Do you find obese women attractive?

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boombastik · Accepted Answer

Because I'm not bashful I'll tell you about me and big girls but first off all no ii don't and never have I been with anyone obese but I've been with 2 big girls, The first one made me feel like a rookie because it's really awkward and evidently there are a whole different set of techniques I knew nothing about. I didn't think I would have to use geometry when having sex. The other girl was smaller but bigger than I'm comfortable with but beer goggles will fool you. Anyways she asked if she could get in top and I tried to pretend I didn't hear her because I was a little scared. I was not bout to let her get on top. Well she asked again and I tried to ignore her but then asked me "are you afraid I'm gonna squish you, don't worry, I know what I'm doing". So now I'm laying there with her on top (I know, thought I wasn't going to either) and she kicked it into 5th gear and I have never seen a big girl move that damn fast in my life. I just knew she was gonna miss a stroke and I was gonna end up in the hospital but to my amazement she handled that shit like an olympian lol. Big girls may not be my cup of tea but they got my respect.

MCheetah · Accepted Answer

Not by that much. I find thick/plus sized women attractive. And I can find full-figured women attractive. But not SSBBW's.

What some people fail to realize is that there is "neat big," like my ex was, where they are wide and fuller figured, but not all drooping over the place. And then there is "sloppy big," where they have a huge gut and everything is sagging all over the place and they have love handles (fat rolls). I know some men don't like either one, but there IS a difference. The best way to determine the difference is to look at the stomach. If their stomach is sagging, then they are FAT. If their stomach is still flat or mostly flat, then they are THICK.

My Ex: Full-figured/thick (wide but with a flat stomach)

oliver4love · Answer

For me honestly I love obese women because no one is perfect in this world.. It's a myth at Social media in now day's promote slim models with sharp attractive breast, slim waist that mean not only slim girl's attract men's , every girl in the world is beautiful only looking nature of every man is different and every girl in the world is princess in someone eyes when time and destiny come sure she meet to his prince 🤴 charm then no matter she is slim or fat..

Xitomyth · Answer

Personally, no, I am not attracted to women that big, I will however go a bit bigger than my preference depending her personality though. I have a friend who finds women like shit attractive, so there are people out there who do. To each their own and all that... I typically prefer my woman to be healthy (sometimes that means a little pudgy) and/or athletic/in shape. Not necessarily thinner, but not fat in the true sense.

Anonymous · Answer

Some I do. None of those pictured but some. I used to work with this woman who was 5'11" and she was very attractive. And when she would put on weight it'd all go to her chest and hips so she just got curvier. One day she was on a diet and I asked her why she thought she needed to diet and she said her BMI is in the obese range.

Maybe it was cause she was tall maybe it was just where her body stored fat and she was just lucky to have it like that. But she was hot. And I wasn't the only one who thought so.
That would have been enough but she was one of the most honorable, honest, and kind women I've ever met. She was a catch.

TonyV · Answer

I can, its definitely a case to case basis, I dont have a fetish so it's not an definitely yes, but im Also not shallow so extra wait isn't an automatic no either..

Some girls carry it well and others dont so I might find one obese girl attractive and another not

Anonymous · Answer

All the guys saying no can’t handle that much curves, lol. And it doesn’t matter if her belly is big or not, that wouldn’t matter.

If she has health problems she wants to fix, we’ll go to a good source of help rather than to someone who goes “it’s because of your weight” without testing anything else at all. Also we’ll fix health problems without focusing on losing weight unless it’s 100% caused by the weight itself.

ChubbyKing · Answer

Well obesity is based on your BMI, it's not really a body type so can't really say yes or no to the question itself but to the pictures given, I would say no. The average height of a woman in the US for example, is 5'4" (~162.5 cm) and for her to be considered obese she'd have to be about 175lbs (~79.5kg). I have met women that fit that description that I find attractive, although I prefer girls that are a bit chubby so I'm kinda biased

chnapo · Answer

Not at all, not in the slightest. I am sorry. It is not natural, it is not healthy and often it is a result of a bad lifestyle. That is not why I don´t find them attractive, only a defence against mean comments that would call me judgmental. I have my right to like and dislike whatever I choose to.

Notfabricated · Answer

As long as I find her attractive enough , and that personality is a1 then I'm down for a date. But realistically speaking I'm a man on the move who like to backpack and hike and other things so I she would have to be able to keep up.

Aether1 · Answer

Enough with the fat acceptance BS, any doctor would agree with me that they are at much higher risk of high blood pressure and a heart attack.

Brianbrake · Answer

what is attractive about a very unhealthy body? nothing

TheUniqueOne96 · Answer

Not big like those pictures, at least not in terms of body. When someone is that big, it can make their face look overly fat too, although it's not always the case.

WVRLXCK · Answer

I have a thing for girl with a little meat on them, but not obese.

SomeGuyCalledTom · Answer

No I don't, in the same way I don't find chain smokers or binge drinkers attractive.

Zang101 · Answer

It depends, but usually not aethetically or sexually. The woman in the picures, no.
But looks aren't the only things about people to be attractred to. If she's a genuine person with a great personality, and is either confident with her weight and/or actively working to change it, that's more attractive than the weight itself.

ARealHonestHuman · Answer

no. i think they should be healthy. Ialready have diabetes n im slowly struggling to do things in my personal life just from having diabetes. Obesity is worse, i just hope she lives a longer life as healthy than die in a pile of sugar

CaptainOverthink · Answer

No. I am ashamed of the reaction of disgust I can feel at times. I want to suppress it and most times I don't even think of their form but sometimes.. It's just that feeling that comes over.

Nik1hil · Answer

No...  I hate obese people!..  Unless it's because of a medical condition...  To me obesity displays lack of self control on eating.. And that indicates that she has mental illness of some kind..

Anonymous · Answer

Not morbid obese. The girls in the pictures are a little too much for me. But over all, chubby girls are great for a good quick fuck. And especially for blowjobs. I wouldn't seriously date them though. Someone else can do that.

HAIRLESS-0002 · Answer

Although I like a very skinny and smaller girls, I have to admit that some girls are beatifull if have a stronger figure, and if they can dress nicely., that it's beautiful for eye`s. But girl on foto is too big (opposite) extreme for me.

ThePolishKnight37 · Answer

I have seen a lot that are really good looking. Personality still p[lays a big part. I have been attracted to a few. Face and eyes are usually where I look first and I can get turned on by a face and eyes.

SuhRaw · Answer

Yes sometimes but attractiveness comes from the inside out.

HawkPerception · Answer

Not a chance. I'm fit myself and find it disgusting when people let themselves get that big. I'm definitely only into fit, slim girls.

Andres77 · Answer

You can be obese and pretty... but not attractive. All I see when I see these girls is diabetes and other health issues and transportation issues. It's not healthy nor safe.

Leavesbound · Answer

That depends on the woman. Some big girls are gorgeous and with others it distorts their facial features.

Fuentes · Answer

No and if a chubby chick happens to have a lot of curves i like that but if she's huge like a whale NO

Sargentcaptain · Answer

I prefer my partners to live past the ripe old age of 35.

Adam1978 · Answer

No in no way or form. If you reach the obese state your attraction score is on a negative number.

clampfan101 · Answer

There’s still some beauty, but not nearly as much as a healthy body.

blondfrog · Answer

Not that obese but yes I do find fat and very fat women attractive.

AydenHazor · Answer

It's not just looks that make someone attractive, A beautiful person can lol any attraction through their attitude and personality and an obese person can be very attractive because of theirs.

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