I'm stuck between two girls and need help on deciding which one I should be with?

nickpink38
I'm currently dating a girl that is going to school full time and has no job and is 19. Well her and I get along but it seems like it will just be a sexual relationship because the second date into it she threw herself out there so we could have sex and we ended up having sex. It seems all she is looking for is a guy to take care of her and sex. She told me she can't get into romantic dates (I'm a hopeless romantic). Also it seems like I'm afraid she'll cheat on me because all of her good friends are guys, even her best guy friend and her say I love you to each other all the time and she told me the only reason she is not dating him is because she doesn't want to ruin the friendship (red flags are going up all over the place with her). Also I want to settle down in a couple years and she will be 21 in a couple years and not ready to settle down and I don't want her to because I want her to experience being 21.

The other girl is 22 and works full-time as a manager and goes to school. I can tell from her previous relationships (I've been friends with her for 5 months) she lets guys walk all over her and I've let girls walk over me so I thought maybe we would work out (don't know). Also I've talked to her and she is very mature for her age and would like to settle down in the next couple years. She and I both don't have anger problems (btw the one of above actually uses physical violence when she is mad). Also this girl and I have more chemistry between personalities (the girl and I above only have sexual chemistry at this point). I feel like I'll regret not going after the 22 year old because we connected together through personality other than sexuality but I feel like I could make a mistake by letting the 19 year old go; I just need help and deciding who I should date; by the way I'm about to 23 and work full-time and finishing up school in the fall. Also if it makes a difference in distance the 22 year old lives 15min away and the 19 year old lives 40min away
I'm stuck between two girls and need help on deciding which one I should be with?
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