What makes a girl intriguing to a guy?

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Liam_Hayden · Accepted Answer

As if you don't know... Anyway, to me it is being different without being annoying or obnoxious. Quirky without being insane.

coffeewithcream · Accepted Answer

Owning a liquor store is right up there.

fashionguy17 · Answer

People aren't getting to specific, so I'm going to give you a specific answer.

When I was in my younger 20s, I was a fool. Seriously. I used to be the guy who used to go barhopping, clubs and strip clubs and if a girl had a fat ass, was in shape and looked nice... I wanted to be with her. Very superficial. I know.

As I got older, my viewpoints started changing, and now I am more solified in the kind of woman I want. First off, based on my past experiences with women and where I currently am in life, I will tell you what I don't want:

-I don't a girl who is all about her looks and has nothing to offer.

-I don't want a woman who is always at the club or bar every day.

-I don't want a girl who goes on social media, flaunts her body and has an onlyfans to get paid because of her body.

What intrigues me about a woman, the kind of woman I want... it's simple.
-An artsy woman who has culture and value.

-Someone who takes care of themselves, but isn't superficial. For example, they workout at the gym, have a great body, dress well but they don't brag about their looks on social media.

-A woman who has her own money, a career OR their own business... and I'm not talking about starting an onlyfans. I want a girl who has skills that can help her get ahead in life and can use those skills to get goods or create her own business. So, yes, education is important.

-A woman who into building generational wealth and is conservative with her money and spending. A woman who invests her money into assets.

-Finally, it's a bonus if she's interested in anime, superheroes and comics. Lol.

ecfresh · Answer

When I feel that intense sexual chemistry. That point were I can’t get her out of my head whether it’s replaying a recent sensual encounter or imaging what she looks like under that bathing suit. Mystery combined with shared interests and sexual tension.

continentalbreakfast · Answer

Hobbies. Activities. What your passionate about. I've had guys get so into stuff just because I was in to it and they wanted to get closer to me.
I dont see girls do this as mucb the other way around, like say a guy likes a sports team i dont try to learn everything about that team.

AndrewMG · Answer

@1828avaava1828 a good personality, an interest in combat sports, a competitive nature, a decent right hand and a lovely personality, you know anyone who meets that criteria? lol

TonyMetal___86 · Answer

Her smile...
The way she looks at him...
The way she moves and talks...
Her honesty and tenderness...
Her voice and looks...

Also the most important factor is knowing her role in life and adoring becoming a housewife 😊

Derek567 · Answer

-A loyal woman that's kind and not demanding.

-A woman that's fairly attractive doesn't have to be model material though that would be cool. A woman who tries to look good but isn't obsessed with looks. I wish looks didn't matter but sometimes they really do and it's gross.

-A woman who loves to party at club and let loose and forgets life's problems for one night. But not let it become a habit.

-A brave woman that loves traveling seeing new places and isn't afraid to step out of that comfort zone.

That's a girl that intrigues me

Finchie40 · Answer

Her eyes and beauty and personality , how she presents herself. , if she isn’t stuck up and has a laid back personality a guy will be attracted to that , When a guy likes a girl he wants to feel safe with her and that she will be loyal to him , if he senses she wouldn’t be loyal then that’s a turn off

Jjpayne · Answer

Hey it's spidey! :) I'd say her actions, her behavior, being more open, talkative, willing to share, fun loving, wearing something fun can help too

Makeushiver · Answer

Holding something personal. Girls who aren't flirty but sexual,. You know if they're interested- and they often are, esp. MILFs. So a place she hasns't yet shared w/me because when I know everything about GFs manners, tastes, idiosyncrasies, the sex can be less enthusiastic since she no longer is the "other" that I'm trying to seduce

dmvgirl16 · Answer

I think anything can be a girl intriging but i think every guy has different view of what to them is intriguing of a girl but it just depends on the guy but it could be the physical apperance or the personality or anything

Avicenna · Answer

To me, she becomes intriguing when she seems to be someone who would make a compatible partner. That means a great personality and some interests in common with me.

