Being an asshole is more attractive to girls?

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OPBinYYC · Accepted Answer

Don't care, but honestly felt sorry for you, not in a pity way but I've been there. Tell you this much bro, be yourself, boundaries all about boundaries, and if you can stand true to what you believe and not put on an act then you will attract the kind of woman not girl that wants you for you. If you put on a fake act women see through it, if you don't so what, you don't get laid or a date, whatever f*ck it, who cares... move on, women are like buses one comes by every 5 minutes. Women know if they are interested in you within seconds, and where that will lead, and it's tiring putting on an act. Not that I care, I am firm yet resolute, I'm respectful but don't put up with bs. I am who I am, like it don't like, that's it that's all. I don't put up with shit but don't act like an asshole. Call it arrogance or confidence, but people know who I am. Saying that I WAS a typical nice guy for many years, till it clicked with self actualization about who I really am... I'm that guy now. Women come onto me, but I don't care, not because I'm a asshole, but because I'm mgtow now, there you go. Never beg, nor be butt hurt if rejected. Anyways, like my comment, don't like it, I don't care. Just here to help. Cheers.

Chico_brah · Accepted Answer

It's just a matter of being yourself. If you're a nice guy trying to act like an asshole to get girls, you won't be successful. Just don't put women on a pedestal. They are not doing you any favors by talking to you and they have to work to impress you as well. Don't treat them any different than you would a guy in regards to respect.

Ashleyr09 · Accepted Answer

If you mean asshole by being confident? Then yes that is an attractive quality and anyone is attracted to a confident person. Being a confident, kind, funny, and overall a gentleman are great traits in guys.

Kyshe · Accepted Answer

I guess assholes are attractive to many girls is because of their confidence and not because they are jerks. So yeah, if said asshole is very confident, I will probably find him kinda attractive

Pepperbox23 · Accepted Answer

No, if you are an asshole to me, you can kiss my ass lol but in all seriousness, just be you. Don't be a pushover but don't be a jerk either

HikerDude · Answer

No. If you've reached asshole, you've gone too far. What girls love is a guy who isn't afraid to tell them they're wrong. I learned this lesson when a girl told me it was sexy that I told her to be quiet while I was talking. They don't fall for win is or guys who lack backbone.

Anonymous · Answer

Just don't be to kind they don't understand it and always expect a kind guy to be up to something. After they realize that your just kind they are turned off because they had to wonder to long about you. I suggest being more of a tit for tat attention kind of guy.

JohnDoe3000 · Answer

There's a correlation between being an asshole and being handsome, confident (or at least the appearance of confidence) and not needy. If you have those three qualities without being an asshole you'll get the girls too.

MissMinaaaa · Answer

Never in my life have I ever heard a girl directly saying she like a-holes. But there are some cases where girls are just oblivious that they are in to one.

miiszmel · Answer

No way! Why would I want a guy whos an asshole? If he treats me like shit or just plain jerk, I would be out the door.

pm_me_maaac98 · Answer

no, its all about being an attractive/ unattractive guy, it comes down to looks. personality doesn't even matter AT ALL to girls.

MrGreyEyes · Answer

Women are attracted to men while girls can be attracted to assholes since they're use to pieces of shit.

Bandit74 · Answer

Probably better than being too nice, but if they don't like your looks then it doesn't really matter what your personality is like.

Fitness-Fanatic · Answer

No , coz I'm a bitch so our personalities would clash too much.

Shiiara · Answer

being an asshole u will get bitches maybe and weird girls so not worth it just be nice

_xxmiaxx_ · Answer

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karahiri · Answer

No. It's a huge turn off.

killjoy2017 · Answer

Inb4 "it's about confidence, not being an asshole"

alice55 · Answer

It's not but you shouldn't be a pushover either.

dolemite68 · Answer

Works better than being nice

StainedClass · Answer

Not on this website evidently...

moopie123 · Answer

Absolutely not

Anonymous · Answer

With some girls that definitely seems that way

DareAttracted · Answer

To me, yes.

Shimy · Answer

Hell no, not to me !

Anonymous · Answer

No, but proper grammar is.

boochie0 · Answer

Noooo

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