Is having a sugar daddy a sin?

[Anonymous]

Is it wrong to have a sugar daddy who's married? I'm 18 and I got into my top university, which is about $50,000yr, and I found a sugar daddy who was willing to help me with my tuition. However, he's married, and he wanted the sexual relationship as well as my company. But the thing is, when my mom was younger, she had an affair with a married man, and years later, her marriage failed. So what I'm trying to say is that what goes around comes around. So, is having a sugar daddy who's married, a bad thing? What if we agree not to do anything sexual together?

[Anonymous]

It depends. I think having a sugar daddy is ok but it would be best if he is not too old and not married. Him being married will probably make you feel ashamed and bad. Also I don't think you will be able to find a sugar daddy who doesn't expect any sexual things. Maybe look for a guy who wants to be financially dominated. A guy asked me to do that to him once but I couldn't go through with it. Also if he is old and ugly and gross, I don't think you should do it because you will be stuck forever with memories of having sex with some nasty guy for money. It's bad for your self esteem, so if he's old and ugly and gross then I think you should try a job instead.

[Anonymous]

I definitely believe that having a sugar daddy is bad. And I guess it also goes back to the old saying , those who do not learn from history are doomed to repeat it. You must also consider the fact that you maybe causing more harm than good to what seems another crumbling marriage. Since you were able to make it to an university, I'm sure you can make the needed adjustments. After all you have your whole life ahead of you don't waste it on a guy who has already lived..

[Jennette]

It's not fair to use someone for their heard earned money. Not only are you helping him stab his wife in the back, but you're also using him for the fruit of his labor with no real interest in him romantically. If the money goes, so will you and that's really not right.

[Jennette]

You're also depriving yourself of a true, fulfilling relationship and wasting your life on an imitation of a relationship. You can do better.

[Asker]

Thank you

[Jennette]

You're welcome!

[Astoriana]

If you're having second thoughts, you already think it's wrong. You wouldn't need to ask if you didn't already know the answer. Admit that you think you're doing a bad thing and act accordingly.

[Harlock2045]

I understand that school is expensive, but selling youself for tuition? do you think that little of yourself, and with a married man? what is your end goal here, do you expect to break up his marriage, or just go on selling yourself. what about after college? will you be his plaything, if so, why even bother to go to school, when you are being supported.

[Mega_illuminati]

I dont think any man would agree to pay that kind of money, if he is not getting any sexual favours.

Secondly, you will essentially be helping him cheat on his wife. Yes, it is bad. And if you believe in karma, then it could happen to you or your kids also.

[prince1102]

Do you care that you're ruining his marriage, destroying his wife's life? Do you care that you're stealing time he should be spending with his kids & wife? His wife & kids NEED him, you're just using him.

There are loans for university, there are wealthy guys out there that are single. Find a sugar daddy whose single.

[Asker]

He has multiple sugar babies, I'm not the only one.

[prince1102]

Neither his or your behavior is remotely okay, both are highly immoral. His lack of morals doesn't make what you do any more noble.

[Asker]

I'm not doing anything wrong. I haven't had any sexual relations with him. I haven't even gone out on the "arrangement date" with him. I was just asking a question.

[prince1102]

I know a girl who was just in a sugar daddy situation; when you're not giving up any sugar, you aren't getting your bills paid, new clothes bought, rent/tuition paid, etc. When the sex stops, so does the money.

[Asker]

I get your point. But what I'm saying is, I've never done anything with him.

[prince1102]

That's good, I hope you understand the situation better. Being a sugar daddy is essentially a sex for money swap, but given his marriage/kids situation it should be an easy decision for you.

[edaud400]

its kind of... sleezy.

If you were married and your husband decided to have a sugar baby 30 years younger than you, would you like it? Basically, treat others how you want to be treated.

[edaud400]

Also, that makes you no better than a common prostitute. So, basically, if you're ok with being a hoe, then maybe go ahead.

[Hawn84]

I thinking it's a bad deal because he'd cheating on his wife. I wouldn't want to be cheated on. If no sex is involved I don't see a problem with it at all.

[TheOtakuMaid]

yes verse 5465 *Thau shalt not call their husbands Daddy"

its right above "TheOtakuMaid Is always right"

and just below "Sin is bullshit YHWH ain't real. you got trolled"

[dublin_sexyeyes0]

If you're gonna be a sugar baby then be prepared for a lot of sex. I know two sugar babies 18 n 19 both dating guys 45+ and sex is the primary feature.

[ilovekittens123]

no its not a bad thing like tbh he's gonna do it whether its with you or not, yeah cheating doesn't feel good but he's a cheater and is gonna do it whether or not your there

[HungLikeAHorsefly]

If you mean "is being a whore a sin" then I dunno, probably.

[Anonymous]

Damn you lost your self respect, I hope you find it one day.

[JC103]

If all members of the relationship is aware and cool with the arranged agreement then no.

[Anonymous]

No, it's not!
There ain't nothing better than having a married sugar daddy. It's a plus if you destroy his marriage and make his wife and kids hate him forever.

[Opinion Owner]

@kraft413 And?

[kraft413]

nothing just my opinion

[Thinkthought]

depends, is he in an open marriage or is he a swinger?

[sbenner93]

he's gonna expect sex unfortunately so be prepared when he pressures you

[Anonymous]

You would rather be a whore than get a job. College won't do you any good, you're trash

[Asker]

Who said I didn't have a job? Don't judge before you know all of the facts.

[edaud400]

You gave sufficient facts to be labeled a hoe. Whether you have a day job is irrelevant to that fact.

Also, put the shoe on the other foot. If you were married to someone, would you be OK with him having a sugar baby (whether or not she had a job)?

[Anonymous]

I would learn from Mom's experience

[Asker]

I agree

[Anonymous]

I know what I would do and yea go for it

[edaud400]

When/If you get married, I hope your husband doesn't make you into a cuckquean (female version of a cuckold).

[finxoxo]

do you think its a bad thing?

[Anonymous]

Its wrong,

[Anonymous]

Well it does make you a prostitute.

[Anonymous]

Why can't you just be ambitious?

[danny17]

are you doing him?

[Asker]

No, I'm not.

[danny17]

what do you want to do