If you were ghosted by someone you’d dated, would you send a final message for your own closure?

[Anonymous]

I was ghosted after 2 months, and it really hurt me. It’s been 3 weeks today and I think about it all the time still.

I’m considering sending him a final message for my own closure, so I can finally draw a line under it. Nothing nasty, just saying I wish he’d been able to just communicate with me (I’m a kind girl) and that I hope he finds what he’s looking for. Also to tell him not to worry, and that I won’t be reaching out again.

Would you do this?

[Walamagicc]

Honestly I wouldn’t even respect him enough to send him a closure text. He’s a crappy person to ghost his own girlfriend. He doesn’t deserve anything else more from you. You see how he can just drop you like nothing. So that shows you who he is as a person and that lets you know where you two stand. He will probably be back in a few months to reconnect (guy who ghost always come back) and when he does, ghost him back. Good luck!

[Anonymous]

I’d say do it but only if you’re okay with the worst outcome. Then, you’re really ready to do it. Otherwise maybe leave it a bit until your emotions have cooled off. Not point in adding fuel to the fire.

If it were me I’d probably just end up saying something along the lines of “not cool” for whatever reason etc.

In fact I did, and when he came back he seemed to have learned the lesson and didn’t do it again. But he wasn’t a bad guy.

[Napoli]

Absolutely not. You're just playing to his ego by doing that.
Don't even give behaviour like that the time of day

[t-bag_bagwell]

Doesn't deserve your farewell message

[Luckycharms12]

If that's what you feel like you need go for it

[Anonymous]

I don’t think so