There's absolutely nothing wrong with not having a boyfriend at 15. Teens like to look down on each other because the teenage years are a very rough and insecure time and it's the only way they know how to feel good about themselves, unfortunately. There's nothing wrong with being uninterested in dating at your age (or any age, as I haven't been since I left my last relationship at 21) and it's better to be confident and independent than to cave into peer pressure or enter one because you can't be alone.
When I was in middle school, my ex-girlfriend asked me who was my first person to date and I told her truthfully that it was her. Because all I remember is her being my first. Our relationship only lasted for 3 days. I broke it off with her because she told me one of the girls I hate at school, asked her if they could have sex. We were 12 then. I had sex with her 3 days before. I was angry at her for knowing the answer to the question will be a 'no', so I just said, 'yes' and broke up with her. Back to the day she asked who was my first, a guy told me that he was my first and that we dated in daycare. I didn't remember being his girlfriend and I still don't remember it. In daycare, I was about 7 or 6.
My second and last girlfriend moved away when I was 14 and she was 12 or 13. I loved her so much. She had to move because her Christian mom found out her daughter was dating a girl. She called me and I ended things with her because I didn't like long distance relationships.
My first boyfriend is when I was 12. My last boyfriend ended when I was 13. They were the worst boyfriends ever. Yet, I was too shy to be in a straight relationship because with my past experiences with male bullies.
Now, I am currently dating a 19 year old man who lives in California. He is about to be 20 in June or July. We have been together for approximately two years or a year. The reason why I am in this relationship because when I'm 18 and he is 21, he can come pick me up and I can live with him. I chose to do this because of my depression and it isn't getting better. It just gets worst. He is keeping me private until I am 18. He will tell his parents about me when I'm 18. Currently, I am 16.
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Anonymous
(18-24)
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I haven't had a relationship either. All 15 year old girls are either too annoying ( ie talking about makeup whining about spots talking about clothes) straight, related to me, my friend or taken. 15 yearold boys however, are just a hot mess. there's the occasional one that seems mature but is easily influenced by their friends. I have a guy friend who only spoke to this girl because and I quote "she has really large tits" they broke up and now he's still trying to get into her pants. There is a guy kind of interested but when I suggested going out for coffee he said my friends will take the piss. Thats why I'm going with the flow I'm not going to force anything. My boss gave me some really good advice. If you meet a person and you like them or they seem interested do not let them know what you want out of a relationship straight away. If they are determined to get in your pants (like my friend they won't be 100% honest with who they actually are because they're playing a role. There is a difference between nice and good people. Nice people tell you what you want to hear good people tell you what you need to hear.
9 by my 9 year old cutie neighbor girl and I was not allowed to have a decision in the matter. From my apparent forced married by way of mud pie aka "wedding cake" to make it official. We waited until 12 to consummate the marriage. true story... thinking about this I think we are still married humm. lol
First real relationship, I was 18. I didn't take any girl in high school serious. I had fun, but wasn't trying to be in a relationship before I was 18. Partly because I was focused on my social life with friends and scared to get a girl pregnant while in high school.
Even if you were in your early 20s it would be normal. Most people don't know who they are or what they want. Everyone is on their own timeline, don't feel pressured. Enjoy being 15 and not tied down.
Lol. You're only 15. You have time. If you were a guy it would be different. But you're a female. Women are always in demand. Maybe not in high school necessarily, but after you graduate things will blow up (trust me).
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Anonymous
(25-29)
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I’m 21 I’ve always wanted a girlfriend but just never found one I liked and can’t be bothered to make moves, instead I prefer to just focus on my life and become extremely successful in my career. That’s the most important thing. Women should be chasing me 😂 I live the most blessed life in the world! I also kind of like being single, like I feel like a man!!
That was my plan as a woman, but believe me, it usually leads to unhealthy relationships in the future since you don't really know what you want in a girl or at least don't know how to spot an unhealthy relationship. This is why I took an year off before university. I was the best student in my class, traveled a lot and learned a lot on the go. Real girl would support you and grow with you but she also need to be attracted to you and see that you can show compasion. Because successful people are usually cold and while it might sound cool and attractive, no one wants a long term relationship with them and they usually stay alone with all their money and success.
Tbh, I had crushes before him, but my first relationship was at 17.
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Anonymous
(18-24)
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Yeah you should listen to these old folks when they tell you about 20 years old but at least wait until you're 18 because you need to be responsible for yourself
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