Girls, is a guys height a dealbreaker to you?

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Spiritwander · Accepted Answer

I think its important to separate the types of attraction here. As a tall guy, I've gotten the whole "intimidation factor" my whole life.
There's a HUGE DIFFERENCE between "attracted to" & "gonna do anything about"
The thing is, because the big guy is "so intimidating", legally these days, he literally can't make the first move without a thumbs up from someone, indicating they won't be sued or arrested for it (simply because there *are* girls playing the "I had to. I felt pressured/intimidated into it, etc."

So, basically, a tall guy actually has *zero* "approach options" after he leaves high school, unless a girl is attracted to his career more than she's attracted to him.

Otherwise, it takes a brazen type of girl that gets past her fears and climbs that tree that gets to keep the view... 😅

bamesjond0069 · Accepted Answer

I dont date a girl unless she is shorter and smaller than me. I want to be able to pick her up and carry her. Im pretty strong so if i can't do it not many could. Ideally i love girls around 5ft plus or minus 2inches and like 85 to 105lbs oh thats the sweet spot for me. 😍

Dashee · Accepted Answer

To be fair with you, yeah. It's just a personal preference. I'm a really short girl, (153 cm), while the average length of women in my country is about 169 cm. Still though, I love tall guys. My legs go weak if I see a guy who's half a meter taller than me.
In a way I feel bad because it's normal for a guy to be taller than a girl, and all my friends keep telling me I should take the short guys because of that, but I feel like I can't really get attracted to them… Everyone has their own personal taste though, and I've heard short guys tell me they'd like it if I were a bit taller too. I don't really care though, there's someone out there for everyone.

foriWish · Accepted Answer

Nope. I am 5'1 though so I'm pretty sure most guys are taller than that. I really hate my height. I wish I took the height gene from my dad and turned out to be at least 5'5 instead. He was over 6'0 but than my mom is 5'0 so I got an extra inch😂. Guess mother nature was like "screw you! you want it too bad"

simplyaramdomgirl · Accepted Answer

Short height is. Personally I've never been attracted to short guys. It's not that they aren't attractive it's more so my preference. However tall height hasn't. I've always had a thing for tall guys.

AmandaYVR · Answer

Yeah, it is. I really strongly prefer someone a little taller than me (and larger in frame, in general). I am with someone my own height now, and I don't love that but it wasn't a dealbreaker because we hit it off so much. But shorter, I probably wouldn't. It's embarrassing when restaurant staff, etc. make comments where they've mistaken them for another female.

Melisssa · Answer

No, not really.
You can have equal amount of fun either being the same height. I used to like a guy who was only an inch and a half taller and I’m 5ft 5.
Most girls are going to say yes cause it gives them some sort of protection I guess. It doesn’t bother me.

VaIiant · Answer

Yeah. If you're shorter than me, or within my height range, its probably a no-no. I'm 5'4, I don't want to go out with a tiny man whose also 5'4. If I was taller, I wouldn't care as much. I prefer over 5'8.

Bandit74 · Answer

I think most girls have a strong preference for guys in the 6ft-6'3 range but know there aren't enough of them for every girl to get one so most will settle for a guy who is average height if he compensates for it in other ways. Height starts to become more of a dealbreaker when the guy is 5'6 or shorter.

Anonymous · Answer

Yeah women want to be able to select men based on physical preferences men can't control. But they then turn around and piss and moan that men want to be able to select women based on physical preferences that women can indeed control.

Quite hypocritical if you ask me

JSmuve · Answer

I think it'd be prudent to say what you consider 'tall'. Otherwise, you get different people with different ideas of what's considered tall. I imagine guys' viewpoint on what tall looks like is different than what girls consider tall due to the fact that guys are, on average, taller than girls.

sockandshoes · Answer

yes absolutely. im a taller girl and i need a taller guy. he doesn't have to be much taller but as long as he is im fine.

Samantha_17 · Answer

I can't imagine a shorter guy having me ! Men should be taller :)

motownplayer2000 · Answer

If it is, then that's her preference.. but if that disqualifies him, then she can never say that there are no good guys out in the world... if she has turned him down for a superficial reason. It's a major reason, yes. But just because he didn't have the height requirement she asked for, doesn't mean there are no go guys. He could have treated her better than any guy of her preference

SUMAIREBRAHIM · Answer

You're girl too please tell me you are take on this question

BlackRoseFairy · Answer

I prefer the guy to be taller, which is not hard really considering that I am 4'10". I guess it would be a bit awkward to be next to a man who's 6' but not necessarily a deal breaker.

Sofia93 · Answer

Yes it can be.. I’m a short girl (5’3) and dating someone close to my height in some way makes me feel unprotected as cruel as that sounds. I have a preference of someone over 5’10 at least.

BrittBratt2416 · Answer

Not necessarily. He doesn't have to be 6'0. I tend to like average height men to tall. I would say if he's 5'0 or shorter then it might be a little weird.

R_Cakes91 · Answer

I’m 5’4 and I went out with a guy who was 5’1-5’2. He was creepy so I ended things. I don’t care so much about height because usually the guys who are over 6 ft are full of themselves anyways.

SarahsSummer · Answer

I like guys taller than me but that’s not very difficult to find. Most everyone is taller than me.

