What do girls think about guys touching their butts?

[Im_Strange]

So me and my girlfriend have been dating for more than a month, we're both 16, and we've mostly been cuddling and holding hands and nothing really past that. She's let me put my hand on her stomach under her shirt and on her lower back and thighs but I don't know if she'd be ok with me touching her butt. If you were in the situation and the guy put his hand on your butt or grabbed it a little what would your reaction be?

[Sakura99]

Ok you guys haven't been together for that long even if you guys are sixteen it still isn't that long. Touching her but should have her consent especially so early in on the relationship. She lets you touch her stomach so touching her but shouldn't affect her. I don't let my boyfriend touch my stomach but he can touch my ass I really don't mind. Honestly just ask her if it's ok cause touching anybody in someway needs concent

[summerfox]

It really depends on the person. I was kinda awkward and surprised myself when my boyfriend dis it and he could tell I was uncomfortable so he just slipped it away without much fuss. You really just have to see what happens and if she looks really uncomfortable just stop and give a small apology and apologized a bit more if she looks annoyed and if she doesn't look annoyed or uncomfortable then you're fine!

[ChanelD]

omg boy touch that butt! If a guy didn't give my butt attention id prolly lose interest lol

[Im_Strange]

Haha, is that a common way for girls to feel?

[ChanelD]

yes!

[Im_Strange]

So you think she'd feel like that too? I don't want to make her uncomfortable lol

[ChanelD]

i mean i dnt kno for sure lol everyone is different. but id say a normal girl would be waiting for it

[Im_Strange]

Haha ok ok, how do you think I should go about doing it?

[Anonymous]

This is where you gotta learn to read your girl. If she seems on the more conservative side, maybe hold off (or ask her). If you have good chemistry and she seems playful, that would be the time to try it (although avoid doing it in public the first time, some women will snap at you for that).

[Mesonfielde]

If they like you then they like it
If they don't like you then it's harassment and creeps them out

[mooky06]

Well if it's my boyfriend, I wouldn't care to be honest. It's like he better touch my ass, or I'd super glue his hands on it XD

[Anonymous]

You could try moving your hand there slowly, if she stops you, respect her decision.

[LikeItsHoly]

Maybe like jokingly tell her you plan to grab the booty and ask if it's ok, then you will really know what she thinks.

[Cady_19]

I would love it but my butt is small so I'll be self conscious about it

[skeptic002]

its okay i feel you :(

[Bobbyhill1]

eh thats not as important as you think

[Cady_19]

Yeah I know but I'm 5'1 and petite. his hand will probably cover one whole butt cheek ahah. I wouldn't mind if he would do that. I'll just be a little self conscious at first.

[Bobbyhill1]

lol oh.

[singlebee]

Most of us guy like small butts... so don't be self conscious :-)

[Bobbyhill1]

@singlebee lol speak for yourself buddy. Most are indifferent. Its not a deal breaker

[IvoirianGirl20]

I would kick you in the ball. Never ever touch my butt.

[Im_Strange]

😂 alright I'll keep that in mind if I think about touching her butt so I don't do it. Definitely do not want my balls kicked

[IvoirianGirl20]

Maybe she'll like it. But I sure as hell won't if I were her

[Im_Strange]

Ok thanks for the advice, maybe I can ask her if she's comfortable with it first

[IvoirianGirl20]

Good idea

[thissiteisforpervs]

This girl doesn't like anything, don't mind her, QA

[Bobbyhill1]

a kick in the balls warrants a kick in the vagina. he is talking about his girlfriend fool not a random girl

[thissiteisforpervs]

No, she's talking, any guy

[Bobbyhill1]

@thissiteisforpervs so would it be ok if a girl touched my ass to kick her in her groin or punch her boob? the thing is, girls like this are actually sadistic and want any excuse to resort to physical violence, its sick.

[thissiteisforpervs]

As I said, she doesn't like anything, and will block you if you don't agree with her. No one should be hitting anyone. You just don't do it

[Bobbyhill1]

@thissiteisforpervs well we can agree on that, but let me end this here and mute this post before she replies with some stupid crap then blocks me lol

[thissiteisforpervs]

Will do the same

[Anonymous]

Depends on the girl, I've had a guy do that to me before and I sort of made a weird yelping noise and giggled when everyone turned round and stared to try and act as if it was something else.

He thought it was cute but kept teasing me about it. I have the ability to laugh about it but some girls would freak. I guess it would also depend on how publicly you do it, as well.

[heavenlyhannah]

I like being felt up over my clothes, lets him get an idea on what could be his one day ;)

[Im_Strange]

Haha maybe she'll have the same attitude too, I sure hope so lol, she's got a nice body

[rgb008]

Hot and a turn on if it's my boyfriend.
Unacceptable if it's anyone else.

[Im_Strange]

Ok so you think it's alright since she's my girlfriend?

[rgb008]

Well it would be nice if you asked her and I'm sure she would appreciate it.
Nothing wrong with that.

[Im_Strange]

Ok so I should ask her first?

[rgb008]

If you feel that's the right thing to do.

[Im_Strange]

Um I don't know what the Right thing to do is lol, I'm trying to figure that out through other people's opinions

[Anonymous]

Being younger, I don't necessarily think you should go any further however I I will answer your question

I love it when my guy touches my butt and squeezes it but sometimes it tickles lol

[Im_Strange]

How old do you think I should be to do something like this?

[Opinion Owner]

It's different for different people but I think at least 18 is a better idea. (Assuming you aren't someone who would want to wait till marriage or engagement)

[Im_Strange]

Ok I'll take that older thing into consideration I definitely think it's a good point, thanks

[Opinion Owner]

You're welcome :)

[TacosRAwesome]

Over clothes - totally fine. Under clothes, depends on how long we be been together

[grixxlybear]

I personally think you should go for it. Asking might make it awkward. First try the lower lower back and if no objections go for it. I personally like that but to each to there own.

[NC4523]

They probably like it but gross poop comes from there.

[LameEngineer]

It's pretty great, always touch the booty

[teawrecks]

@chico_brah touch my butt

[thissiteisforpervs]

Oh, great, here we go again, with this dude

[Im_Strange]

@thissiteisforpervs thats a great username

[thissiteisforpervs]

Because it's true

[Im_Strange]

@thissiteisforpervs it really is. But I mean everyone is at least a little Pervy

[thissiteisforpervs]

Doesn't give people the right to come on here and be pervy. This is a q and a site, not a sex site

[Im_Strange]

@thissiteisforpervs yeah I don't think people should be pervy but asking questions that reasonably fit under sexual behavior or dating or relationships is alright

[thissiteisforpervs]

Not like this answerer though

[Im_Strange]

@thissiteisforpervs I don't really mind it, i just ignore stuff like that, it doesn't affect me so I'm not too worried about it

[thissiteisforpervs]

Eh, I guess

[soulbabe]

I wouldn't make a big deal of it

[Theodorable]

Don't do it. She'll probably get pregnant.

[Wingedz]

I would to an elbow spin on that ass.

[Jan1ssary_]

Just go grab that ass bruh.. 😎