So me and my girlfriend have been dating for more than a month, we're both 16, and we've mostly been cuddling and holding hands and nothing really past that. She's let me put my hand on her stomach under her shirt and on her lower back and thighs but I don't know if she'd be ok with me touching her butt. If you were in the situation and the guy put his hand on your butt or grabbed it a little what would your reaction be?
What do girls think about guys touching their butts?
What Girls Said 16
Well if it's my boyfriend, I wouldn't care to be honest. It's like he better touch my ass, or I'd super glue his hands on it XD2
Maybe like jokingly tell her you plan to grab the booty and ask if it's ok, then you will really know what she thinks.1
Ok you guys haven't been together for that long even if you guys are sixteen it still isn't that long. Touching her but should have her consent especially so early in on the relationship. She lets you touch her stomach so touching her but shouldn't affect her. I don't let my boyfriend touch my stomach but he can touch my ass I really don't mind. Honestly just ask her if it's ok cause touching anybody in someway needs concent0
It really depends on the person. I was kinda awkward and surprised myself when my boyfriend dis it and he could tell I was uncomfortable so he just slipped it away without much fuss. You really just have to see what happens and if she looks really uncomfortable just stop and give a small apology and apologized a bit more if she looks annoyed and if she doesn't look annoyed or uncomfortable then you're fine!0
I wouldn't make a big deal of it2
It's pretty great, always touch the booty3
I like being felt up over my clothes, lets him get an idea on what could be his one day ;)1
Over clothes - totally fine. Under clothes, depends on how long we be been together0
I personally think you should go for it. Asking might make it awkward. First try the lower lower back and if no objections go for it. I personally like that but to each to there own.0
You could try moving your hand there slowly, if she stops you, respect her decision.0
Depends on the girl, I've had a guy do that to me before and I sort of made a weird yelping noise and giggled when everyone turned round and stared to try and act as if it was something else.
He thought it was cute but kept teasing me about it. I have the ability to laugh about it but some girls would freak. I guess it would also depend on how publicly you do it, as well.0
What Guys Said 6
If they like you then they like it
If they don't like you then it's harassment and creeps them out1
Don't do it. She'll probably get pregnant.1
Just go grab that ass bruh.. 😎0
I would to an elbow spin on that ass.0
They probably like it but gross poop comes from there.0
This is where you gotta learn to read your girl. If she seems on the more conservative side, maybe hold off (or ask her). If you have good chemistry and she seems playful, that would be the time to try it (although avoid doing it in public the first time, some women will snap at you for that).0
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