality :)

[Asker]

Ber face just cover up all her personality (if she has a good one). Enough said.

[Fireshadow]

Oh not another question like this!!! :( Asian girls are beautiful though :)

[shosho91]

Prospectively I want to put my money on its a change from what is usually seen my first gf was Mexican. I'd like to say it's starting onto foreign ground something different. But that's just my perspective

[TanGuyFromFarEast]

Haha its so funny cuz i am Asian guys n we keep cussing to this white guys, "why are they taking ur women "? I think u should start dating some good looking Asian guys.

[lizmorri]

They're not taking your women, your women are desperately throwing themselves at them and men obviously that.

[Anonymous]

they have bodies like men
need I say more
plus they worship white men

[Asker]

I'm butt hurt because this time
He's chasing her
She doesn't agree to be his gf yet
She gives him far less respect than I do
This isn't fucking fair!

[Kshppatel]

Oh you mad? Continue to be mad.

[Anonymous]

I don't know, but as an Asian male, I know that Asians have no butts. I would like an ass to spank and one that grinds on my crotch.

[RayLe]

This had absolutely nothing to do with the question

[girene]

It's his preference, not yours.

Don't be a hater.

[Anonymous]

cause of their furry kitties if you know what I mean ;) ;) ;)

[Anonymous]

More feminine than any other race and they are skinnier.

[bubble_tea]

@kangy I found her first this time xD

[kangy]

Hhahahahahaha we both are funny... like fishing for such topics.
Ok u won hahahaha thanks
Haters gonna hate again

[bubble_tea]

@kangy not really, but zorro brought me here and I just had to share with you because it's so hilarious xD

[kangy]

Yes hilarious

[mei0313]

you guys are so cute, tagging each other on the Asian related questions lol @kangy

[Asker]

Why do this bunch of Asians have to be this retarded?

[kangy]

Not as much as u I guess @ asker continue to be bitter and u shall walk this path alone. Jealousy just makes one hideous

[bubble_tea]

@mei0313 oh, it started because I told @kangy that I've never seen female gagers hating on Asian women... so she's tagging me to open my eyes xD

[Dark_Scorpio]

Bubble_tea You have a lot to learn them. No offense, but a look of female gagers well have other females just because they guys they like or prefer don't like them back.

[Anonymous]

Depends on where you are I think. I'm Asian and I'm in Utah. Nobody likes Asians here.

[Anonymous]

Honestly, I have no idea what they see in them looks wise

[misscoffeehead]

I like my white meat.. 😎

[HonestWhiteGuy]

medium rare or well done?

[misscoffeehead]

@HonestWhiteGuy whatever.. Surprise me

[HonestWhiteGuy]

Ok... bend over lol

[misscoffeehead]

@HonestWhiteGuy lol your username is a dead give away

[Anonymous]

Exotic and fetish

Tight pussy

[lizmorri]

You don't believe that girls of other races (White, Black, Indian, Middle-Eastern, Pacific Islander, Latina) have "tight pussies"? Only Asians?

[Opinion Owner]

Well its just what I heard

Asians have smaller figures and just smaller overall. Some even have a hard time giving birth

Others too of course, but Asians are know for their tight small pussies

But Asian women, well there sexy and exotic to most plain white dudes I guess lol

[lizmorri]

Okay so what attracts you to them is that they are exotic and sexy. Okay fair enough.

But I have another question; so if it's really their appearance why is it that white men are NEVER seen with other types of "exotic and sexy" women like middle-eastern women?

[Opinion Owner]

Im not really that attracted to Asian women to be honest.. some I guess

Middle eastern women I think are problematic, She have strong religious values and their culture really does not accept white people.

But men always love latins, Europeans, Swedish girls... these girls are desired by all races I think on average

[lizmorri]

Interesting that you said problematic. Haha

Okay again fair enough. I really just wanted people's opinions.

[Opinion Owner]

@lizmorri

hahah yes it becomes problematic when the race sort of hates the western society... lol

Also remember Asian women have a sort of stigma attached to them. Thailand is known for their sex industry big time...

When you have a race thats attached with sex appeal, like latins and Asians... its going to draw more attention

[lizmorri]

Okay so basically middle eastern are not sexual creatures? or at least that's what is perceived of them

[Opinion Owner]

They are sexual creatures by nature because there obviously human

But most of the times they will behave as its sin to think sexual thoughts with someone other then their future husband... Everything is really like that, except there just more muslims that are loyal to their religion, its probably because of the stigma from their countries if you DONT follow it

Western society won't shun you as much, in a muslim country you are horrible and terrible if you dont.

it simply gives them a LOW sex appeal... Sex appeal is whats sexy not being a whore and having sex all the time, its just sex appeal

[Asker]

Middle East women are problem makers. I think because they're so religious only middle east men want to date them (I have white male friends I know lol). So yeah that's basically it don't have to go to all the comments and show your hatred towards other race.

[lizmorri]

Asker: I think u are an Asian woman, who started this thread to see how many people would defend ur race. It's very obvious, u are not a caucasian girl. Because right when u saw my comments about how I was raising up REAL facts & issues, u changed your story and said this to me:

"I really just don't like that one Asian girl, not all the Asians out there. I was quite mad when I wrote my questions, that's why. But not all of them have small boobs. Some are really attractive are have to say, only that one girl is not lol. But yeah you seem like you're jealous with Asian women in general."

which contradicts EVERYTHING else u said on this thread... before u went on & on putting Asian girls down about only their looks only because u obviously just wanted to hear EVERYBODY defending Asian girls & saying how beautiful & perfect they are so you can feel good about yourself...

by the way I am not Jealous of Asian women. I am baffled at how desperate they are for a white boyfriend.

[Asker]

Well just because you're jealous of Asian women doesn't change my race into Asians. I was mad when I wrote this, yet seeing you talking badly about Asians just because you can't get sone guys with my skin color really gets on my nerves. I have some Asian friends and they're all nice, and you're msking assumptions on all of them because you're jealous. Just stop. I hate this girl BECAUSE she took my crush, but yoy hate ALL Asian girls BECAUSE you're jealous, amd they didn't even take anything away from you. You comment on everyone's opinion with your jealousy. You're being a psycho. Just grow up...