Girls, do you date nerds and geeks?

[orangecherry]

I'm dating a nerdy guy right now. Have you ever or would you?

[Tiffany_Taylor_Made]

I try to avoid dating "nerds" and "geeks" at all costs. In my experiences, nerdy guys lack sex appeal, social skills, confidence, and the ability to take charge in the relationship. I experience the best relationships with men that I am sexually attracted to. Nerdy guys seem to lack time to work out and tone their bodies, nor do they have any sort of attractive fashion sense. For example, the guys in the photo that you posted lack sex appeal, both in their appearance and how they're dressed. The poor social skills of nerds also make them unattractive. When they talk to you, they usually don't know what to say, resulting in long pauses and/or awkward conversations. One of the major keys to attracting me is to know what to say and when. Nerdy guys also notably lack confidence. More often than not, they're afraid of rejection when talking to females and they're often afraid of other men. That's why nerds have a reputation for being bullied in high school, mainly because they lack the courage and confidence to stand up for themselves. I much rather date a man that I feel protected with, not one that I have to protect all the time. Them lacking confidence corresponds to their lack of ability to take charge. Nerdy guys, due to being diffident, are not likely to initiate anything. They're likely to rely on me to take them out on the dates instead of the other way around, initiate sex and have me coach them the entire time, and in a worst case scenario, have me take care of them financially similar to how a mother does with her young son.

[wingattebaby16]

I like nerds and geeks, esp in High School!

they helped me with my homework, and they are so cute.. plus, once you ask them out, yes, you have to ask them out, of the 6 nerds I dated in HS, 5 of them had dicks way bigger than any of the jocks on our sports teams..

and nerds read on google how to please a woman...

[taveuni]

there are different types of nerds

weaboo nerd: obsessed with anime, manga, japan culture [undateable]
videogame nerd: kinda cute unless he plays more than 5 hours a day [dateable]
school nerd: dateable only if he has good looks
book nerd: definitely dateable

@Ceasar97

[Ceasar97]

I agree, but what about somebody that is muliple nerd types. Like somebody that plays videogames and who is a book nerd.

[taveuni]

book + videogame sounds nice.

[Ceasar97]

He can give you random ass facts about his Russian videogame character, lel.

[FictionalCharacter]

Nerds and geeks are fun to hang out with but they mostly stink and my flirtatious scares them away lol 🧶🦋💋

[nerdybutlazy]

I love nerdy guys. My boyfriend is a bit of a nerd and honestly they are adorable

[Dnice1]

I am dating one but he's more of a sweet, hot, nerdy, geeky jock 😍