Girls, What are the things that you get impressed by?

[Nick245]

What should a guy do or say that you will instantly get impressed by him and fall in love ☺️

[AmandaYVR]

"Instantly" is not so easy. But if you want information about only the beginning stages, not the types of things that you learn over time...

• Dress well. American athleisurewear takes zero effort and is all about comfort. No one works out 24/7. So develop a personal style, and learn how to put an outfit together.
• Conduct yourself well in public. Be polite to strangers. Be extra nice to someone you'd like to engage more with. Smile. You can be shy, or reserved, but a genuine smile that comes through the eyes is always noticed.
• Good verbal communication and an elevated use of language always works for me.
• I like people who are passionate and interested in at least some things. It matters less what it is, and more that he really loves it and enjoys sharing his passion sometimes. It would surprise some others who know me, what I can find interesting, if the right man presents it with enthusiasm.
• I like details much more than generic small talk. I'll get bored, the more generic it is.

[Coulis]

I don't fall in love with people instantly. I'm too paranoid and suspicious for that.

I do get attracted to somebody instantly but it does not mean that I'm just going to Dive Right In. The attraction is simply a signal for me to observe this person. Things that would make me increase in liking that person and becoming truly interested in connecting with them as a romantic partner?

Someone who takes pride in what they are doing. Someone who I can see is passionate about what they're doing no matter what it is. It's just that it's something that they know that they are connected to and they take pride in what they're doing. Someone who can think on their feet and you can see that the wheels are turning upstairs even if they're not somebody who looks like a fancy person. And just somebody who's being authentic.

[PrincetonGirl97]

Go ten minutes without talking about, thinking of, or thinking with his penis.

[Nick245]

That's quite an answer 😂

[KellieMae]

If he has the ability to make me laugh, makes me feel wanted, and feeds me. That will get me to fall for him real quick. That’s what the guy I’m dating did to make me fall for him.

[Paola_AR]

You should be yourself, dress nicely for the date and do not ask permission to kiss her if you know she likes you back and you have the chance.

[tatianamay]

If the guy is caring, nice, respectful, polite, cute, sweet, loving and protective, I’d like him.

[PrincetonGirl97]

What if this man says "I love you" on this first date

[tatianamay]

I’d say: “see ya never, man. Good luck with life 😃” and I don't know, not go on a second date lol

[tatianamay]

I cannot handle too much of the bubbly energy lol. Like super cheerful, I can’t handle that. It becomes too always because I’m usually quite reserved

[PrincetonGirl97]

I feel you, girl. For pretty girls you're gonna get the horn bags and the clingy dudes more often than not. It's why most girls like bad boys. They don't give a fuck.

[tatianamay]

Too awkward because*

[tatianamay]

Haha, lol, yeah, thankfully only douchebags and emotionally unavailable dudes until now 🤠

[PrincetonGirl97]

That's why I married another woman 😃

[tatianamay]

Lmao, I’m done with bad boys tho. I used to be sooo into bad boys because of Wattpad. Yes, that app increased my expectations of a dream guy like crazy. But then, I came across and had strong feelings for 2 douchebags who played me, so nope, no bad boys anymore lol. Only good guys

[tatianamay]

Wow, that’s really cool 😎

[PrincetonGirl97]

I dated a bad boy for 5 years, now he's a good man 🤣. You never know who somebody is gonna be in 5 years. My best advice to you is to be what you wanna attract

[tatianamay]

Wow, really? It must’ve been so exciting! I remember having feelings for this bad boy, damn, in Taylor Swift’s words: it was a roller coaster kinda rush

[tatianamay]

Lol, I always tend to attract emotionally unavailable drug addicts who are so into depression 😅

[PrincetonGirl97]

You wanna find somebody who knows you. Like.. You don't have to say shit and they just know what you're feeling

[tatianamay]

That’s too hard lol. Like, how do I find the guy?

[PrincetonGirl97]

You gotta keep your eyes open but your head alert. And I'll be honest lol you gotta do a bit of the changing. Find the one away from the crowd. Someone different. Uniqueness is a big time winner.

[tatianamay]

That’s too hard for me lol. I have anxiety, it’s mild but I find it hard to talk to people because I tend to overthink everything and get nervous real easily

[tatianamay]

But thank you! I’ll try that. That’s a pretty good advice tbh 💜

[PrincetonGirl97]

Hmu in dms if you ever need advice. I've been through a lot lol

[Nick245]

@PrincetonGirl97 thats a lot of conversation

[tatianamay]

@PrincetonGirl97 sure! Thank you, that’s so sweet of you 💜🦋

[Blackcupcake]

He’s fun to be around, we vibe well and he makes me comfortable

[domo0906]

His words matches his actions.

[Ukrainianbuddafly]

Consistency, honesty and effort.

[tupacs_only_wife]

Just being a gentleman is good enough

[SouthGeorgiaGirl]

Manners in public, aggressive control in private.

[JosyJosy]

Maturity.