How can a black girl be more appealing to white guys?

[Anonymous]

I’m so attracted to European men, I see them all the time, walmart, school, outside whatever and I find so many I’m attracted to but I never get anyone’s attention back. I keep attracting the opposite. I’m not really into guys my race, I just never was sexually attracted very much, and I always get the weirdo, over weight, 25 year old wanna be music producer who’s been in an out of jail. I want to meet a guy like me In college, talks propper who’s as awkward and dorky as me. I always get rejected by the guys I’m into.

WHAT DO WHITE GUYS LIKE? AND STOP SAYING ASAINS BECAUSE I KNOW, LIKE HOW CAN A BLACK GIRL GET ONE OF y'all

Thanks :)

[bamesjond0069]

Well we like black girls that are:

Thin - that whole thick big girl stuff is not something white men in general are into. Yeah some ass is good too but id say in general what white men call thicc and according to rap videos and such what they call thicc is very different.

Feminine - no shaved heads or short little hair styles. We know your hair is different but long box braids or a medium and well maintained afro is far superior to some of these like shaved styles i see. Wigs/weaves ok too but that purple bowl cut one is not attractive or the little mohawk... nah we like normal feminine hairstyles.

Conservative - yeah most black people tend to be of a more liberal mindset... most white men are conservative. Idc how hot or fun or smart you might be but i just dont date anyone liberal... so there goes a large portion of black women right there. This is a demographic sort of issue.

Not ghetto - it doesn't sound like your problem but if she exclusively listens to rap and just is all into that culture and dress style its a turn off. I literally dated a black girl with grills but she knew how to act classy and i could take her to country bars and do things that are not part of ghetto culture just fine so a little is ok but when it gets in the way it gets in the way.

Lastly its not a commonly represented pairing. Many white men have an idea that black girls don't like them. So you might have to let it be known a little. Casually mention a white celeb crush. Or just something to let people know.

Good luck.

[Made4sex]

Oh sweet hart! There is NOTHING wrong with who you are or what you do! You are black and beautiful and maybe dorky but you are also probably really smart and artsy and sexy! And i PROMISE you that it isn’t anything to do with you or what you are doing. But just timing. Because there are a whole lot of guys who are attracted to black girls! White, Asian, black, Whoever! None of that matters! Because I know guys all over are attracted to whoever. There are no ethnic preferences unless someone forces them. And no one who understands that has any reason to prefer one over another. Just hold out there honey! You will get your man in white some day!

[Made4sex]

Thanks for the HMO!! Good luck babe!

[Foreignerlove04]

First of all change your mindset. If you keep thinking that you attract the opposite you will. I’m not crazy or lying, for me this has really worked, just wake up every morning and say to yourself or out loud: I’m attractive to European men. And believe it to yourself. Good luck 🍀

[Oceation]

I would say be yourself. The white guys who are right for you are the guys who are into you as a person and don't see you as just a fetish.

[Lucky2345667]

Black women are naturally, sexually attractive to many white males just like women of other races are.
It doesn't fit the definition of a fetish.
The fetishizing label is just meant to shame people from dating other races by acting as if It's a disorder or something evil.
It's neither.
The definition of a fetish is a sexual fixation on a body part or object that isn't typically seen as sexual.
A black woman can't be a fetish to a white man or any other race because she's already, naturally sexually attractive to him.
He simply would have a preference for her, not a fetish.

[Oceation]

@Lucky2345667 Depends on why he has the preference. If he's reducing her down to a bunch of stereotypes, then that counts as racial fetishism.

[Lucky2345667]

There's no such thing as racial fetishism.
There's one definition for the term fetish and it has nothing to do with race.
Hypothetically if a person did have a fetish for a particular race it would have to relate to everything that race encompasses, not just the black women.
Once you make the distinction that he has a "Fetish for black women" , the fetish part goes right out the window.
She is already, naturally sexually attractive to him so she can't be a fetish according to the definition.

[MrCommodore]

I've always found many black women and Indian women to be hot and beautiful, but in Western Europe there were never many single women like this.

Just be yourself, but in public always be patient and kind to others around you, I always noted if a girl is patient with others and kind, its really attractive.

[The-Wise-Phoenix]

It's not complicated
Be nice
Be feminine
That goes for all women of all races.
Sorry this could not be more helpful.
Oh yeah and one other important thing.
Many white men believe that black women have no interest in dating a white man ever.
Maybe they are not rejecting you
It just never occurs to them that you are Interested.

[JackSmy]

Sorry, and it isn't 'racist' but I have said, before, on here, that I am only attracted to Norse women, Irish, Scottish, and Kiwis, with Pale white skin! Just what I like. We share language and some 'culture', even though I am American, but of Norse ancestry.

[DWornock]

That is primarily based on looks. If we thought we had a chance, almost every white guy would want this girl

Of course, most of us realize she is way out of our league.

[Hanrej]

My girl is black. 😊
It's not so much that she tried as the fact that I was drawn to her, fascinated by who she was as a person.
You'll have to do what everyone regardless of race do, make yourself interesting, work out, get a few social interests like games or Sports, define yourself and more clearly what you want and then... Have patience.

[dolemite89]

i like cute black girls 🤷‍♂️ i wouldn’t say u have to do anything specifically, just talk to more white guys

[Asker]

;———; bless

[dolemite89]

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[Asker]

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[AlexanderAnttila]

Try not to be obsessed by the whole ethnicity of it all and you should be fine.
You're an American? I noticed Walmart. And you say you see *Europeans* all the time? Seems unlikely, white guys you mean.

[Jamie05rhs]

They're either attracted to you or they're not. The only way to know is to ask him. If it's a no, it's a no; move on.

I have credibility here because I am a white guy who is attracted to some black girls but not all of them.

[dudeinohio]

I absolutely love black women. Lots of white guys do. Just gotta be lucky enough to find one. The biggest obstacle is the guy being afraid of rejection.

[Anonymous]

Honestly I just have to know that she likes white guys, which is hard to tell.
It's like some black women absolutely hate us and a few love us.
If she's cute, I would have no problem dating her.

[kingykringy]

You’d be surprised how much of a thing it actually is

[Opinion Owner]

@kingykringy
Really?
Have you met lots of black women who are open to dating white men?

[Surely]

Be friendly. Be nice, and hang out in mixed company.

[Anonymous]

Finally; a reason to shop at Walmart, though I believe my local store is 3k miles away.

[zagor]

Are you in college? There should be lots of guys there.

[Protein_mate]

“Wanna be music producer” ahaha

Just be yourself, there’s no specific way to attract us haha

[SmokinAces2000]

Are you implying that there is something wrong with black women that makes them undesirable

[SmokinAces2000]

Actually it seems like that is what you are saying

[madr4567]

Just be Nice and ditch the «I am too good for you» attitude, that some Black women have and you will score eventually!

[James_Likes_PPL]

European men are uncut. Ewwwww.

[pink_macaron]

You see European men in Walmart?

[Browneye57]

Focusing on race is a giant fail.

[IncognitoBandito]

Just be emotionally open and a little flirty