Are hands something you find attractive when dating someone?

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To be honest for me they are.
Hands are our primary tool for interacting with the world, so they are tell you a lot about that person.
Plus if they clean, well kept and manicured it's a bonus.
I like how my fiancée keeps them, plus she has perfect wrists that go along perfectly with them.
What about you?

Citizenkirk · Accepted Answer

Holding hands is the only physical form of intimacy that I can conceive of as being capable of expressing greater feelings of intimacy and closeness to someone then kissing or looking into each other's eyes, or even sexual intercourse, for that matter. Working with my hands on my life, I'm am a firm believer that a person can receive and express more through touch with the hands then any other form of communication that I can think of.
Interlocking fingers in a shared moment can be equally as arousing as interlocking reproductive organs for the same reason.

ChrisMaster69 · Accepted Answer

Yes hands are important, you can often tell a lot about someone from hands.

I do like girls with good nails.

even though I’ve some scars from someone lol.

I like them clean and tidy.

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mine are a bit scared and marked, I’ve been an engineer all my life, including working on aircraft, which often bite lol.

While I keep nails nest and tidy, they are bit rough and scared

iKarmaJones · Accepted Answer

Yes, I do look at men's hands among other things. Nails clean and not long. Cut short. Trim. Hands must be moisturized. I don't like rugged hands touching me. Strong and firm. Not too soft, but just right.

DizzyDesii · Accepted Answer

They have to look a certain way to enter this p————y. I love being fingered

ZackBan · Answer

Yes especially nails. The ones in that picture are ideal.

Fake claws are an instant pass for me. And badly maintained hands are not something I want touching me either. Sure the standard is pretty low here but the bare minimum of taking care of her hands is needed

GingerGuy · Answer

Yes but I'm not sure if in the same way for me. They aren't initially in the dating stage, but over time, especially if I start to develop feelings for her, her entire body can become more attractive, which includes her hands (even more than just the biological attraction). I can become "fascinated" with them for some reason lol. How much smaller they are to mine, how soft they are, etc.

HiveBee · Answer

I wouldn't say I'm attracted to girls hands. But, I can definitely be turned off by girls hands if they are weird in some way.

If she's got normal hands it's like ok cool. But I'm not looking at a girl with pretty hands and being turned on or attracted to her for it.

crazyish · Answer

Yes! I have no idea why but I've always thought manly hands were sexually a turn on. I feel that way about arms as well. Doesn't have to be all muscular just manly to me. The rough and calloused hands are more attractive to me.

NathanDavis · Answer

Hands are very attractive to me, and the more free and expressive they are, the better... and they're also one of the first and more present signs of confidence and hints of personality. It is something I never miss.

TurkishGirl_ · Answer

Yeah.

blondie_barbie · Answer

I love strong men's hands, it's something I notice a lot also because it makes me think about what those hands could do during intimacy lol!! Also hands are very important because they create the initial physical contact, hands are even more intimate than mouth.

Lliam · Answer

Yes. Smooth, supple, petite feminine hands with well groomed nails are very attractive. I'm turned off by long, fake and gaudy nails. Nothing wrong with colored polish, though.

Static_In_The_Attic · Answer

It all depends on her hands & if she has man hands I’m out like a fat kid in dodgeball.

White_Widow · Answer

I agree, hands can be very attractive and tell a lot about a person. But it's not something that I would consider a deal breaker if they aren't the best looking lol.

Miristheiss · Answer

I think a woman can have pretty hands, they can look soft, cute, dainty, elegant and feminine. On the flip side... as Jerry Seinfeld pointed out in one of his episodes... a woman can have "man hands".

SphynxUK · Answer

I don’t have any reasons, other than “they must have nice hands”. I wouldn’t date someone who’s hands are unappealing to me. Simple.

jamesgoldman · Answer

I notice them but don't really care unless they have horrible false nails, yellow smoker nails or talons... or an engagement/wedding/eternity ring of course

My own hand are clean, trimmed nailed and clad in silver and gold

Jjpayne · Answer

I think to me, seeing them moisturized and groomed can make a difference however I probably am looking for a nail biter myself 😂

caligirl03 · Answer

YES! I love nice hands on both men and women. Veiny and strong on men and soft and feminine on women. I wish I could have beautiful hands like that.

chocolatepenguin1 · Answer

I think hands tell a lot about a person and their story. Tbh as long as they are clean and presentable to me it doesn't matter

MindYourEyes · Answer

Yes I love my boyfriends hands. They look aggressive yet so graceful. It’s very attractive 😌

rjroy3 · Answer

No, but when a girl is small. Sometimes I'll begin to notice them and realize exactly how much smaller than me she really is lol

RingOfFire · Answer

I like nice hands on a woman. They are so small and cute! I wouldn't say it's my favorite part of a woman's body, but if they are nice... it's definitely a plus.

