Girls, My girlfriend's way too clumsy?

[Anonymous]

She'll occasionally elbow me or smack me accidentally when we're cuddling, which i honestly don't mind to much. But what really bothers me is sometimes she'll accidentally knock me in my groin and it HURRTS. When we're cuddling she'll move her leg and forget my balls are there. She's fine to be clumsy but if she's gonna not be careful with my balls, how do I deal with this?

[MidnightStar]

Start wearing a cup all the time lol
As it says your under 18 im going to guess she is too which means she's used to sleeping by herself and not having to be careful... just remind her, im clumsy myself and still do it from time to time, usually when im drunk, but a friendly reminder is all it takes, or hold her so tight that she can't move

[Asker]

So wait, are all clumsy girls just drawn to accidentally hitting their bfs in the balls XD?

[MidnightStar]

I can't speak for all of us clumsy girls lol i only hit 2 guys in the balls on purpose, both times they deserved it, but its one of those things, most girls do it, in my case i was trying to be get a better angle on kissing or whatever and my foot got caught, i pulled a little too hard and boom, most of the time it happened while i would be sleeping, until i trained myself to wake up and switch positions

[Asker]

Those 2 guys must've been jerks to desire that...

and Thanks, I tried giving friendly reminders and it happens... less frequently XD She forgets sometimes, but I'm grateful she's making the effort!

[Asker]

* deserve

[Baitedfaun469]

I used to be like that... what worked on me was just understanding but constant reminders. also, my boyfriend just started flinching all the time...

[Asker]

Wait sorry XD You use to be clumsy in general, or you use to be clumsy and accidentally smack your boyfriend in the balls? Cuz if it's the latter that's a good insight. Like, what kind of 'reminders'?

[Baitedfaun469]

I mean just like your girl. I would elbow him while cuddling or shift and smack his face. and I would knee him all the time. what was really bad was when I would lay in his lap while we watched tv. I would shift and dig my should in his groin. I always felt so bad!!! he would say things like "if you lay in my lap, warn we when you're gonna move". you know, not being mean, just reminding me not to hurt him :p

[Asker]

Yeah, that's pretty accurate... So, I should tell her to warn me before she moves? Wouldn't that be annoying for to have to do that when we're cuddling and stuff?

[Baitedfaun469]

it was a delicate dance between the two of us... in the end, I think he probably endured more from me than he was letting on.

[strangytie]

I honestly forget how sensitive guys are down there and do it constantly. Just tell her to mind her limbs so you don't lose your balls

[Asker]

Haha, I don't know how many times you've done it if you do it "constantly," but just be careful XD We really are sensitive there... XD

[hospitable_pepperoni]

Tell her to be more careful. She probably isn't thinking about it and doesn't realize how much it hurts.

[Asker]

Probably. but what can i do to make her 'realize how much it hurts' for me when she does it?

[hospitable_pepperoni]

There's nothing you can "do" to make her realize how much it hurts. Just describe to her how much it hurts and hopefully she cares about you enough to take your words to heart and listen. And if she does it again, stop, point it out, and show her how much pain you're in.

[Asker]

I get you. But how do I show her how much pain I'm in? Just... like, cry? lol

[hospitable_pepperoni]

I mean if you want xD If I were you though I'd just describe it and tell her it really hurts, and she should understand and respect that.

[Asker]

I sure hope she does. Thanks, this helped !

[hospitable_pepperoni]

No problem :-)