Where do you meet women after college, never had a girlfriend, finding it hard to meet women, most seem uninterested and finding friends seems harder?

[Anonymous]

I don't like bars and I don't like clubbing it was just never my thing I don't like the environment it makes me uncomfortable and plus I noticed that bars and clubs seem to be more for one night stands, I'm involved in some activities but the women are either older or already married or have boyfriends, I'm finding it difficult to meet women, I have also tried online dating and had accounts but I never got anything on there and anytime I reached out and tried I never got a response, I just don't know where to look or go some people say grocery stores or the gym but I've also heard many girls say that that's a no no and that hitting on girls in the grocery store is creepy and approaching girls at the gym is inappropriate because many have earphones in and are there for the sole purpose of working out, i have also tried friendships because I know that you can get a girlfriend through friends but I'm finding it a lot harder to make friends after college, people just don't seem interested and many people are busy with work or have families etc other responsibilities, can anybody give me some as to where I can go or how I can meet girls? People just seem uninterested to meeting others or cold, I don't know where to go?

[SomeGuy37]

That is LIFE, after college, if you didn't meet her there!! But most that meet there, have a couple of kids, then divorce, and totally fck up thier kids!!
Which way is best?
I would rather be with the RIGHT Woman, for the RIGHT reasons, than be with someone I don't really love, having kids, and fcking them up!!
I wish I could give you an answer! I've had friends set me up, but they are usually unsure, lonely, and like me, and we have NOTHING in common, except a friend that 'feels sorry for us both!!'
I wish I could say something positive, but it only gets harder, the older you get!! Sorry.

[Asker]

And of course only 1 female answered my question and they gave the same generic response that I always get, friends, work and online dating, even after I explained.

[SomeGuy37]

I know, right? If you don't get one in college, you are pretty much DOOMED, I think!! I've had a few relationships with ones I have worked with, or friends of ones I work with, but nothing that lasts even a year!!
Maybe just get really comfortable with Rosy Palm? Wish I could say that it works out, but I'm still single, but I'm kind of picky!!

[Anonymous]

You sound just like me, having same issues too, I wish I knew, but the only trick I know is if you have a cute dog or know someone that you could take their dog for a walk in an active area where women are they seem to let their guard down for a furry friend and you may have a chance to get a number 😊

[Anonymous]

Friends/acquaintances, work environment, online.