Why does a man over 35 mostly date women in their early 20's?
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There are few different answers to this question. Let me see if I can give a little insight. I am 36 years old, and the honest fact is that I find myself attracted to a variety of ages when it comes to women. But usually for different reasons.
One reason is because of the innocence factor. Even though some of the girls are a little wild, there are so many women that are dominant women out to prove something to the world or to the male race. They are soft and sensuous, yet forgiving. Where as older women carry a little more baggage over their lifetime, which makes them more cautious and guarded with their emotions. I also believe that this younger generations is having a certain sexual freedom instilled into them more so than the 30-50 year old range. The word "NO" seems to be something that is not heard quite as frequently.
The second reason is mid-life crisis. Though this does not apply to myself, a number of men start to feel their age creeping up on them, and they just want to prove that they can still get one of those "hot little numbers" that they used to have in their college days. But I believe you see this with women as well. They love to have some young studly buck come over and hit on them just as much.
But all in all, I wouldn't worry about it too much. Find your own courage to be the best woman you want to be, and I can guarantee that men will find that just as sexy regardless of age. Confidence is such a turn on.0