Thatsamazing · Answer

Looking as close to this as possible.

StephenCF · Answer

When she stands her ground with unpopular views rather than being a sheep in desperate need of public approval 😍

worldscolide · Answer

It varies per person. In the case of my wife, it was the fact that she liked the same music as me, and she was just so different than what i had experienced before.

ValleyofDrakes · Answer

Any woman who isn't offensive or defensive and can hold a conversation without it resorting to feminism. That's intriguing.

Anpu23 · Answer

It's all attitude, an aloofness almost standoffish. But inviting enough to not be unapproachable. Guys have it too... It is a hard ballance to pull off but stunning when you can.

SpiderManFan2002 · Answer

I don't know, I'm not a guy lol Also nice picture😆

cth96190 · Answer

Nothing comes to mind. I use deductive reasoning to figure out most people fairly quickly. When the person is a female, the first red flag causes me to lose interest.

Juxtapose · Answer

Her keen interests that align with mine and a powerful aura of lust.

Paul09 · Answer

When she's real. No fakeness, physically and mentally. That's happy in her own body. Loyal, respectful, has humour, is thankful, has manners. Loves nature and everything in it. I rarely meet those women.

JoJoYolo126 · Answer

A girl who can genuinely open up to a guy and not be afraid to trully be herself around him. Who makes an effort as long as the guy makes some too, and knows how to be flirty but not pretend she likes him in any superficial way.

OpenNudist · Answer

To me personally I think what I have personally looked for in any girl throughout my entire life is Intelligence and the ability to carry on a conversation and a great sense of humor. Over and above the physical attraction obviously.

Hispanic-Cool-Guy · Answer

Open minded, cool, smart and easy to talk to. I love women like that.

slatyb · Answer

When she knows something I don't that's not pop culture.

Tunasub · Answer

For me it's the way she carries herself, a certain look, her conversation, how she may think about something's.

nodnol32 · Answer

The vibes. The appearance, personality. Its a bit of everything.

Ianto · Answer

Her vagina. Otherwise guys would be intriguing too.

LEADFOOTboi · Answer

her entire being... attitudes... styles... overall attractiveness?

COMMODOREII · Answer

Cool picture!! I wonder if @SpiderManFan2002 has seen it. 😎

jamesgoldman · Answer

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zagor · Answer

Interesting, positive personality. Physical attractiveness.

Forbic · Answer

For me it's face and style that I notice first and then as I get to know her more it's about personality and how we get along

Iron_Man · Answer

Her Beauty to start with

Cryptic-Game · Answer

Being able to cook ideally. Men love women who are good cooks.

Machiavellio · Answer

If she outsmarts all his friends and she's humble about it.

rapfan107 · Answer

Her confidence, personality, her sense of humor and how she carries herself

BigRuben10719 · Answer

That ass 💯💯💯💪💪💪💪

bklynbadboy1 · Answer

Hey mind and her personality

Jack-mayhoff · Answer

You are very intriguing

MasRus · Answer

Being myself cuz I'm the best

Pejtu · Answer

Nothing most of the time

pocketman · Answer

The girls that have smiles, and enjoy life

mattCG · Answer

When she's bi and sends you dirties.

Sabretooth · Answer

looks first than personality and similar hobbies.

BigHomieSixxx · Answer

Personality and confidence. Surefire all the time.

Blacksnake285 · Answer

Booty, smile and fun personality.

chriscdi · Answer

Different

Zippiuk · Answer

Curves and brains

_SOARER · Answer

Shared values

Fuentes · Answer

If she's dtf

Mehzmeh · Answer

The eyes

Bshu2jdbxb · Answer

Kind heart

Kathy_Scorpio97 · Answer

The way the walks.

Benjr134 · Answer

Personality.

Hotboy_booblover · Answer

Boobs...

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