Grey hair in your 30s... hot or not hot?

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My boyfriend has grey hair and he's in his mid-30s. He has Italian ancestors and I don't know if that's a thing in Italy for guys to stat greying in their 30s. I find it very attractive but my mother, who is Asian, is freaking out that he looks old... she even accused him of lying about his age.

What do you think ladied, men in their 30s with grey hair, sexy? Or not sexy?
Also, is it a things for people with Italian ancestory to go grey at a younger age?

Jackieboi · Accepted Answer

Im wondering this myself, no italian ancestory but very close. I had like 5-10 on each side since i hit like 20. didn't think much about it these last years until lately. Since April i worked continously and sometimes even saturdays with some overtime. Last week i noticed its grown to 10-15 on each side. I guess growing wings takes a lot of time, though im not sure i want them, especially when after 10 years theyre only a couple spread around making it look old rather than mostly white making it look "wingy". Maybe hell just have a couple/little for a long time before any real changes take place

Logorithim · Accepted Answer

Most Caucasian guys start going gray by then, some even sooner, so it's perfectly normal.

princessfromjupiter · Accepted Answer

I wouldn't mind a few grey streaks in a man that age, as long as their aren't balding we're all good hahaha

Emmdk · Accepted Answer

In my family we get it in our late twenties so I guess people are just different. It's just hair.

PinkChampagne · Accepted Answer

Grey hair at that young age is maybe because of a stressful situation

ChronicThinker · Accepted Answer

Salt n' pepper hair can look good on guys. Girls? Ehh...

Desconhecida · Answer

Hot for guys  Society sucks

unkqty · Answer

as far as i know, my lineage is predominately german, with a few other denominations - all north and west of bavaria. i had a few grays here and there in mid-20s but really started graying noticeably in mid-30s. it also became much finer (really bugs me on a windy day). maybe it's from all the fast living and voyages to faraway lands..
only consolation is that it's all still there.

Sevenpointfive · Answer

so guys with dark hair tend to grey faster. my first grey hair in my teens. i've had many compliments on my hair so i'll never use dye. i find it sexy myself. it's kind of like always wanting to be a blonde lol

Hispanic-Cool-Guy · Answer

I had a dude that was 15 or 16 in my high school that had tons of grey hair on his head.

Some guys mostly with guys with cacausian type hair can rock grey hair with mixed black hair really nice with the right hair style while other guys just look old.

Berethor · Answer

Well there is nothing he can do about it anyway, unless the guy is into dyeing.

NEOTUNIA2U · Answer

Men age faster these days. Grey hair can show up before they even hit 30.

AynonOMouse · Answer

I got 5 White hairs in my mid 30s. I pull them out because I don't want to see it. But men in my family never go bald their whole lives. :)

zagor · Answer

My cousin's friend was going salt-and-pepper at 23. His friends would win bar bets with strangers betting that he was older.

Aenetone · Answer

If you find it cute, whats the problem? It's just hair, for gods sake! He's a silverback. Just means he's found the love of his life and knows more than anyone.

mel1695 · Answer

Hell I had white hairs since I was 12!  But I can imagine it, and it truly sounds hot. I bet he can rock it.

WhereAmI · Answer

No. It is not and has nothing to do with ethnicity. It is hereditary though.

Anonymous · Answer

My classmate already has some grey hair and he's in his mid-20s. Looks fine on him. I wouldn't worry that much, personally

Eryxx · Answer

It is totally normal. Some guys do look with grey hair if they know how to handle them.

Redstang88 · Answer

Not just Italians, certain people just have bad genes for it. I have friends that are going bald in their early 20s or grey in their early 30s

ninjafemme · Answer

It's not common to be grey in 30s and it doesn't fit well with some people

Dionigi · Answer

It's not a thing here in Italy. Going bald is thought. So if he still has hair, he is very healthy and will look young in his 50s and 60s

TacosRAwesome · Answer

I'm from very close to Italy and have had a few whites since my early 20s.

larswisner · Answer

I'm no expert, but I heard that stress can make hair turn grey.

dipeshb · Answer

Is it genetic? I suppose it's because of some vitamin deficiency.

Lance1965 · Answer

Not hot. I started going grey in my 30's and I hated it.

Grey hair in your 30s... hot or not hot?

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