5_AM_Oracle · Answer

I can be, I prefer guys who are around the same height, not way taller or way shorter

janna_jcb · Answer

I’m 5’8 and I like guys to be at least my height, but preferably taller

Stradivarius69 · Answer

I'm 5.4 and love a taller guy but happy to date any guy regardless of their height, smaller or same height. Nice personality and that they can look after themselves is most important.

AimeeEllenn · Answer

No, I really don't understand this whole thing about height. I don't understand why it's such a big thing. If I'm interested in someone, then Ill take them as they are.

fauchelevent · Answer

It would be. I wouldn't really wanna date someone too short but at the same time, too tall would be bad too. I'm 5'2 and I think anywhere in the range of 5'5 to 6'1 is good

Lauren-green · Answer

No way.. I don't give a shit about a guys height, I care about the person himself.

Anonymous · Answer

I'm 5'2, so as long as he's taller than me (and most men are) it's fine. I probably won't be taller than 5'3 ever in my life so yeah, short girls exist even if a guy isn't 6 foot. Also, some girls may prefer shorter guys, so I guess it doesn't matter, everyone who tries will find someone regardless of their height

Anonymous · Answer

My girlfriend is 5'8 I am 5'9.5. It's not a deal breaker for me but i usually prefer shorter or around my height.

xxrockmexx · Answer

I prefer guys closer to my height. I'm 5'6 and, I'm willing to date a guy as short as 5'4. So, generally, no, height isn't a deal breaker for me

Saarr · Answer

Height is not a deal braker at all for me. Sure, it can look good if someone is taller than me, but that is one of the least important things to me🤷🏻‍♀️

syxibxni · Answer

Not really. But, because I'm very short, it's sometimes inconvenient for me and my partner to hug 🙁 I'm 4'11 and my partner is 5'8.

Mini-Mina · Answer

I would say no height doesn’t matter to me but I am 5 feet tall so I think there is a “too tall” category. And shorter than me doesn’t matter.

Saville_Row · Answer

If I like him, it doesn't matter. Of course the guys I notice in the street are tall, but I liked guys my height or slightly taller, which is not difficult (I'm 5'2). So no, is not a dealbreaker.

genericname85 · Answer

It's funny to me that girls are so casually superficial while flipping their shit when men dare to be superficial xD

Jemini_Crocket · Answer

Kind of. I want a guy who is a notably taller than me but not too tall. I personally think height matters a lot.

Aiko_E_Lara · Answer

Well. I like girls shorter than me it doesn't matter how short she is but i can still see girls who are like 5'3 looking for guys who are at least 6 footers and doesn't even appreciate even if he is taller than him just because he is not a 6 footer.

ThisIsMyOpinion · Answer

From what I know it is. Girls usually like guys taller than them.

10seconds_to_die · Answer

Not really, but I still prefer guys who are taller than me. I like tall, skinny guys, with something like the Sid Vicious body type.

AaronKrieger · Answer

I feel like this is a question just to annoy guys that are insecure about their height. Lol

Juxtapose · Answer

The real heroes are guys who are 6 feet tall but say they are 5'11 online, or who are rich but pretend to be poor.

SassyAzz05 · Answer

Depends, sometimes if the guy is really cute and his personality is good then I wouldn’t mind him being a little shorter than me.

If the guy is cute but has a bad personality then the height would be a problem

LMNOP123 · Answer

As long as he's taller than me which is very easy to be.

angstySyn · Answer

I dont really care about appearances, but my ex's were all taller than i was. But even if i was taller i wouldve still dated them.

METALHEADi · Answer

My ex broke up with me because of my tall.. she was taller than me.. i am 161 cm she is 167

thegirlfromthething · Answer

Probably only if he was excessively short or tall. At a certain point that can get to be too much.

BirdFan360 · Answer

Am short =-) ... (Life is laughing at me, and I choose to laugh with it.)

KeyannaStyles · Answer

When I was getting with guys they could not be shorter than I.

ThottiewitaBody · Answer

I want someone a taller than me cuz I’m pretty short

chris_987 · Answer

I’m confused as to why girls can’t seem to separate height from personality

aryaaa9911 · Answer

I'm 5:10 and personally I like short girls coz they look so cute and sweet thing is look down n kiss her on forehead 😘

dantodd34 · Answer

I'm fine with a short girl provided she blows me while standing

buttcrackjoe · Answer

Well tall skinny goofy guys no tall muscular guys yes

Hazelstar · Answer

Not really.. But girls don't prefer guy shorter than her generally! 🤔

bklynbadboy1 · Answer

I'm 6'5 and I won't date a girls taller than me the have to be shorter but for me that not hard seeing as how I'm so tall

Anonymous · Answer

Not at all! I've always preferred shorter guys, but I'd be willing to date taller as well.

blondfrog · Answer

No unless maybe if she is like a midget or something.

andrermm · Answer

All i know is a like short girls and tall girls haha

AtramentalIvory · Answer

Nope, unless we have a height difference of more than two feet. So, yes, actually.

Cowboy6666 · Answer

I prefer taller life partner but it isn't deal breaker for me if i find a genuine girl

Kiran_Yagami · Answer

Of course it is. Women are just as shallow as the men they hate for being too shallow.

Razal · Answer

i don''t think it would be deal breaker for girls, but lets hear from them.

incelposting · Answer

Females consider men below 6'2 to be subhuman

jroofer103 · Answer

Hope I'm taller, but it's superficial

PrinceOfAljazeera · Answer

i dont date women below 5"5.

Christopherthrob · Answer

The taller he is the bigger the cock he has

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