I have known this guy for about three years. I just started going to the same college as him and we have been hanging out since I got here. He has taken me on a couple dates, we started hooking up, and we just had sex for the first time. When he dropped me off he said text me sometime... was that a way of trying to sound nice but he has now become uninterested? Or does he really want me to text him?
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Ugh...that' totally sucks! Sorry sweetie! You know what, it does sound like he's wanting to back off. If this happened today though, I would give it a day to see if he texts or calls you (don't text or call him, just give him a chance to initiate something).
If after that 24-48 period, you don't hear a peep, then I think it's pretty safe to say that he's intending to put space between you guys. Now if that's the case, I don't want you to be like "What did I do?" or "Was I bad in bed?". Because if he's out the door right after you guys sleep together, then that means that THAT was all he was after. Because if he really likes you and wants to get more serious than what you are, any way the sex is would be GREAT because it would be ADDING to what connection you guys already have. If that's all he was looking for, then it sounds like you dodged a bullet because this would make him a player.
Bottom line - test it out a little over the next day to see if he comes at ya, if not, then CALL him and ask him if he wants to go on a date this weekend. Whatever his response is, then you'll know if he's in it for just sex or more. Good luck hun!0