I went on 3 dates with a guy I met on Tinder, we have almost every part of our life in common and it's so easy to talk with him. The last date (3rd) I went on with him he invited me out for drinks to meet his friends which I took as a big deal then I went over to hang out at his house. I ended up staying until 3am and we just talked and cuddled the whole night and he said he really liked this and said he was really into me and wanted to see me more. He said that a girl he used to know messaged him a few days ago and he told her he can't talk to her anymore because he's looking for something serious and brought that up to me to show how serious he really is about actually dating someone.
I eventually told him I had to go home because I needed to get up in 2 hours and we made tentative plans for the following night. I texted him that night and said "hey, I know we had tentative plans for tonight hope it's okay but I didn't really sleep that much last night and am really tired after today so I don't think I'd be that much fun to hang out with lol would it be okay if we planned for another night instead?" I didn't get a response to that so just assumed he was out or something.
This morning I woke and and still no response so I texted good morning and still haven't gotten an answer. But I opened Tinder and saw he unmatched me (would have happened any time after our last date because I know we were still matched right before then). I just assumed after the last night maybe he deleted his profile and was taking that as a hopeful sign but going through the part of tinder where you can swipe I saw him pop up in there - and he had different photos so had updated it. I'm really upset over seeing that. Do you think I'm reading too much into it? I thought from our last date he really was interested in me I'm feeling like maybe I misread the whole night? But he hasn't answered my last two texts and this new tinder profile is making me worry. What should I make of this and do?
I eventually told him I had to go home because I needed to get up in 2 hours and we made tentative plans for the following night. I texted him that night and said "hey, I know we had tentative plans for tonight hope it's okay but I didn't really sleep that much last night and am really tired after today so I don't think I'd be that much fun to hang out with lol would it be okay if we planned for another night instead?" I didn't get a response to that so just assumed he was out or something.
This morning I woke and and still no response so I texted good morning and still haven't gotten an answer. But I opened Tinder and saw he unmatched me (would have happened any time after our last date because I know we were still matched right before then). I just assumed after the last night maybe he deleted his profile and was taking that as a hopeful sign but going through the part of tinder where you can swipe I saw him pop up in there - and he had different photos so had updated it. I'm really upset over seeing that. Do you think I'm reading too much into it? I thought from our last date he really was interested in me I'm feeling like maybe I misread the whole night? But he hasn't answered my last two texts and this new tinder profile is making me worry. What should I make of this and do?