Poppykate · Answer

I always keep my hands clean and filed. But I don’t manicure them. It’s a waste of my time.

A_Bell · Answer

I don't like most features of women, but hands and necks are definitely highlights.

JosyJosy · Answer

sort of, like strong hands or a strong grip, like when shaking hands, some guys their handshake just sucks

poplpop1 · Answer

I’ve always had a shallow rule.. if your hands aren’t attractive- you’re not attractive to me. It’s just the way my brain works. Unfortunately my hands look like little boy hands so it can’t go both ways.

Avicenna · Answer

I don’t pay attention to a woman’s hands unless I am unsure about her age

backseatsways · Answer

It bothers me if they had ugly hands. Or they over-do the salon stuff.

exitseven · Answer

Yes, first holding hands with somebody is really nice. They have to be warm and soft but not sweaty.

clampfan101 · Answer

They’re definitely important. The hands in that picture are very pretty aside from me strongly preferring trimmed natural looking nails.

TacosRAwesome · Answer

Never really thought about it but I guess I'd find hands that are smaller than mine weird.

Anonymous · Answer

Oh yes! Tou think about where you want those fingers 😝

LiamSawyer · Answer

Yes, I love a woman's hands that are taken care of, soft, we'll manicured and real nails with red, pink, pearl white. Blue or dark green nail polish. i hate fake nails especially extra long ones.

warrenstone · Answer

Yeah I like my women to have small, soft feminine hands

MasterOfReality · Answer

Hands are nice. They don’t have to be attractive on a woman to me, just not masculine.

Anonymous · Answer

I don’t necessarily find them attractive but unattractive hands can definitely ruin a girl for me😂 I remember I was watching Wonder Woman and I saw her fingers at the end of the movie and they were fat and it ruined everything for me

Anonymous · Answer

Yes, absolutely. I've noticed men tend to have ugly hands based on my own criteria. Since I kind of have a hand fetish, I can't be with someone who has ugly hands. So, I'm single 🤷🏻‍♀️

Minahh · Answer

Yes! It is a must for me that my partner has nice hands.

Xitomyth · Answer

They're not a deal breaker for me, but definitely a preference and a bonus.

rapfan107 · Answer

Nah im not usually like dam look at the hands on that girl😍

ManHater · Answer

My hands are broken. Full of scars and missing nails that never grew back the same. Broken fingers. Rough strong hands that have had their touch sensitivity reduced.

Anonymous · Answer

I don't find hands to be any more significant than a knee. I have always wondered why nail polish was a thing because I didn't think people that were attracted to hands existed. Now I know why.

Aurora1010 · Answer

Yes, for sure. On guys, I like manly hands.

Afrenchgirl · Answer

Yes, 100%. I always look at the hands of a man.

yourbabygirl921 · Answer

No cap I'd love some veiny manly hands 🥵

WoodNymph · Answer

Hell yes. The longer the fingers the better 🥵

AddictedGirl · Answer

Yes hands are attractive

faye_girl · Answer

YES strong hands are sexy

sheikalana · Answer

Yes, but only well groomed hands.

red324 · Answer

I love it when a girl has tiny hands.

Lone_wolf122 · Answer

Not only hands but feet too lol

loveslongnails · Answer

Absolutely. I notice it a lot. Feet too !

Anonymous · Answer

I been rejected over a single mole I have on my hand 😑

austinbooth · Answer

Not really. I judge their soul

Jamie05rhs · Answer

Nah. I couldn't care less. No offense.

danielp27 · Answer

Barely pay attention to them

Anonymous · Answer

Not something I notice.

aestheticcxx · Answer

I do but I also have a hand fetish

Zach1457 · Answer

Hands and feet please

Siren777 · Answer

Yes 😊

whatdoyouwantt · Answer

Nahh lol

Pink2000 · Answer

Honestly yes.

HHHHIHHHHHIHHHH · Answer

yes ,

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