What makes a guy sexy and attractive?

[benmo]

Poeple's opinions of sexiness differs of course and I'd like to knwo what you think in this regard.

[SueShe]

I never associate a person with sex and therefore, nobody in my mind is sexy.

This is a term that is pejorative because it associates sex with a person. There is no such thing as sexuality when one talks about a person because it is directly an objectification of the subject (s).

I am totally against the objectification/sexualization of human beings as it shows how vain we are to reduce a person to his/her genitals.

Attractiveness on the other hand has strictly nothing to do with sexualization. You can be attracted intellectually with a person and this limits the attractiveness to the mind and not to the genitals.

[Tiptoetamm]

Well for me it's many things, the easy he carries himself, confidence is everything. One if the first things i notice is his eyes, jaw line, how tall he is, his arms shoulders, I think a man with Broad shoulders, defined jaw line with a beard, I like tattoos but if her doesn't have any tattoos idc, I've been with clean cut men abs men struth big bushy beards my preferences have changed the older I get

[ChrisMaster69]

Decent bank balance

Confidence, ability to show respect to a girl, honesty, openness, being basically nice person, listening to her, not simply looking at her boobs. Treating her as a person with a brain.
Not fawning but also not acting like she is a 2nd class person. Treat her normal.

[Anonymous]

Hard question. Personally it’s all on the way you act and behave, it happened a lot of time that at first I found a guy not pretty but after spending some time with him I would have wanted to throw him on the bed :P Charme it’s the key

[doopayo]

The way they portray themselves

[Anonymous]

Confident, suave look